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is it me or is it her....or am i really her?
-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)
ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
P.S. also...i asked him last night on-line what this girls name is and he said "marissa" and i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..and when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again
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Answer's quite simple...Your the girl he's talking about!...No guy goes through so much trouble as he has to keep on askin you the same ?'s...
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Sounds like it was a big mess at the time something tells me he is trying to find out if u like him or not ans sound surprized about it.. i guess its about equil between the two guys and girls both have it hard with dateing you cant really say asking is harder then answering bc well.. its just as hard girls are afraid of hurting there feelings and guys dont wanna make fools of there selfs by asking and getting rejected. From what you tell me it sounds like he likes you but is really shy about asking and he wants to do it RIGHT!.. just wait and see if u like him try hinting at him that you like him.. if not let him down easy and tell him ya wanna be good friends thats all. well.. hope i helped x0xLuckyx0x
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This is really My opionion, but it really really sounds like he likes you. I'm kinda in the same position, but I never get the guts to actually tell im i like him or even get close. but it does sound like he likes you. If you have AIM, my sn is AllyBBear and my other one's Evl Sqrls, i'm almost always on AllyBBear, so if you have AIM go ahead and IM me and i might be able to help you a bit more.
~*~Ally~*~
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Just be blunt with the guy.
Ask him if he wants to get with you or some other girl...
Sometimes, stepping up and taking initiative is the only thing to do...
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It sounds like he likes you and you are her and I think he was afraid that you were taken and that you were going to turn him down.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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Well, I might be wrong, and sorry if I am, but I personally think he might like you. I don't think there is another girl, and tell him this next time he asks.
I would go up to her and be like, I was wondering, do you think you might want to go out with me, like boyfriend/girlfriend, or atleast just on a date. Then be like, see it's simple. If a guy said that to me, I'd say yes to a date, and then see if he eventually asks you.
I also asked my sister, and she said she thinks he likes you, we actually agree on something, I sort of find that amazing. But she's older then me, so well whatever.
Just incase, you might want to get some more opions, I don't want you to be mad at me if I'm wrong. But good Luck, he does seem like he likes you!! <3Lucifer<3
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well, if he duz lyk this marissa person and he's givin u signals that he lyks u too, well then thats just weird. 4 the bit about him lykin marissa keep tellin him that gurls like guys who r honest and tell them how they truly feel and are not fake-just themselves. if he duzn't believe u say "i shud no, cuz i'm a girl". just keep tellin him dat, maybe get a few ov ur friends 2 tell him da same thing 2 get him 2 fell mor secure. about him giving u mixed signals that he lyks u or not, just ask him straight forward cuz he confuzed u. and if he dodges the question then don't sweat it, but keep an eye on him and bring up those kinds of questions subtly. and about the fiting about bein harder 2 b a gurl or a guy, don't give into it and tell him dat its immature and maybe dat will make him not wanna tlk about it anymor...i hope u work thins out wit him!! xox :)
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Like what is your question lol cuz I was kinda confused
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I dont really kno wut the question is...
Nikki
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well first whats your question? well i think i know what it is. i would just be like Okay! listen! it is harder to be a girl because if someone asks us out and we dont like them we are scared they will get mad and do something crazy like cut themselves! so it is hard to be a girl! i know im not a guy so im not sure if it is harder ! so stop asking me! 2nd - for the asking out part.. tell him to just confront the girl! like " hey marrissa , i got a ? do you wanna go out with me? " easy as that! hope i answered your ? i tried so hard lol! kLg*
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