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unwanted male


Question Posted Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:17 pm

Hey,
theres this guy that always flirts with me, always talks not stop, and he even called me sweet. He taps my foot all the time and we end up getting into a flirty footwar, lol. I think hes gonna ask me out, but i really like him as a friend. What are some ways to turn a guy down nicely so that he doesnt hate u forever?
Signed,
girl under an attack of unwanted predator


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xxxxxx answered Thursday November 18 2004, 6:25 am:
stop flirting with him! you're leading him on! when he asks you out just be like sorry i only like you as a friend. i know thats crappy advice but THERES NOTHING MORE YOU CAN SAY.

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Haustrian13 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 9:30 pm:
ok...all those fuckers who says be "friends with benefits" are horny dipshits who dont realize what a bad idea that is. Believe me, fwb is fun...but it's the dumbest thign to do in the world with somebody who likes you. so just dont do it.

also...stop being a slut and flirting with him...it's leading him on...and it's bad...you're dumb. you deserve being hated by him forever. to get the the hating point of the relationship faster tell him to fuck off...or have sex with his best friend (that should work too)

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bl0nd3atheart11 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 9:12 pm:
hey some people r telling u 2 ignore him n u really shouldn't do tht but if he does ask u out just say i wanna be friends with benefits =]! Also make sure hez not hurt in any way!

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xSammieXlubsXux answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 9:08 pm:
i think that you should just tell him how you feel...tell him what you just asked, but rephrase it as a statement. to make it easier, tell him that you just want to be friends and that you would rather keep it that way..
i hoped i helped

sam

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XoCountryCutieXo answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 9:01 pm:
Hey lol jus tell him u like him as a frind, or tell him that u dont wanna go out or that u liek him but when peoeple tend to go out and break up they dont stay freinds and u wanan always be freinds with him ! let him kno that u wanan be good frinds jus not lovers!
Good Luck
Blayre

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KMUL05 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:58 pm:
Tell him that you arent ready for a relationship with anyone at the moment. hope i helped! mauuh!

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sUnsEt_rOO18 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:53 pm:
"Id really rather be friends"--rachael

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xsunkiszed3x answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:50 pm:
just tell him that you like him as only a friend and you dont want to ruin your friendship. its easier if you tell him sooner then later so he wont get hurt ! hope i helped!

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Dramdol1 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:50 pm:
one way you could say it im really busy right now and dont have time for a bf right now it would not be fair for both of us

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Reesespieces022 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:48 pm:
for now, try to not act flirty towards him- i know sometimes being friendly to someone can be mistaken for flirting, but just watch what you say. you don't want to be accused of leading him on later. if he does ask you out, tell him that he is an amazing guy, who you, under any other circumstances would die to go out with, but
you like him way too much as a friend to wanna screw it up. the main idea is to compliment him and boost his confidence while at the same time, turning him down. leave one in my inbox or im me if u need anything else.. good luck : )

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frenchfries21 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:38 pm:
just nicely tell him u like him as a friend and nothing more, then suggest him asking out another girl that you can c he likes. he wont totally hate you. hope this helped ~stef~

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Adrz answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:35 pm:
I think yer leadin him on a lil by flirtin...BUT...say your with someone else, or not ready for a boyfriend, or just tell him like it is, say hes a good friend and you dont want to be in a relationship with him because you dont want to ruin the friendship you have with him


Hope i helped

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xolilabbs214ox answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:33 pm:
~hEy~
YoU cAn tElL hIm ThAt YoU lIkE sOmEoNe eLsE!!
HoPE i hElPeD
PlEaSe rAtE
x0x0 AbBeY x0x0

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gsgirl answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:28 pm:
just be liek o im sorry i really like you so i dont want to mess up our friendship.

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