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i need some new stores to shop at. i love shirts like this http://store.delias.com/browse.do?categoryID=1484&page=1&size=&color= and most wet seal shirts. for jeans, i absolutely love skinny jeans. most of my jeans are skinny jeans. what stores have clothes like that, besides delias, alloy, wet seal, and dots? because i shop there allll the time, but i need different stuff.

thanks!

Forver21 and H&M!

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Apparently I have dry hair?
Even though I don't blowdry, straighten or curl my hair.

What are some good shampoos for dry hair?


No pantene please.

Use Sunsilk hydra 24/7 creme after you shampoo and condition.

Or CHI Silk Infusion. It repairs dry, damaged hair.

As for shampoo, anything by CHI (even though it's expensive) or L'Oreal Vive Pro.

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f/15/5' 6"/ 124 lbs

i eat a lot of junk foods haha.
if i were to eat:

breakfast: cereal and low fat milk
lunch: an apple, water, and fat free yogurt
snack: water and a grapefruit
dinner: lean meat, broccoli, water

and run for 30 minutes a day

would i see a difference in my body within a couple of months as in losing a small amount of weight and toning my legs?

i want to do it as healthfully as possible


thanks!

I think that is a good choice of healty meals. However, if you are working out, you need to introduce a little more carbs (whole wheats) into your diet for energy.

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I'm 14 and wear I 34A...I will consider it small for my age, but I'm curious, am I done growing? What can I do to see that I am done? Someone said you rub them and see if they are around? Thanks!

I don't think you are done growing. You probably won't stop until your late teens. I am in highschool and most of the girls are still growing, as am I. Don't worry!

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ok. my brother keeps watching porne. i was making mac and chesse and i needed to go on the computer and i saw this one girl liek showin her boobs and naked and stuff. it seems so weird becuz my brother is so nice and smart you would never suspect it and everybody loves him. he got introuble with my mom and dad before and i dont want to tell them again. im worried because i dont want him to grow up and turn into this like rapist or whatever when he grows up. i dont know if i should have my 18 year old sister then again im not comfortable telling her. i dont know what to do. he watches all this stuff.please help me.

First of all, I would like to commend you on your admirable bravery for asking advice on this sensitive topic.

Pornography has been a source of decay in our society. Sadly, it has filtered through to our young children of today. The most prudent choice I would make in a situation like this is to notify your parents about your brother's improper behavior. It is your parents' duty to reprimand him for doing this act early. So, it does not escalate to more serious incidents in the future such as unwanted pregnancy, contracting an illness such as a Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD) or even AIDS. In conclusion, you are right thing in telling your parents and I place a heavy emphasis on early detection. Your brother will thank you in the end.

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can blowdrying your hair make your hair lighter?
thanks

If you use Sun-In in your hair when it's wet, and you blowdry it, yes it'll make your hair lighter, but Sun-In is specifically for blondes, so I dont know what is best for you.

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How do I prove to my girlfriend that I like her more? Everytime I say I do, she says "Prove it." So i'm out to find a way tp prove it.

I asked my boyfriend this, and he said:

well one thing, jsut think of sweet things, bringing her a flower every once in a while, making her a little trinkit to keep. when big celebrations come up, think of something each time that will blow her mind away. Like a certian anniversary or christmas or something, invite her over, cook her a beautiful candle lit dinner with rose petals, or set it up so your house seems different than every other time

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My ex called today to say “happy easter”. We dated for 4 months, he dumped me, and it’s been 3 months since the breakup. We go to school together, have lockers next to each other, and have the same friends, but somehow we’ve managed to ignore each other. We were at the same small party last night, and he smiled at me a few times across the room, but I thought it was just coincidence. Why did he call? He has a new gf, but I think they might have broken up. Any insights into what he might be thinking or trying to do would be much appreciated.

Most likely, the ignoring eachother nonsense got to him. It's been awhile since the breakup, you've both gotten over it, and he probably wants to start fresh. Most of all, he's being really mature about it. You should start talking to him more, and maybe he'll uncover that he has feelings for you again. Who knows?

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well, the girlfriend and i were havin sex last night...i came in the condom i was wearing, then pulled out....but she kept things goin till i got erect again about 15 minutes later...still wearing that same condom with the cum in it, we started having sex again...the condom then broke a few minutes later...i pulled out as soon as i noticed...but im worried that the cum already in the condom could still possibly get her pregnant??...id really appreciate an answer. Thanks ppl.

first off, she totally has a chance of getting pregnant. HOWEVER, I'll be hopeful. It depends on where the condom broke. Did the semen literally spill out? or was it just a slit in the side. Also, they say that sperm dies when it reaches air, blah blah blah, so there's that SMALL chance, but when sperm is in a warm moist place, aka the vagina, it's the perfect place to be. not good. and lastly, it depends on her cycle. ask her if she was ovulating, or if she was just a couple days after her period. the chances of getting pregnant are higher when ovulating. what does your girlfriend think of all this? get back to me please!

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if an atheist lived an honest life according to his own morals, which were parallel to "god's law" would he be condemned to hell? because the bible seem to condamn all who does not believe in jesus and god to this hell. there fore if all one need to do was to believe to get into heaven, then why bother the pious behavior? similarly if pious behavior without faith earns one hell, then is this judgement really fair?

Good point. But I bet the thing God want's most is followers. Sure there are atheists out there who commit no crime and whatnot. Yet there are also sinners who follow God. But it's NOT the sins that gets you into hell, because you can be forgiven. If you were part of God, and then deny him, I think that will get you condemned. I believe that atheists go nowhere when they die.

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So my acne is really red. What kind of makeup do i put on to make it close to my skin color. I don't know what to use...I have really dry skin too.

Wet'n wild Blemish concealer :)

it works wonders and it's only $2

its on a stick

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14/f

So I have sweaty palms all the time, no matter how cold it is. Now, I was going to put deoderant on my hands, but on the instruction label, it says "underarms only". Am I going to get a rash or something if I put deoderant on my hands? Or is there some other (inexpensive) product I should be buying?

5's for all

CERTAIN-DRI

buy it at a drugstore

its about 7 dollars : )

its for palms AND underarms

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I'm 14/f. I have a dozen good friends, and I need to find cute gifts to get them all for Christmas. They're all girls, and I'd appreciate some cute ideas or something (preferably 15 bucks or under per gift). If anybody has any ideas, like how to wrap the gifts or what I should give them, then let me know. They're all normal girls who like girly things, just to give you an idea of what I'm looking for. Fives for all who respond.

there are alot of cute gift idea's that stores have right now.

Old navy has CUTE fleece blankets for $10 dollars.

GAP has cute scarves, gloves, leg warmers...

Strawbridges has adorable pajama sets

you can get affordable PERFUMES from Hollister, Pac Sun, Aeropostale... they're like $12

AE/Aeropostale - really cute underwear


those are some things I got for my friends. hope it helps :)

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Okay so I love leg warmers.
Where can you find some cute ones (I live in Arizona so it's kinda hard to find cold-weather clothes)

GAP has really really really cute ones out now. Check it out on their website. I havent seen alot of legwarmers lately, except in GAP so thats your best bet :)

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Ha okay i had no idea what to put this under. But anways. I'm planning on getting a new cell phone for Christmas. I was just wondering, is VerizonWireless a good company? And also, the new LG "The V". Does anyone have it on here? And can you tell me if you can recieve pictures? And if you can send them too? Thanks so much.

Verizon is an excellent idea. I have verizon and I am completely happy with it. They have affordable plans and GREAT service and reception :)

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Hey, ok well ok im 14, and i recently lost my virginity a few days ago. I didnt use a condom, and im scared. Do you think i could be pregnant? But we probably only had sex for a minute. Please help im wooooried!!

It really depends on your cycle. If you were during or a few days after your period you most likely wont get pregnant. But if you are ovulating, the chances are significantly higher. Also, sperm can live inside of you for up to 5 days, searching for an egg.

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What are some good party ideas for a party in a basement in the winter. Food, decoration, game ideas? There is probably going to be around either 30 or 15 people whether i decide to invite some people.

Definitely have a buffet table with pizza, sandwiches, chips and dip. If you're going to have a party before the holidays, hang chrismas decorations around your basement. Mistletoe is a cute idea! You should play holiday music, but if thats lame then just normal music. Good luck with it

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15/sophmore/female.

I have been with my boyfriend since feb. 2nd 2004. yes, 2004, not a typo. He has always gotten, uneasy (i guess thats the word) when i talk to or hang out with other guys. Me and my boyfriend go to different schools. Well I talk to this guy from my summer job, and he is 21, and in college. My boyfriend is 17, and i am 15. And my boyfriend is on drumline, and so I am so used to him not getting home until 6:00. I get home around 3:30. well, he doesnt have drumline anymore, so he was home today. and i didnt call him. so when I did, he didnt sounded, not mad, but upset, i cant describe it. and he asked if i was online, and i said yes. and then he asked if i was "talking to that twenty year old " and i said yes, and i was talking to Elise too. And he said "I'll call you later" and i asked why. and then i cant remeber the rest, it was really short, and then he hung up. and didnt say bye. so i called back, no answer. i called his cell, no answer, so i texted him saying that im sorry and that he cant get mad at me for talking with my friends and that i love him (being my boyfriend) in a way that i could never love anyone else.

My boyfriend and i do have silly fights alot. but this one is stupid, i mean, this guy is 6years older than me. I would never date him. He is a good friend,sorta like a brother to me.

did i do anything wrong?
My boyfriend and i just got over the whole "cant hug the opposite sex" thing. he used to get upset when i did that. keep that in mind.

What should I do? What should i say? should i call my boyfriend? text him?

any advice is welcome.
if you need more info, just ask for it. thank you.

-Kelsey-

I'd say your boyfriend is really afraid of losing you. It's a guy thing, I know because my boyfriend is the same way. You definitley didnt do anything wrong, unless you said it cocky. I know its a girl's nature to make a guy jealous to test them, haha. But I'm not saying you are. If he's really truly upset, I think you should go out and buy him a Hallmark card that expresses how you feel, and then write a little note. I hope he's not being immature about it and holding a grudge. There's only so much you can do to apologize. He might have a selfesteem issue and his feelings might be hurt easily. Instead of being mad, look at it as he feels competition with the 20-year-old guy. Make sure you reassure him that he's the only one for you! Good luck

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My 8th grade prom is coming up(towards the end of the school yr.) and its not a problem to find a date for the prom the problem is that i get nervous dancing infront of people i dont know why though. Just to let you'll know i do know how to dance. If anyone has any tips on ways i could get over this please let me know!

if you're afraid to dance in front of people, youre not alone. but it's better to dance and look like an idiot, rather than stand in a corner and look scared. The best thing to do is when youre hanging out with a bunch of your girlfriends(I dont know if youre a guy or girl sorry) but when youre over someones house, just play some dance music and just dance so you can see how they move and try to learn from them. OR if you have a best friend who you trust, ask them to teach you. Also, you can learn alot from dance videos, so on your own time you can copy what they do. Good luck :)

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ok so this is kinda two categories so i picked the one that started the problem i slipped on some steps by my schools office and hurt my right foot and it really hurts. ive gone back to school but i thought that maybe i might get some extra attention from the guy i like weird thing is its like im getting less i mean hes being respectful not racing me to english bc my foot is hurt but its like he doesnt care what happened. i want him to care atleast a little he didnt even ask what happened or offer to help i may just be crazy but i think im making a big deal out of nothing am i? i thought he liked me and now im not so sure

no, youre not making a big deal out of it. he might just be afraid to talk to you if he likes you. Or he just may be a jerk and not care. you shouldnt waste your tears on him if he's not going to pay attention to you :( maybe you could talk to him and be like "aw man my foothurts" or "could you carry my books for me?" always sparks a conversation. good luck

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