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hey!! my names kristin! this advineators site is sooo awesome...i love answering peoples questions cuz i feel lyk im helping them.and it makes me feel special (even tho if i didnt help you..IM SORRY!) lol..but if anyone has a question just ask me cuz ill be more then happy to help you!!!!! :)luv, kristin
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Woah... I usually GIVE advice here but now I'm asking for it. Because I don't know what to do. See... I started going out with this guy, Chris, on September 1. And I've known him since the first day of school (which was August 23). And I never really thought about it until I saw a picture of his family yesterday, but he's half Mexican (I'm white). And I don't have a problem with it, but my mom has this thing about interracial relationships. And she asked if he was white and I told her he was (that was before I saw a picture of his family -- he looks like a real dark-skinned white guy). Then my mom decided she wants to meet Chris, and she wants me to invite him to our Labor Day picnic/cookout thing. I don't know what to do... I'd love him to come here but I'm afraid my mom's going to say something about his race or she's going to make me break up with him or something. What should I do?
hey well first of all....i would invite him and if your mom says anything...be lyk mom i think its so wrong to judge someone by their skin color and be lyk...hes still nice and he has the biggest heart and he would do anything for me. and just because you dont think its right for me to be going out with a mexican guy ...thats not gona make me break up with him. and be lyk god made everyone look different for a reason and then be lyk thats lyk saying i cant go out with a guy becasue his hair is red or something..lol..sry i get to intense..yea but i hope it helpe. just tell ur mom that its SOOO wrong to judge someone by their skin color and then be lyk "well what if you were goin out with a different race guy and ur mom told you that you had to break up with him. how would u feel"?
when i'm going thru pms (the week before my period starts) i break out in pimples really bad. no matter how much i wash my face, they are still there for that one week. but after my pms is over, they go away on their own and i have PERFECTLY clear skin until my next cycle. but when i do break out its really bad, and my dad suggested taking me to the dermatologist, but i was wondering if it's worth going because no matter what medicine i'll use i still think i'll break out during that one week reguardless. what do you think?
HEY! omg u NEED PROACTIV! it works soooo awesome i had lyk mild acne and it cleared my skin up in lyk 2 weeks. proactiv works soooo good...i dunno how it will work for your situation....but it claears up peoples faces soo good....go to www.proactiv.com it will work believe me! i luv it!
ok, i am a 17 yr old female seniro in high school and i am dating this 18 yr old guy who is also a senior in high school and i know he smokes pot, and he thinks i am ok with it. one day at his house he kept asking me if i was sure it didnt bother me, cuz he was gonna go smoke some. he ask me so many times it was almost like he wanted me to say "yeah, it bugs me" but i kept saying no it doesnt bug me, and he was so concerned i would get mad at him for smoking it. but it didnt bother me until he went up to his room to smoke it so he make his house smell like it. thats when i actually got upset about it, but i didnt wanna tell him that. then that night we went out with my best friend and her fiance. and i tried to hold his hand and things as much as i could so he wouldnt think i was mad at him (cuz we are always that type of super physical together unless one is upset at the other)
so now i dont know what to tell him cuz it kinda does bug me, even though i have known for like 3 yrs that he did. but it didnt hit me untill then. so know i dont know what to say, cuz my mom wants him to get a drug test, and i know he wont pass it, i was thinking of asking him to quit for me, since i love him so much, and for himself. but i dont wanna sound selfish and thigns like that. so i dont know what to do. SOME ONE HELP ME PLZ!!!!!!!!!!
hey just lyk tell him that you love him so much and lyk nothing could ever change that and then lyk tel lhim you dont lyk when he smokes cuz ur afriad for him...cuz basically smoking pot are similar to cigs....there just lyk cancer sticks...and tell him from the bottom of ur heart you really would lyk it if he tried to quit cuz u love him so much and you dont want him to get cancer in the future. but then be lyk if you dont wanna quit ill still love you just as much but i really would lyk to see you try to quit....hope i helped!!!
Ok I have my cartilage pierced and it's beel pierced since the end of May. I ran out of the cleaning stuff the store gave me and now it's infected and swollen. I was wondering what I could use to clean it. I have hydrogen peroxide and isperyl alcohol (not sure if that's what it's called). Would either of those work or should I use something else? Thanks! I rate!
hey...well yea those things could work but also you should go back to the place you got the solution from originally and but another bottle....i got my cartlige pierced to....ITS SUCH A PAIN..isnt it?...lol o well...
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Ok...I'm 16 years old and I don't go to a regular school...I go to a girls' school. I don't KNOW any boys. I just don't. I wanted to meet some because I really want a boyfriend. So, I went to a restaurant the other day, and started smiling at one of the guys there. He just gave me a look like "What? Why are you staring at me?"
What is wrong with me??? I thought that was a good way!!
Well, atleast I got his attention, right?
ugh.........
well i suggest that you let the guy make the first move. lyk if you see a guy staring at you then just lyk make some random excuse to go up and talk to him lyk say something lyk "hey i lyk...(BLAH BLAH")..lol. but yea there is a guy out there for you. and also you should go to dances lyk i dunno...ANYWHERE..well hope i helped!
ok about 3 months ago i begged my parents to let me get a hamster...they sed ya...so i got one and ive tooken really good care of it..no problems...well i hav a big enuf cage and i decided i want to get a female hamster n let them mate so i can make them have babies...my mom sed i hav to look into it to make sure its ok n stuff bc she thinks its nasty (she hates rodents) does ne 1 kno ne websites about breeding? also...how do ilet them mate..like will they attack eachother if i buy a female?/..i gues the websites will explain but idk ne websites...ne 1 kno any websites? or has ne 1 did this?
hey...just go to google.com and type in lyk "breeding hampsters" and that should give you all the info you need!
i want to loose 4-up pounds in about 9 days. I really just want a flatter stomach but still wanna loose some punds. What can i do? Need all the help i can get. (Usally rate HIGH)
hey!!! u should go on the special k diet...its lyk a cereal ya kno "special k"....well theres this plan you can go on and you eat it 2 times a day and you do it for two weeks and u can loose 6 pounds or more. but lyk you have to use SKIM MILK...yea its pretty gross and so is special k but i dunno if u wanna try it then you shoiuld if ur lyk desperate...
Ok so I'm starting my new job at Subway on Monday. And I want to know how I should do my make-up and stuff. I have medium brown hair, green eyes, and kind of tan/pale skin. They said we can wear jewelry, but not long necklaces. I want to wear earrings but do you think hoop earrings would be ok for the first day? They also said we could have our nails done but just professionaly. Thanx! I'll rate you a ONE!
hey i suggest that you wear sort of a light brown eye shadow with mascara and lyk a light red or bark pink blush and lyk a shiny lip gloss. dont go overboard on everything. i just started a new job this year. and the firts day i came in a looked all nice with my name up and everything.. and my hair. and then when i got there all the girls were just wearing sweats and a t shirt and i was lyk OMG. lol but anyways good luck
Ok well...Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and are now expecting a lil girl in october.I have put up with alot these past 2 years with him drinking and a bunch of other stuff and finally i got him to quit alot of stuff he use to do,and hes been doing really good except i see a pattern here.Its like everytime im not around he decides to go somewheres and drink and then gets himself in trouble no matter what.Just the other night a cop brought him here around 3 in the morning and he was drinking!He needs some help and i dont know what to do anymore.Hes going to be 22 but acts like hes 16 still.I love him so much but i dont want the baby to be around this shit.What should i do?? :*-( (Sorry its so long...)
hey. i would recommend going to a counsler or something. maybe you and him should go and voice all your concerns to the counsler. the counsler person will help and shell give him some medicine to lyk help not to think about drinking and itll keep his mind busy so he wont drink (ive been on it before. except my problem wasnt drinking lol.maybe you can seriously sit down and talk to im ONE LAST TIME. and tell him that you are so upset with his behavior sometimes and that you dont want him to have a bad influence on the baby and then give him 3 chances and be lyk if i catch you drinking 3 more times and your drunk then im leaving you or something..cuz he can be drinking all of the time. thats crazy and esp around your new baby.....its just NOT right
hey! well me and my friend are wondering if collared shirts are in style. Alot of our friends dress a little less conservative then we do, and they think that collared shirts are preppy. Even if u unbutton them and wear them with cute low rise jeans, is that still too preppy? or should we try a differnt outfit?. thanx
collared shirts are def. in style..and no there not preppy...there soo cute. i mean who caes if the other girls thing its preppy tell them what there wearing is preppy. if u lyk a shirt that has a collar on it....then buy it! dont care what other people think...
Hey Girl What Kind Of Tannin stuff do ya use? Ive tryed everythin but nothing seems ta work!
i use neutrogena spray on tan....it works ok....it stays on for lyk 2 weeks but then it starts to fade...my mom wont let me go to a tanning salon so i use that ..lol..it works ok i guess...i think its the best tanning stuff out there...you should buy it...its only lyk 10 bucks and you cna get it at lyk any drug store lyk cvs or somrthing or at lyk target or somrthing...
Has anyone ever gone on a "water-diet"? nothing but water...ice/water...and then u eat something on the third day...?has anyone gone on this or know if it works??
lol no i havnt...but it doesnt really sound lyk a good diet... i mean it would prolly work since ur not eating anything...but you need to eat...instead of water diet heres what you should do...ok...skip breakfast or if your really hungry at breakfast just have a yogurt...and eat lyk fruit or a salad for lunch with lyk ice water..and then for dinner eat what your mom or dad makes...or just eat regular for dinner but nothing to fattening...and then dont eat any snacks after dinner and if you do make sure its not to fattening! lol..try it...it sounds lyk it could work...tell me if you decide to do it..
Where can I get one of those yellow livestrong bands for lance armstrong?
hey ....you can go to.... www.wearyellow.com
they have them and you can order it online..there only a doller....my brother got one from his friends mom ...some people buy a whole bunch and then sell them...but your best bet is it order it online...
I usually buy my makeup from somewhere like Target, or the drug store or whatever...well...I wanna get some nice expensive makeup that will last and be realllllyyy good...does anyone have some advice on good makeup to get from a deparment store that is not too expensive.
hey well you could go to lyk an actual beauty supply store...target and lyk drug stores do have good makeup ...you just have to kno the good qualities lyk revlon and theres lyk other good companies...if you see a good makeup that you lyk on tv then just go to any store and buy it..!
I really need help. Does anyone have a good idea on wear to put eyeshawdow on yor eyelid without making it too noticeable? Thanks!
well i would suggest using a lighter colored eyeshadow. maybe lyk something that would sorta blend in with your skin.
well I'm 14 and I just had a baby and I don't know what I should do like should I keep braist feeding or sumthing I'm so confused I'm only going in 9th grade and it's really hard for me to take care of my baby when my parents aren't around I love my little girl so much her names Zoé but the father doesn't love her or want anything to do with her what should I do I need help??
umm well first of all why did u have a baby and have unprotected sex i mean not to be rude but HELLO here i mean u were prolly only lyk 13 when you had sex. i mean how stupid can you be (no offense) but thats just so wrong. and for the baby you should consider adoption. esp if your parents always aroung to help..but then again you shouldnt rely on your parents...its your own gfault for having unprotected sex so you need to take care of this baby 100 percent and i think your way to young to be caring for a little girl so if i were you i would consider adopting her.
ok im 13 and so is my boyfriend, weve been going out for over 2 months now... hes had sex with other girls b4 but ive nevr had sex b4... he wants to have sex with me really bad but he always says he understands if i dont... i kinda do tho... but then i dont... im really confuzed cuz i really lov him its just i dont wanna get pregnant and i people will find out if i have sex with him and i dont want people calling me names like a slut and stuf, at this same time im in a huge fight with some girls, but i really wanna have sex with my boyfriend but then i dont! i NEED HELP!!
hey! well no i dont think you should have sex with him. your to young wait till your 16 or 17. but if you and this kid are still going out in about a year and a half then yes have sex with him but year a condom! and also, when you have sex the first time it hurts real bad. do you think this guy will be patient enough with you if you object at the last minute? no i suggest def not having sex. youre too young. there are other ways to express your love for eachother. you could lyk make out naked or lyk you could give him head or we...but notr sex ur to young..hope you make the right decision...
2morrow im trying out for my hs volleyball team (im a freshman) well i was kinda wondering like what to expect at a tryout esp. a volleyball one.... like do u have to run b4 it or like do sum sort of interview or do u jus go into teams and jus play while the coaches examine u???!!!
hey well im tryin out for my soccer hs team (im a freshmen to0)and i alreayd tried out and no, i doubt theyll interview you. cuz they didnt in soccer. i think theyll just mainly observe you and your skills and sutff...well good luck! hope you make the team!
Alright guys.. I dont want you to think i'm some kind of hoe.. or pervert.. But.. here goes.. I'm starting to have feelings for this kid... I won't mention a name.. But.. hes 15 I think. He's a friend of my sisters. I know he likes me... and I'm 17.. I dont know what to do! someone! Please help me!!
well hey! if you like this kid and you think that he lyks you then yes iw uold def. be the one to make the first move. you prolly feel that it is really wierd lyking a friend of ur sisters...but i mean if ur close with ur sister then talk to her about it. and ask her to talk to him. but if you dont have a really good relationship with your sis then i would talk to the kid in private or maybe you could write him a note of something. well i hope everything works out!