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sex life
ok im 13 and so is my boyfriend, weve been going out for over 2 months now... hes had sex with other girls b4 but ive nevr had sex b4... he wants to have sex with me really bad but he always says he understands if i dont... i kinda do tho... but then i dont... im really confuzed cuz i really lov him its just i dont wanna get pregnant and i people will find out if i have sex with him and i dont want people calling me names like a slut and stuf, at this same time im in a huge fight with some girls, but i really wanna have sex with my boyfriend but then i dont! i NEED HELP!!
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When the time is right you'll know it. There won't be any doubt in your mind. Since you're not sure, that means you're not ready. Sex is big deal, and you should treasure your virginity cause once you lose it, it's gone forever.
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Too young. Wait till later.
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Well first of all dont do it if you're not ready. And people shouldnt call you a slut or anything because you love each other. And if you do decide to have sex, use a condom and you wont get pregnant. Hope this helped!
-Chris
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miss wanna go far,
wanting to go far that far. is too lame. im 13 too. but make out is all i go for....
xox Manda xox
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Woah, hun, ur only 13 yrs old! U have so much time b4 u should start thinking about having sex! If ur having any doubts about having sex u shouldn't do it. You don't wanna do anything that u might regret later. Sex right now 4 u seems like a bad idea. IF u decide 2 have sex, make sure that he wears a condom and b safe. If u have any other questions let me know!
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your 13, wait for the right guy, you have your whole life ahead of you, and if you arnt even sure how you wouldnt get pregnet ( a condom, safe sex, duh) then you shouldnt have it, wait a while before you know more about it, dont let a boy presure you into doing sumething you wouldnt want to do, beside ya'll are only into 2 months, thats not a very long time... it would make the question more sensible if it was like a year or 9 months or something, but umm goodluck, fallow your heart, make the right choice...
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You are very young and if you arent sure if you are ready then you more than likely arent but at 13 i dont think you are and you dont want to risk anything if you have a guy who is really understanding that you arent ready then you are really lucky cuz a lot of guys arent like that and will pressure you into doing it when your not ready but i would wait a while
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Sweetie.. You are 13 yrs old.. You have your whole life ahead of you.. you dont want to have sex at this young of an age. but. I cant decide for you. But if you decide you do want to with this guy.. Make sure he uses protection. and as for the girls. you guys are young. and girls will say anything to you to make you feel bad.. But deep down.. you know that this is the first guy youve ever been with. So you know what your not a slut... and a whore.. I hope I helped.... If any comes up.. Drop one in my inbox
~*Jackie~*
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I'm 13 too and i think u are to young to have sex. I mean what happens if your pregent? That would be a major deal. And some how your parents will find out about it they always do so i don't think it's a good idea.
~Hailey
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Okay, you need to weigh everything, taking into account that you've only been dating him for two months.
It's also been my experience that if you're not totally sure - if you have ANY doubts at all, then you're not mentally ready. You should wait until everything feels right, and you don't have half of you wanting to and half of you being scared.
Pregnancy is a very valid fear, especially when you're this young. Don't forget about STDs you could get.
People will, however, only find out you had sex with him if you or he tells anyone. If he's the kind of guy that would go and brag about it, then you DEFINITELY need to wait/reconsider.
Also, you can only be a slut, technically, if you sleep around. I think. If you're just having sex with one guy, you can't REALLY be a slut.
If I was in your position, I would definitely wait. Two months is really not that long a time to be dating someone, and you have your whole life to have sex.
But, if you decide you really want to go for it, then do so. Just be careful about it, and be safe.
I hope this helped on some level!
-Siren =)
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hey! well no i dont think you should have sex with him. your to young wait till your 16 or 17. but if you and this kid are still going out in about a year and a half then yes have sex with him but year a condom! and also, when you have sex the first time it hurts real bad. do you think this guy will be patient enough with you if you object at the last minute? no i suggest def not having sex. youre too young. there are other ways to express your love for eachother. you could lyk make out naked or lyk you could give him head or we...but notr sex ur to young..hope you make the right decision...
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well at this age you shouldnt but if you really feel that way about sumbody thn maybe u should think it over. if the reason of being pregnnant is holding u back thats understandable. ther is such things as a condom n if you guys so have sex u can always get tested
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welll if u dont want to u dont have to n if u have a really good boyfrined then he will understand where ur coming from love kayla xoxo
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I think 13 is wayyyy to young! It could really ruin you life, too. Plus, you could do it more! If your not sure, then dont! Dont give in to it! There will be plenty of time for that later, trust me!
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if you arent definetly sure, then you arent ready for it. and at this age, social situations are too fraglie to mess up. and this will mess it up. so wait until your absoletly ready(preferably a few years from now) and then sex will be more common.
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Let's weigh out the possitives and the negatives.
Possitives:
1. It would satisfy your apparently sex-crazed boyfriend.
2. There's a chance it will feel good.
3. It will satify your curiosity of what it would be like.
Negatives:
1. You could get pregnent (Even if he uses a condom)
2. You could get an STD (He's had sex before)
3. It's going to probably hurt a lot.
4. It could ruin your reputation at school (The whole people calling you a slut extravaganza)
5. If your parents found out you would be in deep shit
6. There are several more reasons but I think 5 is enough.
I don't think it would be wise to have sex yet. You're too young
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Hun i think you`re waaaaay to young anyways. If he says he understands that you don`t want to,then don`t. But if you think you`re ready and you want to, go for it. And if you don`t want people to find out,tell him not to tell anyone. And if you use a condom, you most likely won`t get pregnant.
xO*--
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seriously, i think you should wait..one of my friends had sex when she was 12, and now completely regrets it..and im sure later in life you will too. even thought you say u kind of want 2, if theres any part of you thats not ready, you shouldnt do it. if you're going to have sex with him, you should be completely ready and be ready to accept the responsiblities that come along with it (like possibly getting pregnant)..it my opinion, 13 is wayy young to do that..but if you really want to and you know your COMPLETELY READY, go for it..but if u have doubts, just wait. hope i helped! <33 Jordyn
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Don't do. If you have any doubts.. you'Re d.e.f.i.n.i.t.e.l.y NOT Ready!!! Hope I helped! =D
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