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Gender: Female
Location: from texas, live in maryland
Occupation: student
Member Since: August 9, 2004
Answers: 136
Last Update: September 10, 2005
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heyy everybody!! i need help.. not mentally. well maybe.. hehe.. but thats not the point..
my problem is that this guy says he likes my bff but i like him like soooo much..like i feel so ditsy aroundhim..like i want him.. like i want his body.. hehe..but my bff likes him too.. what should i do.. should i do himm.. tell her.. tell him.. im soo confused.. help!!.. i rate high!! (link)
Whatever you do, don't lie about it. that happenned to me, me and my friend arent friends anymore. So, tell her ulike him also.


Even though I get enough sleep I get dark circles under my eyes in the morning an dthey stay until late afternoon. Do you know what causes it and/or what I can do about it?

14/f

Thanx...I rate! (link)
you can get bags from bad nutrition.. and alot of caffeine. and it could be because of your period.. i hate circles.
all i can say is eat right and avoid caffeine. and maybe.. get on teh pill i know it helps with some period things. but maybe not circles.



I'd tell you my name, but I want to keep this anonymous...so anyway, I have this problem with someone called, let's just say "Robert". Since last year, we had been going out for ten months, up until the 11th of May, when he quickly dumped me. He said that he wasn't happy with me, mainly because I have this little issue with stretching the truth....don't know why, I just do. I tried to tell him that I don't do that to him at all, and he wouldn't listen to me. He says that he still loves me and always will, but as of right now, he wants to be friends. It's been almost two weeks now and I understand where he's coming from, and I have tried to respect him and his decision, but I want to date him again. What should I do? I want him back. (link)
wow... the guy i just broke up with.. was like " i still like you and always will" also. you know, if he does like you, but wants to date other people, it may be because you two were togetrher for so long he couldnt handle it...but try out a few guys for size.. on like causual dates or something. see what you think

p.s... sorry to hear your tenth motnh relationship ended


My boyfriend and I gave our virginity to eachother ( im 14 he 16) and the way we slept together was we snuck out of the house. I got caught and now I am grounded until June 18 now we got caught on April 25 and ever since then he was acting really weird like he didnt like me anymore and everything else but before april 25 we did it 4 times before that. and he acted fine but the thing is he didnt even get in trouble for sneaking out and hes acting really really really weird. like I talked to him about how he's changing and he said he doesnt know whats going on. so i asked him if he's still interested and he said "i guess so" then the next day i asked him do you want to be with me and he didnt answer then we almost broke up but we didnt and then i said to him i need you to be more affectionate and he said no. and hes not going to change or even try to.

This is very confusing but for people who understand me tell me. Should I break up with him? and what is wrong with him!!

I WILL RATE 5'S!! JUST PLEASE HELP ME!! (link)
the question is.. if he doesnt change. can you live with him as your boyfriend?
im sorry hes treatin you so badly. i feel for you, the guys i was with werent that great either.
but from what you are saying, you shouldnt hang on to him if he isnt goin to be there for you...and you need to break up with him in this case.


okay i went to the movies last night with my bestfriend. my bestfriend is a guy... we kissed and such because we had gone out b4. in th emovie theater he wanted me to give him a h.j. i wasentt all that comfortable right ?! so i didnt do it.. now hes like rly upset with me and i cant stand it when hes mad at me.. he asked me out and i said yes. (( again )) last time we broke up i got hurt rly bad so i was like "okay maybe he wont be the same" cz we got that close. he said hes gunna be grounded this summer so we cant chill.. we broke up later that night and now he wont talk that much to me cz i didnt give a h.j. but i said i would at school this week (( only 3 days left of school ))
is that bad .. what should i do ? (link)
I've been in this situation with sex. say no. because in reality it's more important that your comfortable with it and that your incontrol because girls are often taken advantage of. so listen. tell him "as much as i like you. i'm not going to be your freiends with benifits. if you want a relationship, good. then we can have one. but i'm not a slut". and when you do.. act really strong. dont let him see you weak or cry. alright? i know from experience and it's bad.

if you want a friends with benifits, he still doesnt sound like a good person, if he wants you to do something you do'nt want. this can definetly escalate to rape. and i know thats not what you want.



This girl keeps being mean to me over msn IM (the reason is too long a story to explain) she wont leave me alone. I keep telling her to leave me alone and that I don't want to fight but she wont leave it. What shall I do? We go back to school soon and I'm worried of what she may do to me. (link)
first block her... the obvious thing to do. then... when things are said to you... act like you dont care. even if you do... pretend you dont. that should definetly have her back off. who wants to fight with someone who doesnt care? its pointless. so try that.


I need a good way to study for my exam in Algebra 2...any suggestions? (link)
hey im in algebra also! uh, well i study by reviewing my notes, obviously, but if i get a problem wrong. i go back and do it. until i get right. questions from homeworkks and tests. flashcards work with definitons you need. and keep detailed notes.


Okay well at camp this year i met a guy with all good qualities and of course i began to like him. so when i knew i liked him a lot i told him and then figured out he liked me too. Well we were going to hook up but then we decided not to because i would have to ride a ferry boat and then drive 30 minutes just to visit him. and i couldnt do that every week! Well i miss him a lot and i think about him everyday and well i am afraid to hook up with anyone else because i am afraid i might think about him and then end up having to break up with the guy. What should i do? I need advice!!! BADLY!! (link)
he could visit you....


ok..i really like this song and ive tried to search it but i dont really know what its called or who sings it...could u help me out please? the corus kinda goess:
shoo shoo shakin'...shoo shakin up
shoo shoo shakin'...shoo shakin up
and its pretty recent bc i saw it on MTV couple of months ago...please helppp! :) (link)
shakin up by rooney


What happens if you let a yeast infection go on for a really long time? (link)
you can become infertile. thats no good.


I went to the beach today and I got burnt on my chest, lower back and thighs. Its not burned too badly but its sore and I can;t put lotion on my skin feels like its burning off and it blisters then scabs over. What are some thing I can do to help get rid of the pain?? (link)
aloe vera. youre going to have to suckit up MISSY.


ok theres this guy that i met online ad we talked and stuff and i sorta like him and he likes me and we talk on the phone everynight now he wants to meet me do u think i should meet him (link)
creditials. HUNey. creditials.


does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me (link)
i think its matters now. not in a few years. but by law you cant be dating these men when they go to college. youd have to be a maximum of 2 years younger. so. for like a year youd be able to date him. after that youd have to wait until youre in college. or 18.


Im 14 and a female and My B/f and i have been together for 4 months. We broke up a couple of weeks ago and he asked me back out. He said the reason for dumping me was that i never called him and didnt see him enough. Things havent been the same since the break-up. He never tells me he loves me anymore and acts different. What should i do? (link)
dump him.


I know the subject is wrong... anyways, over the summer i got a lot of freckles on my face and I never really noticed it until someone mentioned it today. How can you make them disapear, besides massive makeup? (link)
green concealer. sounds weird. but it works. on the color wheel, like in art. red and green are opposite. and produce brown when they are added together. aways. this will make them go away. physicians formula is a good brand. tho. it willhide most. it wount hide all.


When I get my period i get HORRIBLE cramp! Sometimes theres so bad i can't go to school or do anything all day! Do know some way to get relief ? (link)
birth control.


how much weight could osmeone loose in 2 weeks if they excersized daily + started to eat helathy? (link)
that question is a game of numbers. i my self cant answer. no one can unless you be more specifc.


i am looking for a curly wet look or something else that looks cool with out using any products and i have dirty blonde hair if that helps thankz
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youre going to have to use some product. that wet part doesnt come naturally.


If a guy that you like gets mad at you.. even for something stupid.. this happened to me during the school year.. and he was playin mad and stuff.. what do u do? cause like i always got close with a guy and we'd joke around or whatever and then he'd like get mad.. but not seriously mad just this like 'im not tlaking to u u said this " or whatever.. what do u do? (link)
you said mad 4 times.


why did i just get really grossed out when my boyfriend told me he had to go take a shit? i mean i love him and we've been together for 15 months, shouldnt i already be over the "omg eww he goes poop" stage? lol (link)
thats funny. but truthfully. i hate it when anyone says it ever. so, maybe youre the same way




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