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Really worried
My boyfriend and I gave our virginity to eachother ( im 14 he 16) and the way we slept together was we snuck out of the house. I got caught and now I am grounded until June 18 now we got caught on April 25 and ever since then he was acting really weird like he didnt like me anymore and everything else but before april 25 we did it 4 times before that. and he acted fine but the thing is he didnt even get in trouble for sneaking out and hes acting really really really weird. like I talked to him about how he's changing and he said he doesnt know whats going on. so i asked him if he's still interested and he said "i guess so" then the next day i asked him do you want to be with me and he didnt answer then we almost broke up but we didnt and then i said to him i need you to be more affectionate and he said no. and hes not going to change or even try to.
This is very confusing but for people who understand me tell me. Should I break up with him? and what is wrong with him!!
I WILL RATE 5'S!! JUST PLEASE HELP ME!!
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it sounds like you have done everything possible to save this relationship. sorry to tellyou but he wants to break up and he is soon. I know because the conversations you guys had sound vaguly familure of some i have had with exboyfreinds. break up with him before he breaks up with you. find a sweet hottie as sson as you can so you will forget about this jerk.
good luck sweetie
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I know it will be hard because you lost something very dear to you for him...but it doesnt sound like your really that important to him... it sounds like he'll only be okay if yall are having sex..which shouldn't be what the relationship is about
good luck-
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This is why kids should not sleep together! They can't handel the responsiblities or emotions that come with sex. Please in the future, wait until you are in a mature and commited relationship. And don't expect much from a guy that says "I guess" in reference to being in a relationship. He obviously is not too commited, it's time to let him go.
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u should breal up with him beforehe breaks with you it will hurt because he was your first but still... and try to gain ur parents trust bak guys asre not worth losn trust me i jo
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the question is.. if he doesnt change. can you live with him as your boyfriend?
im sorry hes treatin you so badly. i feel for you, the guys i was with werent that great either.
but from what you are saying, you shouldnt hang on to him if he isnt goin to be there for you...and you need to break up with him in this case.
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Hmm.. not to be rude but it just seems like all he wanted was sex from the beggining. Now that you both got caught and hes probablly tired of it. Maybe he wants to move on. I think that you should give him some space for about a week and see if he does change. Hes a jerk for acting like that towards you because you deserve better. Hope everything works out! ♥
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Aws thats sad. Well he could be a jerk and got old of you and thinks your no fun and wants something eles. Or he could just not want to do anything cause he dont wanna get you in any more trouble. But i dont see why he would be mean about it. He could just be going through mood swings. You never no something could be wrong at home at his house in life and just dont no what to do and is taking it out on you. But i dont think you should dump him give him sometime to think things and see if he changes. Keep having talks with him to see if he opens up and make sure he noes he can tell you everything. Let me no how things go.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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i think all he wanted was to have sex with you and now that he has and yall got caught he doesnt want to anymore i thing he wants to find someone new to mess up there life!
If you stay with him he could hurt you even more
if you dump him he wil hurt someone else
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I think your boyfriends parents got to him. And they must have said a lot of bad things about you. I am always surprised when I get questions like these. Young kids never seem to consider the parent factor. Just try to think of the things his parents must have said to him. And if they are in denial. They also told him that none of it was his fault....it was all your fault. And lord knows what they told him if he ever spoke to you agian or spend time with you. Think about this. Could this be the problem. If it is you are up against people who are older, stronger, and have more control that you can hope to have at this age. There is nothing you can do about it. You cannot support him, or give him fancy things, or money. They can, and they can hold these things hostage from him. Freedom, priviledges. Because he is a young boy, he does not want to loose all of his benefits and priviledges that he gets living home. He does not need to be in a relationship with you. He still needs his parents. It does not mean that he did not enjoy the time that you spend together. They just have more power than you. And the reason for that is your ages. You are both too young to be sexually involved. These are the kinds of things that happen. Now you are hurt and feel rejected. If you hadn't gotten intimate with this young man, you could still be friends and "going steady", but now that is not possible. I am really sorry honey. Please do not do this to yourself again. Wait until you are older before you get involved like this. Wait until a young man is ready to disobey his parents if he has too, to see you. But hopefully you will both get your parents blessing. Because you will both be older and more mature. Mature enough to handle these things. Don't go and have sex just because your friends are. I hope this makes things more clear for you, even thought it does not make things better. I am sorry honey.
Michele
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in my oppinion, from the very beguinning all he wanted was sex. now that you got caught, he sees that he can't have sex with you anymore so he's moving on to try to find another girl. i would dump him, but that's just me
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Hey!
Well if he won't change for you i say give him a couple weeks at least a week after you are ungrounded. see if things go back to normal after that you never know if you haven't seen him that long he may just feel neglected. So if he doesn't try harder after you get ungrounded i would break up. I know it may be hard, since you were so intament, but you don't need him if he isn't going to treat you right!
Best of Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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it is a little confusing so if my advice is wrong dont be mad im going to try. well its a fact that people change expesially guys. this guys doesnt seem like he wants to be with you anymore, if i was you i would brake up with him know atter how much you like him. if he likes you alot he will stop you from doing it. he already said he didnt want to be affectionate towards you that might mean he doesnt want to be with you, but he didnt brake up with you so he might like you who knows. but braking up with him and seeing if he wants you back may do the trick.
hope i could help
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