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Q: hey
iv heard that if u straighten ur hair it falls out....... is this tru?

no but it can make ur hair dry and break aznd cause dead ends if u dont use the correct product or shampoo/ caditioner
alex

Q: OK, so me and my boyfriend had sex for like 2 minutes at the most!!! He didnt ejaculate or anything but i need to know if theres a chance i could still get pregnant!!! Please help, its urgernt!!!

yes invisible sperm comes out even before he ejaculates.
good luck
alex

Q: i rely like 3 guys nd i know that 2 of them like me. i dont knoe wat 2 do =/. the other guy i dont know if he like me but i realy like him alot. but the other 2 i like. should i tell him? im confused. help me plz.=/

why thank you im glad you liked my site and my advice.
well i always go for the sure thing so i would pick from the two that you already like and go for one of them. but if u wanna chance it then id secretly ask the 3rd guy if he wanted to get together. and if he said no then what do you have to loose u have the 2 other guys to pick from right?
good luck hope i helped.
alex

Q: What would you recommend for a person making $25,000 as a monthly rent.

about 450 monthly, dont forget food, clothes, if u want to do something on the weekend, lectricity bills, water bills, car payments, insurance, and gas is so high now, id say 450 a month would be a tight position but u could do it if u budget well.

Q: okay i like this guy he's in college he's about 2 years older then i am. i am only 17. i really like him and i told my friends that i do. all of my friends suggest that i should just call him and tell him that i like him. would this be right or should i just get to know him more??

well i mean if you hardly know the guy then dont do that. make sure he dosent have a girlfreind and make sure hes not super interested in someone else right now. id also ask myself does he know my name. do we hang out. if i did tell him how i feel do i have a chance? if you have positive ansewers to all of these then go for it.

Q: My dad is very over protective. He alway has to watch and every where i go and most things i want to do he will not let me do. What should i do?HELP

talk to him about it. just sit him down and talk to him about it. or talk with your mom about it or another family freind/ relative

Q: 13/f
I just got my school year book and I want a certain guy to sign it only I'm too shy to ask. If someone told me if I should or should not and give me confidence then I would ask him directly. So, should I or should I not ask him to sign my year book directly and why? Also, if you said no is there any other way I can get him to sign my year book?

you should because youll regret it if not. its not a big deal just say hey dude will u sign my year book. if not then have a freind go and ask him to sign it and tell him to sign it with your name.

Q: About a year ago when i was 14 my best friend and i were kinda role playing when she would sleep over and i just felt so comfortable touching eachother and i enjoyed it sooo much! But now she thinks it's gross and i don't know how to approch any other gurl because it's really fun. It's like girls know what feels good to them so they do it to their partner. i don't think i'm lez because i like guys and have a bf but i enjoy doing sexual things wit girls and i can't take my eyes off their bodies in the locker rooms and stuff. what should i do?

find a bisexual girl who knows that theres no strings attached.

Q: Hi, I recently started having sex with my boyfriend. After talking about it for a couple months we decided we were ready. The problem is, it doesn’t feel good. I’m relaxed and everything so I’m confused. Should I tell my boyfriend? I’m scared to because he might feel bad and blame him self. Is there something wrong with me?

no it not feeling good is just a sign from your body telling you your not ready dont worry about it

Q: I'm almost 19 years old and everytime I have sex it still hurts. Not to sound weird but its like the first 4 inches dont hurt but as it goes in more it does. I've had it about 20+ times and tried different positions. Has this ever happened to anyone else or does anyone know why this still hurts?

it could be that ur not wet enough or the penis is tearing at a piece of skin. everyones diffrent.

Q: My boyfriend and I gave our virginity to eachother ( im 14 he 16) and the way we slept together was we snuck out of the house. I got caught and now I am grounded until June 18 now we got caught on April 25 and ever since then he was acting really weird like he didnt like me anymore and everything else but before april 25 we did it 4 times before that. and he acted fine but the thing is he didnt even get in trouble for sneaking out and hes acting really really really weird. like I talked to him about how he's changing and he said he doesnt know whats going on. so i asked him if he's still interested and he said "i guess so" then the next day i asked him do you want to be with me and he didnt answer then we almost broke up but we didnt and then i said to him i need you to be more affectionate and he said no. and hes not going to change or even try to.

This is very confusing but for people who understand me tell me. Should I break up with him? and what is wrong with him!!

I WILL RATE 5'S!! JUST PLEASE HELP ME!!

it sounds like you have done everything possible to save this relationship. sorry to tellyou but he wants to break up and he is soon. I know because the conversations you guys had sound vaguly familure of some i have had with exboyfreinds. break up with him before he breaks up with you. find a sweet hottie as sson as you can so you will forget about this jerk.
good luck sweetie

Q: We just moved from Oregon to California and we have all this winter clothes. I think we are haivng a garage sale next week. The problem is, I don't know how to price my items! They may be used, but they are in excellent condition. We have many different brands from gap to abercrombie to bcbg! How should I price my clothes??-I paid good money for it!

nothing over 15$ trust me anything over that from those stores and u wont sale it sorry to tell u.

Q: Whenever my parents go out to "buy" me clothes, that's when the problem starts. They always buy me things like plaid skinny leg pants or big, oversized T-shirts, and that just isn't my style- I prefer jeans and a nice, form-fitting tee. Is there a way to tell then that I don't wear things that I used to wear as a little girl without hurting their feelings?

just say well actually i kinda would like to try this on mom or dad because its cool and all my freinds are weazring it. try something like that.

Q: i'm with this guy that i really care about and well, i've never had a serious boyfriend before and well, i'm not exactly sure what to do about people spreading rumours and stuff. i haven't been telling alot of people but alot of people know i'm going out with somebody they just don't know who, and i'm not sure if i should just let everybody know so they'd all shut up and stop bugging me to tell them or not tell them and let them find out for themselves. thanks

well why dont you want them to know who your boyfreind is. if your anyway ashamed or embarresed to be with him then it isnt fair for to him for u guys to be together. i think you should tell who your boyfreind is and be proud.

Q: can your ovaries, kidneys, appendix or anything get "damaged" by something going up your vagina? please answer! thanx :o)

umm i dont think so it would depend on how far.

Q: Theres this kid who i am friends with and well hes really ugly (not trying to sound mean) and no one would ever like him like that. Well and hes kind of a loser and this girl he likes is kind of snobby and popular.. And her friend is setting him up so he looks like a fool. Her friend is telling him that she likes him and that she wood say yes if he asked her out. What should i do so he doesnt get crushed?

just tell him the truth but do it secretly and not infront of anyone and to make him feel better tell him about how snobby and mean and how she needs a nose job anyways or something.

Q: Okay, I'm just a bit curious. Everybody thinks cutting is so freakishly horrible and everything. Well in all honesty, I don't see the harm in it unless you're making cuts deep enough for stitches or something. Otherwise, you may have a mark or a scar - but no real damage done..? When I get extremely upset - it usually helps calm me down, in a BIG way. What is all the hype about..?

its not good emotionally and eventually u will cut deep enough to kill your self. its a sick emotional condition that isnt normal you need to seek counseling. take it from someone who use to do it. pluse the scars wont ever go away.

Q:
I'd tell you my name, but I want to keep this anonymous...so anyway, I have this problem with someone called, let's just say "Robert". Since last year, we had been going out for ten months, up until the 11th of May, when he quickly dumped me. He said that he wasn't happy with me, mainly because I have this little issue with stretching the truth....don't know why, I just do. I tried to tell him that I don't do that to him at all, and he wouldn't listen to me. He says that he still loves me and always will, but as of right now, he wants to be friends. It's been almost two weeks now and I understand where he's coming from, and I have tried to respect him and his decision, but I want to date him again. What should I do? I want him back.

well definatly just tell him you love him and you will never lie to him again and you want to get back together. if not then go find someone else ASAP! the longer you wait the more depressed your gonna be. pluse it may just take seeing you with another guy to make him relize how bad he needs you.

Q: Whenever I put eyeliner on, there's no affect. It just looks like I have black stuff all over my eye. Does anyone have any tips to put it on better? Thanks!

try a powder eyeliner from mac. that could help. and if u have green eyes try a really dark purple that would make them pop. and blue eyes a brown works good. brown eyes try a white or silver.

Q: wat works better neutragena rapid acne spot treatment (the 8 hour one) or clearasil ?
thanks 4 da help =]

acutane!
i was on it for 8 months one pill a day and i havent had a pimple in 2 years. not even when im on my period it also takes away scars. its a whole body treatment for acne and it works for up to 10 years.
but if i must pick between the two neutragena. clean and clear advantage acne spot treatment is a good quick fix for a pimple

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my name is Alex i love fashion, movies, chocholate, fairys, hanging out with my freinds & family. animals, the beach, being with my boyfreind. I'm very outgoing an basically your tipical teenage girl. I have a myspace account my url is http://www.myspace.com/princessalex. if ive given you advice id greatly appreciate it if you would please rate my advice it dosen't madder if you thought it sucked or if you thought it was great & id love some feed back.