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Hurt
I'm almost 19 years old and everytime I have sex it still hurts. Not to sound weird but its like the first 4 inches dont hurt but as it goes in more it does. I've had it about 20+ times and tried different positions. Has this ever happened to anyone else or does anyone know why this still hurts?
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It could be either that you aren't lubricated enough when you try to have sex, which would cause friction, soreness and pain. However, this doesn't sound quite like what you describe because if this were the issue you'd experience more general discomfort whilst having sex and soreness afterwards, rather than just reaching a point where it hurt to insert it further. What type of pain are you experiencing? A sudden, sharp pain when you feel as if you've hit something inside you, or more of an achey soreness throughout sex?
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Ignore all the stuff about you not having enough lubrication- they don't know what they're talking about! If that was the problem then it would hurt in the first four inches and you say it doesn't. Therefore i think you need to see your doctor because it sounds like theres something wrong internally. Probably nothing serious but you do need to see a doctor. It's embarrassing but doctors are so experienced with things like this and you'll get it sorted! Good luck
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Perhaps because you are not turned on enough.. try more foreplay before you actually start having sex or use something like ky jelly. Hope this helps a little. Also you will get worried about it every time you have sex so you will tighten up and not relax
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well, personally no, i've never had sex so obviously i've never had that problem. i know this won't be the best answer you get, but you haven't gotten any yet, so i will offer what information i have. Infection, inflamation and allergies can all cause painful insertion. however, your situation seems more constant than any of these, but that also depends on how recently you started having sex (is this 20+ times over the course of 4 years or 2 months?...if it has all been within a short period of time, then the above may still be possibilities). another possibility is that if you are a small person, you are simple not big enough to accommodate a large penis. this is more likely if you have had only one or few partners, who are well endowed. On the first site i listed, it states that most vaginas are only 4 inches long...which may in fact be your issue. If you care to search to find more specifically what sounds like your situation, i've listed a few web sites, or you can try your own luck at google.
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hope i helped <3
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it could be that ur not wet enough or the penis is tearing at a piece of skin. everyones diffrent.
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