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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH
ok first.
-this girl was a virgin and lost her virginity to him
-my boyfriend was a virgin and lost his virginity to her.
-so basically they lost there virginity to each other
-they used protection.
-i was a virgin and lost my virginity to him
-we used protection.
(ok this may sound gross but if your going to talk shit then dont bother writing)
-i made him take it out before he cummed if that helps anything.
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Ok, let me make it simple. If she lost her virginity to him, then there was no possible way she could have had an STD. You only contract STD'S through sexual intercourse. Unless during the time they were ingageing in sex she was having intamate relasionships(sp) with another person, she could not have giving you boyfriend an STD. So therefore, you can not have an STD.
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ok well if you were all virgins b4 you had sex and unless he is lying to you about his partners there is no way of having an std so ya and just to let you know if you have a strange rash on your pussy its probably an std!
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there is always a risk of someone having an std but condoms do not prevent you from getting an std in may cases. if you know for sure that they are both virgins it is unlikely that he has an std, but you can also get one form oral sex. maybe they do have and they got it from oral sex and passed it on that way you never know. i would just get tested it would make you feel so much better then worrying!!!! FEEL BETTER
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Assuming that by protection you mean condoms (as no other contraceptive protects against STDs) if everything you've said is true, then the chances of your partner having an STD are very very low. However, you can never be 100% sure that those things are true. Of course you trust your boyfriend to be truthful with you about how many people he's slept with and whether they always used condoms, but do you trust his ex-girlfriend equally? If she had other sexual partners either before or during their relationship, she could have passed something on to him without him being aware there was any risk. If they always used condoms, the risk of passing on an STD even if she had one is low, so there isn't a reason to worry excessively unless your partner displays any symptoms, in which case the both of you should get checked out by a doctor. There could also be a risk that he has herpes, as this can be passed on through sex or oral sex even if a condom is used, and many people have the virus without knowing it (a large number catching it as children when they were kissed by adults with facial coldsores).
For your own peace of mind, it might be worth your boyfriend having a full STD test anyway. It's unlikely that he has STD's and even less likely that you do given that you're using condoms, but a test will set your mind at rest. All the best.
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Chances are good that he is okay. However people don't always tell the truth about those kind of things. Use a condom anyway.
You need to know that all it takes is a drop to get pregnant. Some does leak out before he finishes. So, having him take it out is not a good enough guarantee if you don't want an unexpected pregnancy. I'm not getting on you or anything just letting you know so you'll be safe. :)
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ok, well since they both lost their virginity to eachother, obviously they never got anything unless they're FUCKING liars!! If they're lying, then they might have something and so do u!!
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Ok i think the chances are very slim on the count of them losing there virgiity together and on top of that they used protection.
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I doubt that he has a std but then..all it takes is ONE person to have a STD but since they were both vigins its less common...But theres still a chance.
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Hi!
Here's my take on the whole situation. First of all, you don't KNOW that they lost their virginity to each other. And you don't KNOW for a fact that they never fooled around on each other. The only way to know you are absolutely 100% safe is to get tested. The only other way to know that your boyfriend and his last girlfriend are being 100% honest was to have been there. (which I'm assuming you weren't.) As for getting an STD, you can get an STD from anybody you are with, even if that person was only with one person. How do I know this? Because it only takes sleeping with 1 person to get an STD. People catch an STD from one other person and pass it along. So, that's your answer on that. However, you were very smart to have used protection, and you are very smart to be questioning this now. I am not suggesting that anybody was dishonest here, I AM suggesting that you don't actually KNOW for a fact anything, unless you are a direct witness to it.
Good luck sweetie.
Linda
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Zapreth is right, you should make an appointment to see a gynecologist, because although with your situation it is less likely that there are any issues with STD's, you still need to go just to be safe. Now that you are sexually active, your most healthy and wise decision would be to make visiting a gynecologist a regular thing. It is especially good to see that you used protection, as most young couples just tend to somehow completely 'forget' that.
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The fact is that sexually transmitted illnesses can be inherited. You are LESS likely to have gotten anything from him than some other guy, but the possibility is there. Now, before you freak out, I think you're fine. You know his sex history and you used protection. 2 very important ways to protect yourself. It is still a good idea to go to a gynocologist for a check up. That's important for any sexually active woman.
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