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Wazz good? Umm things about me...hmm.. Im 13 from south Jersey. I am light skinned (carmel omplextiom) long brown hair and about 5"4. I Love giving advice to people.If i didnt u wouldnt be reading this woud u? I am single but i talk to someone....S.O.V.S *some1 very special* I have been talking to him 4 about 4 months. I think i'm in love wooo *sigh*. O anyway..I am very hyper..I am a cheerleader,i run track,play softball and i am on the national jr honor society. I got most popular and best looking in the yearbook. I LOVE TO TALK dance and SING..My favorite song right now is "we belong together" by mariah Carey and her whole Cd and umm Ciara song "oh" and "GRIND ON ME" by Pretty Ricky yes!! I am still a virgin but I know alot about Sex from all of my friends and from reading.I am just waiting for the RIGHT* person right now....um...If u ever need to ask me any questions or give me any comments *THAT ARE NOT RUDE!!!!!!!!!!* feel free to IM me on
IXI WuN luV IXL .... love yall lots

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good make out tips?
i rate high

*keep your eyes closed* its rude to stare (lol)
*do not go fast *slow and steady wins the race
*dont stick your tongue in to much*dont be greedy
*breath through your nose* diz not cpr is love
*dont let your teeth get in the way,and let him stick tongue in first,and,dont laugh..

like my sayings lol i thought they were cute,but yea rate plese and hope i helped

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Okay, 3 friends (2 against 1) got into a fight right?(I wasn't in it, and verbal kind) and so i asked one of them what they were talking about in their conversation online. So she told the other 2 people that i wanted to know what they were talking about. And so i admit that i was nosey, and their partially mad at me for that(except the one i asked what they were talking about). And i guess i was kinda instegating and egging on the fight(thats what they told me)

so the point is that they're pretty mad at me, and these 2 were like bff. and whenever i appologize they dont take me seriously.and say that im just saying that to shut them up.

what do i do to gain their trust and be friends again?

p.s sorry it was kind of long

Dont sweat it. Dont kiss their butt to be there friend again. The'll be ur friend before u know it and if they dont try 1 more time and if they still regret then dont worry about them they must not be good friends..

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omfg!!! i have the worst cramps ever today!! i took ib profen already and that didnt work!

i need some way to get rid of them or make them not so bad!

ik ppl say working out helps..but there is no way in hell im working out with this bad of cramps!

HELP!!

ill rate 5s!

try midol or pamprin or when i take ibrprofen i take 3 of them..try a heating pad,or a hot bath *blood stops for some odd reason* while is bath tub...but i hope i helped...thats wat i'd do..

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okay.. Im 15 years old. I gave head to my boyfriend about a week ago. As far as I know nothing is wrong with him as far STDs go or anything. He totally didnt pressure this upon me.. but.. i just have to ask..

I woke up kinda quivery from taking a nap in the afternoon just yesterday. It went away after I got some rest and hasnt came back... but Im adding this just in case its a symptom of some sort.

I have no soars in my mouth.. and as far as I know no pains down around my genitals, but for the past few days.. whenever I try to masturbate it feels like it STARTS to work.. but it doesnt end up feeling well at all. I mean it doesnt hurt AT ALL.. it just doesnt pleasure me. Is this normal?

It just is scaring me. Like I have no clue if anything is wrong with me. Im really scared too, can somebody just please help? We didnt use a condom even though it wasnt sex.. I know I should have but like.. nothing is wrong with him hes supposedly healthy but is there anything I should look out for?

please help.. any help especially if you have had experience will be greatly appreciated.

(lol)hun I'm PRETTY SURE that NOTHING is wrong with you. if you ask me i thing your just EXTRA WORRIED and anything different about you u take it as a symptom. And plus nothing you named was a syptom of a STD. And when you masterbate thats problly all you can think about is the night u gave head so,you cant be pleasured if you worried. Just try not to worry about it.Hope I helped
xoxox smooches xoxox

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Okay my ex boyfriend Tony has been a big problem in my life for the past two years.. he's hit me a total for three times and one time i had a bruised spine because of him.. well anyways he hasnt hit me but he called my cell.. i just got my number changed cause of him.. well anyways he said this same bullshit ive heard hundreds of times sayin he loves me blah blah blah.. well when he called me also he said he knows that i want him and if i dont go with him he's going to find me and hurt me again or pull a Jay on me.. Jay is a guy that tried to rape me which was Tony's friend..so Tony is threating to rape me and beat me.. i havent told my boyfriend im with now cause i hate to get him upset and worried.. i havent told anybody.. all my friends dont get why i wont go anywhere i just want to stay in the house.. i dont want to press charges or anything cause if he found out i dont know what he'd do or if he'd get somebody else to do something to me.. im just so scared.. i dont want him to hurt me again i dont want him to rape me.. i thought he was out of my life for 7 years cause he was locked up for drugs yea well with my luck i should of known he wouldnt be put a way that long.. he is so mad at me because i moved on with a new guy and because i didnt wait up for him while he was locked up.. what kinda girl would want a guy like that..? if you can help me on what to do ill rate high i just dont know what to do or who to tell.. im just reall reall scared.. thanks in advance..

awwwww..hun. I'll tell you 1 thing you have really GOT to do something. You might not want to but you HAVE to tell SOMEONE , tell a close friend or relative. And then u might have to go to the po-po's (cops). Because if you dont he may REALLY do something seriously bad. You should want to be hurt anymore.Girl.. tell your boyfriend. I strongly suggest yo go to the cops because this man sounds really crazy.And you need to get help before its to late. I wish you the best of luck. and if you can can you tell me wat your going to do (like in my feedback) cause i would like to know.

Hope i helped :/
smooches xoxoxox

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Hey, ok..after a guy fingers you for the first time, how long after will it hurt for?

Well it SHOULD only hurt for a good day or two. Alot of people dont feel pain,maybe because they use tampons or have tried themself.But it depends on how rough and fast he was going.The rougher and faster the longer it will hurt afterward. But you'll be fine. But you may get scrathed or your cherry may pop. But its NORMAL.

hope i helped

xoxosmooches

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To be honest with you I feel a bit unhappy generally. I don’t know why- ive always felt like this really. It comes and goes.

The only way I can explain it is I feel this kind of indifference to everything, like I don’t care about anything. Numb. And then all of a sudden I get incredibly upset and angry - i really feel for people and try and help them, and sometimes i think nasty things about people. I sometimes take it out on people im close to and then regret it and feel guilty. Its like im constantly frustrated, like there is something inside that I can’t resolve. I feel like there is a gap somewhere needing to be filled and my heart is heavy with sorrow for some strange reason! I just feel like im different to others and it weighs me down. Maybe someone out there understands and can offer advice? Im 29 years old.

Stupid Answers will not be noted.

It seems to me if you are DEPRESSED. but all you have to do is got to your doctor and ask them for some Anti- Depresiants. Maybe try looking for that special some1 that will make you happy,and fill your empty space.Well hope i helped..

smooches xoxoxox

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ok well last year in 7th grade was the most roughest time ever i could think of!! i was so liked at the begining of the year and people started making rumors up about me and i lost almost every friend....i also got beat up once well i didnt get beat up thats what everybody says i just got in a fight ok and i am just having such a miserable summer bc thats all i ever think about is next year how im not going to have any friends to be with and where im going to sit for lunch and all that ughh i dont know what to do and all my mom says is "i dont know what to tell you" all im really worried about it one person bc she was friends with all the 8th graders and all the 6th graders and shes mean to me and hates me and she could prolly get everybody else to hate me and shes tall and is friends with all the popular people and shes not afriad to come in my face and say crap to me [ITS HAPPEND BEFORE] =[ it just started out i was hanging out with the popular people at the beegining of the year [ i guess thats what i wanteed the most ] and i dont know what happend but they all started hearing roomers and crap and yeah i started to get bad grades and i almost failed 7th grade and all this crap ughhh im not sure if god made all them hate me for a reason? im just so confused=/ somebody please help me ive been going through this forever and i really really need some help please =(
-ashlee

wow that sound like alot of stuff that has happened to me. But when you start to be or get popular thats all people do is start rumors hun. There jealous. There mad because your popular and your probally really pretty and they want to be like you.So instead they try to bring you down.They try and start rumors and they try to fight you.But God NEVER puts to much on you that you cant handle.Pretty soon all this will clear up i'm sure. It'll start to get old soon. If you have 1 good friend thats always been there for you keep em'. Dont let them go. Try and make some new friends by signiing up for something in your community or maybe take some Self Defense classes. Then you can make some new friends and learn how to defend yourself. Well just try not to worry about it. If some1 says something say something back that'll shut them up or just laugh and the'll start to think you dont care and their not doing anything to you to hurt you. And the'll get bored. well hope i helped

sorry so long (lol)

cya smooches xoxox if u ever need to talk to some 1 IM me on IxI wun luv ixL

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what age do you think is appropriate to have sex? 18?

Its all up to u. If u LOVE the guy and have been with him for quite some time, and u are COMFORTABLE with doing it then do it.Its all on how YOU feel. Make sure you compleatly trust the guy that you'll b having sexual orientation *big WORD* (lol)with..

hope i helped love ya 1

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i just found out that my best friend was having an affair with my girlfriend! he admitted that he had sex with her, and that they had it more than twice! Now my girlfriend is pregnant and we don't know who's baby it is! please help! my parents are going to freak!

WOW!! thats some jerry springer stuff.But i'm not bout to sit here and put you down..I think you should get you your g/f your bestfriend and all of your parents to have a little "get together" eh? Tell everyone whats going on. Because no matter how u think they will kill you they wont. They may be disappointed but they WILL be there for you. They will help you. So thats my suggetion. Hope I helped :/ i wish you the Best of luck. And i hope the babys yours..if u want it to be :) luv ya

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Alrighty...here i go...well i was supposed to graduate this year but like a week before graduation my guidance counselor calls me and says that i don't have enough credits to graduate...so im not...she said i would have to come back next year...I ABSOLUTELY HATE MY SCHOOL...i get in fights and everything bc i have a bad temper and ppl just piss me off...i was seriously thinking about dropping out...but i dont know...i need some help....

What ever you do DO NOT drop out of school. No matter how much you hate it there.Because later on in life YOU WILL regret it. All the good jobs need a high school diploma thingy to make sure you graduated.And you might not get a good paying job.Ask your parent/Guardian if they can consider transfering you to a differnt school.hope i helped
LUV YAH!! mwah

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Ok, I'll have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 weeks, tomorrow. I've heard rumors that if his g/f wont have sex with him that he dumps them after a month. And I'm 13 and I don't want to have sex. He is having a party next weekend and invited me to it. Its a pool/birthday party at his house. If my mom lets me go, I'm going. But if that rumors true...he well might wanna ya know. What should I do?

Wll sweetie!! um.. if hne trys to get u to do that type of stuff tell him that your not ready and if he still wants to break up with you then let him cause that means that he was only going out with you for sex,and he doesnt really care about you.But dont believe the rumor yet cause you dont know if its true or not. People may be just trying to break yall up. Well hope I helped!!
Luv yah!

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Hey Id like to try a new look this summer but I'm not sure what to do. Does anyone know webistes with cute hairstyles, and websites with different ways on how to do your makeup? If you have any pointers please leave em. My hair is thick and a little wavy. I have lightly tanned skin. Thanks so much, I rate.

Hey!! try going to a magazine website like..um..j14 the m honey, essense, ebony or maybe even buy magazines they have hair magazines like hype hair...idk what else but i hope i helped!!

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Well... I have this thing tomorrow night and I am getting my hair done. Its pretty formal... and I have a really pretty dress. The problem is... I have no idea how to do my hair! I've looked everywhere to find some hairstyle that would look cute... but evertyhing looks so weird. I have long hair and I know I want it in curls and I don't want all my hair up. If anyone can help me that would be awesome! :-)

Well,maybe you should get your hair in a ponytail with twisties in the front. and to curly streamers and the ponytail in curls add some glitter and like a flower or butterfly clip.. yea hope i helped smooches xoxox!

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Alright you know how guys wear condoms while having sex for protection so that when they cum it doesn't enter the vagina and fertilize? When they DO cum while wearing a condom what happens to it? Like does the condom expand..with the cum in there..and it's all soggy-ish, or what?

Sorry I know that sounds stupid.

lol ya questions not dum.. well theres a little "nipple" thingy at the bottom as the last girls said. and it catches the cum but it maybe soggy depending on the condum u use.And it shouldnt be soggy long because after he bust he;s supose to change the condum

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Hi i'm 13 years old and my mom said that I can not use a tampon until I break my hymen or have sex but she said if i have sex she will kick me out of the house and my mom said that i could kill my self if i use a tampon how do you kill yourself with a tampon and do you have to break your hymen to use a tampon cause most of my friends use them.

it is not possible to kill yourself by using a tampon.lol.there is a disease though called tss and it is VERY serious.But that only happens when u dont change it as often as your supose to. and you dont have to have sex before using a tampon.I used them before i had sex and there great :) and i nevr even had sex..:( but you can break ur hymen by lotz of things not just sex.Tell your mom all the facts and prove them and then just ask her again nicely.Hope i helped.

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Well , i have been going out with this guy. we never see each other and sometimes people tell me he is makin moves and flirting with other girls!! i dont know what to do. should i break up with him? thanks in advance .. :o]
signed,
mixed emotions

Why dont you confront him. People may be just trying to spit you guys aopart. Or they may be telling you the truth. Are your friends telling you or are random ppl? If its your friends there probally telling you the truth. If not dont believ them right away. Just confront him about it and if you keep hearing i t then lave him

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what are symptoms of being pregnant?

Vomiting
Fatique *sleepyness*
skipping a period
stomach pains
weight gain

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okay i like this guy he's in college he's about 2 years older then i am. i am only 17. i really like him and i told my friends that i do. all of my friends suggest that i should just call him and tell him that i like him. would this be right or should i just get to know him more??

I think that you shold get to know him more. Because there may be a side to him that you dont know about. People are quick to change up once you are in a relationship with them. But thats my OPINION!! hope i helped

xoxox Kei Kei

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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH


ok first.

-this girl was a virgin and lost her virginity to him
-my boyfriend was a virgin and lost his virginity to her.
-so basically they lost there virginity to each other
-they used protection.
-i was a virgin and lost my virginity to him
-we used protection.

(ok this may sound gross but if your going to talk shit then dont bother writing)
-i made him take it out before he cummed if that helps anything.

I doubt that he has a std but then..all it takes is ONE person to have a STD but since they were both vigins its less common...But theres still a chance.

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