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what to do...?
Ok, I'll have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 weeks, tomorrow. I've heard rumors that if his g/f wont have sex with him that he dumps them after a month. And I'm 13 and I don't want to have sex. He is having a party next weekend and invited me to it. Its a pool/birthday party at his house. If my mom lets me go, I'm going. But if that rumors true...he well might wanna ya know. What should I do?
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If you dont want to than dont but if you dont want to loose him then try and talk to him and tell him that you are way to young to be having sex. Oh yea by the way most boys want what your boyfriend is looking for. If you do make sure he wears protection.... Well i really hopes this helps... Good-luck.....
P.S It may just be a rumor
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please listen to me...if the rumor is true and he starts making moves on you and wants sex...dont give in!! say no because your only 13 first of all./..plus you definately dont sound ready..save it for later on in your life...just tell him no im not ready for sex and you need to understand that. IF he truly cares about you..he will back off right away and not pressure you again. if he keeps pressuring you and brings it up..break up with him because thats a sleezy boyfriend. hopefully that rumor isnt true. just dont give in and have sex with him...save it for sometime special...i know i am! (and im 16)
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What you should do is find out if the rumors are true yes go to the party and if he wants to have sex with you before he trys talk to him and tell him you are not ready. if he breaks up with you then he didn't love you enough to wait
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Wll sweetie!! um.. if hne trys to get u to do that type of stuff tell him that your not ready and if he still wants to break up with you then let him cause that means that he was only going out with you for sex,and he doesnt really care about you.But dont believe the rumor yet cause you dont know if its true or not. People may be just trying to break yall up. Well hope I helped!!
Luv yah!
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tell him how it is.. just be like "im not ready, im way too young." he should be respectful of your decision.. i think he will be .. and if not then it just wasn't meant to be... so just make sure you let him know how it is.. and remember.. don't always listen to what people say because most of the time they are just rumors... or trying to get you two to break up! hope i helped
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hun .. if that rumor is true DUMP HIM! i mean, i understand that if you REALLY like him you wouldn't want to do that but your virginity and reputation is way more important than a guy. i'm not really gonna say you're "too young" to do that because i know people who have had sex younger than you. but it's all your choice if it comes down to you and him in a room alone and he starts to make a move. if that does happen just try to change the subject or tell him straight out that you don't want to. i hope i helped you at least a little bit and good luck!
hugsz nd kissesz_xo0x
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ok i think you need to find out if the rumors are true by asking him. if he says yeah that is true, dump him and get on with your life cause you don't need to be wasteing it on him. if he says no then great! but if he asks you about having sex at his party just tell him you aren't ready and if that is all he is dating you for then you're leaving him. if he doesn't work out you know there is someone out there for you!
best of luck!
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Just because you hear rumors about someone doesn't mean they're true.
If your mom lets you go to the party then you should go, see how things turn out. If you feel like you're being pressured into doing something you don't want to do...then don't do it! and make sure he knows that.
If the rumor IS true...PSH! find a new boyfriend!
hope i helped!
♥,
heather
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You shouldnt do it with him! I'm 13 a virgin and proud! He might just be using u! dont do it with him its a waste (no offence)
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if he dumps you for not having sex after a month then thats screwed up.. hes not in it for love, hes in it for lust.
if he comes on to you at the party, then DONT GIVE IN TO THE PRESSURE because you have already said that you dont want to have sex. just tell him NO and leave and tell him that your not ready. if he doesnt understand, then he shouldnt be someone your dating.
good luck & hope i helped- :)
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Just tell him you're not ready and you don't want to have sex. If he still tries to force you after you talk to him, dump him. A relationship isn't just based on sex. If he thinks it is he's got a lot to learn. He's not worth it if he dumps girls for not getting sex.
♥ lAuRa
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no one can answer that for you. just ask yourself one question, are you ready? the answer to that is what you should do. just be honest with yourself. one last thing..if its true..do you really want to loose your virginity to someone like that? gl hun
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