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my dad is dumb... he doesn't know nothing and anytime i try to talk to him, he walks right by me and doesn't say anything. sometimes, i wish i wasn't a girl because i think he's sexist because he treats my mom's friends sons like best friends but yesterday, he didn't say ONE word to me at all... i just wish he would leave my mom because he treats her like crap and she treats him like a king and i love my mom and my sister and im sick of all of us having to go through all of this crap... im sick of not having a dad. he sits in front of the t.v all day and my best friends dad is divorced but he has a girlfriend and their all cool and stuff and why can my dad be that way... i even call her dad "daddy robertson" because i'm over there and im around her dad waaaaaay more than im around mine and im sick of mine... her dad treats me like a daughter and my dad treats me like a dirty old rag that he can just throw around anytime he wants but im sick of him! he doesn't love me. i try to get closer to him and he won't listen. i try to hug him and he tells me to go away because he's working... he's just rude! i can't say anything to my friends without him yelling @ me. Today, my best friend was telling her sister to stop being stupid and my dad yelled at ME because we sound alike!!! ugh!!! im just sick of my gay dad... he's not literally gay... or is he??? lol... well, what should i do to make him become a better dad... if my parents got divorced i would be happy because my mom would get custody
sorry this is so long...
signed,
kayla
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Maybe he just doesn't know how to be a good dad. I know it sounds kind of silly but it may be true. You say he treats moms friends boys okay. Maybe he just doesn't know how to act around girls. He may not be the worlds best at the job but, hes your dad. Just keep trying is all you can do. The sad part is he will realize one of these days when you have moved out of the house what hes missed. :)
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well i do feel really bad for you. i think your mom should get divoreced my parents are and its much better. also you should not talk to your dad. if he is that rude just dont care about him even though he is your dad. but i do think this fathers day you should give him a gift. hope i helped
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I know I am your sister but try talking to dad more sit down with him while he is watching his shows write him a letter for fathers day make it nice and pretty just like I did with the magnet and he still appreciates it and I gave it to him a couple days ago and he is putting it in his truck
well hope I helped
YoUr SiStEr BrItTaNy
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Oh, wow. I am so sorry about this. I would sudgest talking to your mom about how you feel about the whole situation. Maybe MAKING your dad listen like saying "Dad, can I talk to you? Its an emergency." and like tell him how you feel. If he doesnt, if you love your dad, "Dad, I love you so much, why don't you love me?" OR just like make him listen or I think you need to talk to someone. This is like mentally abusing your kids...That isnt right for parents to ignore their own kids. Tell me how it goes, and once again, I am SO so sorry about this. Hope I helped! -|-PRP-|-
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Aww.. Im sorry to hear that. Although i probably don't know what your going through.. because my relationships with my dad was great. But since Father's Day is coming up this weekend, maybe try buying him something, and maybe he will feel better twoards you ? Or if that doesnt help, you should seriously start talking to your mom, tell her whats really going on, and whats bothering you and she will help. Sorry i cant do much, take care.
♥ KRiSTEN
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well your dad sounds about as dumd as mine. since fathers day is coming maybe you should write your father a letter telling him how you feel. you are his child and he has got to care. even if he doesn't you still has a heavenly father that loves you and wants you with him.
best of luck!
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You could have your mom try talking to him, or talk to him yourself. If that doesnt work write him a letter or email and make him understand how youre feeling. Tell him youre sorry youre not a boy but youre still his child and he should love you equally and at least show some affection
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