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Q: my skin is pale with a tint of red and i cant stand it. i use cover girl clean makeup creamy natural cover up and it always makes my face look like its pealing can anyone help??

go to sephora and get bare minerals power that stuff is ahamzing i use it every day

Q: lately ive been having so much trouble with guys. i feel so retarded. im torn between way too many of them =/ [13/f grade 7, in CT]

guy 1: Moved away during the summer, to california. i really love him [i know it]. and i never said goodbye. now i can't get over that. We were obsessed over eachother, and we flirted in the most abvious ways, and then he found my friends xanga; where she had made a comment about me hating him (ii told her things like that to hide the fact i liked him). and he completely stopped talking to me. but time went on, and we still flirted in the most obvious ways.

guy 2: Had a huge crush on me at the end of 6th grade and during the summer. and i sort of liked him. he came bak to school and looked, well, a lot better. he asked out two girls since school started, but still seems to stare at me. Now i feel stupid, because a sure thing fell through.

guy 3: guy 3 is a 6th grader. and i feel so lame liking him. hes really cute and makes me want to dieeee. i see him constantly around the halls and talk to him. but im really ont sure if he likes someone in his grade.

guy 4: this guy, is the etreme of popular. ive always helsd back from liking guys like him. but its hard not to. hes mega cute, when im alone and talk to him hes really nice, but when i look at him with his crowd, i get jealous and angry and want to punch myself for liking him. He's been over to my house a few times because i have a twin brother hes friends with. we've played video games and basketball and things (im really good at basketball), and ive aways kind of wore really short shorts. But, he's dated the etreme popular girl. and i want to punch her for having him like her.

guy 5: ive known him since kindergarten, been over to my house thousands of time. ive seen him in his boxers [yeah, i know], and i've hated him throughout the years. but come this year, i find him cute, and i like him. but because we've been, like, enemies fore a while, im hesitant about the way he feels.

im kind of torn.

So here comes the question portion.
1 = how am i supposed to choose?
2 = who would you choose?
3 = if i really like any of them, wouldn't i be able to choose?
4 = how can i get guys i like to like me back?

i know that this was long, but im in seriouse need of help. love confuses me, and i need to be unconfused for once.

honestly no one can choose who you like. you have to think about this one. but honestly if i were you, you seem to really like the 6th grader. and obviously the popular guy is out of the question and the guy who moved away is so not okay. Its so not bad to like someone younger than you. And to get a guy to like you back all you have to do it 1) tell him so he is aware that you like him 2) act like yourself and dont hold back
hope i helped good luck and remeber its up to u!

Q: See my gf is asking me want i want for valintimes day but i want to to kiss her and see her. i do not know how to say this. Also what sould i get her?

just go ahead and kiss her its the only way that she will no you really like her. and yes kiss her passinately. get her whatever dont get her anything just go on a date with her
good luck

Q: hey, my homie g is having trouble with this girl jordan so i wont to no if he should try to get a bj or not.

p.s. his name is steven t.

deffinatley! hahaa your homie g. What kinda of trouble with his gf??? also yeah a bj sound pretty good to me. luv ya cole haha

Q: i need to lose 10 pounds! im 15, female, and i weigh 121. please dont tell me i need to lose it, i do for something important! what are some things i can do without pills or anything like that? thanks, i rate well. xo

excersise every day like run a mile then eat healthy food no carbs

Q: okay well i straighten my hair everyday and it has really taken its tool on my bangs even though i use a ceramic straighter. my hair straigher said im just pulling on them too much(they are thin) when i straighten them. ive tried trimming them to get rid of the really fried ends but it seems like they never go away. like right after i trim them they look fried again

they look fine after i straighten them but within a few min then flick out and thats when they look really bad

i dont want to keep trimming them because i know they are just going to get shorter, not better

is there anything i can try on them to make them not look as fried that isnt more than $10

( i dont care if it will kill my hair more as long as it makes it look better)

first of all STOP straightening them buy a blow dryer www.thehairstyler.com Also go to your nearest grocery/drug store and buy a deep conditioner like nutrogena that last 3-5 min in the shower it really works and try that once a week. also try getting *i forget what its called* its like this spray stuff in your hair before straightening and it "supposively" works so your hair isnt messed up from straightening this ask your hair cut person about it. hope i helped! rate me if ya wanna!

Q: Me and my best guy friend have liked eachother for about a year and a half and now we are both single and for about a month we're going to be friends with benefits and then date. Him and I went out for a day before but I broke up with him because I wanted my ex back. I know.. that was REALLY messed up. But I don't know how to just randomly kiss him. I'm way too scared. I don't know why though, I always have felt comfortable around him and now I'm all shy. Why the sudden change??!! I'm really in love with him. And he is in love with me and I want to make out with him but how do I approach it? When should I do it? I need to know.. the only time we can see eachother is in school. But I need to know how to become less shy when im gonna kiss him and I want to suprise him but I have like no guts lol

please help

I'll rate 5's!

well first why dont you just see if you can go to the movies or stay after school for like 10 minutes go up to him and start talking when no one is around. After a couple seconds of awkward silence whisper his name ****** (place name here) and slowly caress him into a hug then place your lips on top of his but slowly remove them to see if he wants to do it. If he dosnt resist go for it keep kissing! good luck ?

Q: I fell in love with my bestfriend (typical). but he used to and still says that he loves me more than he has ever loved a girl in his life. and the other day he told me that he had a girlfriend so obviously i was heart broken. SO appearently he "loves" me only as a friend. yea its confising i kno, geeze. So i just want some advice on how to get over him...like what should I do and places I could go to get him out of my mind, because i really dont want to ruin this friendship. It was just my fault on falling for him.oh yeah i just turned 17 and ima girl and hes 19.

try meeting another guy. you could go $hopping and get a haircut and a new wardrobe. Also dont ignore him if you still want to be friends talk to him and act like nothing is wrong.3

Q: so people say not to eat after 7pm
what about if its healthy foods such as grapefruits, applesauce or yogurt?

www.mypyramid.com

Q: Hi. I like this girl a lot and i was thinkin of writing her a poem or song but i cant play any music for it since i play the drums not the guitar. I'm having trouble writing the poem. Any ideas on what i can do?

dont write a poem write a list with bullet points saying 100 reasons why i love you more than anything

Q: ok my boyfriend knows about my mom not coroperating he says its not worth breaking up ova my momma. my mom doesn't really like nobody. shes just an a**. im 14

if your boyfriend understands then thats cool. your mom is always going to be your mom and i still think you should talk to her but tell her you love her and you no she jsut wants wats best for u

Q: my mom knows i have a boyfriend she does her best to split us up alot like when she knows im talking to him on the phone she will yell at me for no apparent reason, she won't let me go to sleep overs, movies, no where with anybody and she knows i like my boyfriend alot, i feel were growing apart because we never spend time together at all unless he sneaks over my house while my moms at work. its basically like she is jealous. what should i do? what should i say? my momma be trippin' alot i cant go nowhere me or my sister without her and this relationship im in now i never was surer about love than this one relationship i feel different its not like the others im sure of it but my momma doesn't think so because she think she knows every d#*# thang which she doesn't i won't break up with my boyfriend even if i have to sneak and do things that is very wrong and im not really a sneaky person but my momma just dont want us to get closer at all as a matter of fact i believe she wants us to break up even if she claims she likes my baby.

first off tell your boyfriend this and he will understand also tell your mom your growing older and you want a life. you want to be able to hang with your friends/go to the movies/ go on dates/ tell her that you no wrong from right and no how to make the best decisions and she should not be so worried about you. also how old are you?

Q: My parents never let me, nor take me to get my hair cut. I want bangs so bad, so im thinking about cutting them myself. I have the proper scissors for it, I just need like on strand. But i dont know how to do it and i dont want to screw my hair up. Any tips on how to do it nicely?

i did the same thing by myself its so easy and hot. okay first of all just get a couple of pieces of hair from your front stick them out in front of you and chop well first cut like an inch below your eyes because you can always cut more. hope i helped try to google it or www.thehairstyler.com much luv *JoR*

Q: My boyfriend is constantly trying to tease me. He'll show me his underwear, say kinky things to me, and try to get me in "the mood". It didnt bother me a whole lot, but I got the idea that he wanted a lot of this in return. So I started giving it to him. Only he responded by saying that I was no longer his innocent girlfriend, how I've changed, and how surprised he is at me. He seemed so dissapointed. This type of thing keeps happening. I'll show him what I think is a great picture of me and he'll somehow suggest that I have low selfesteem and I should realise how beautiful I am. I dont get it? Should he be the only one in our realtionship who acts this way? Did I go too far? I rate.

tell him this thats the only way to fix it >3

Q: I really want to start modeling but I don't know how to start. I'm 5'5, have an hour glass figure, wear a size 5 jeans (if that helps?), I have light brown hair (it's cut in a "unique" but long style), dark brown (almost black) eyes, medium tan, round/squarish face, and if I were stereotyped I would be called "punk". Could I be a model? or should I just give up?

Just tell me in your answer if you need more information.

of course you could be a model. If i were you though i would stop being punk and do something between the lines of preppy and just cute like try pink and stuff. if you really are looking into the model buisness go to www.johnrobertpowers.com also you could try looking in the yellow places for good modeling agencies like balzigan but i would recommend the website i told you to go to because thats how i got to be a model. >3 just remeber to be a model takes a lot of work and a lot of courage and you have to be able to stand up and let dorrys be slammed in your face and still go on. GOOD LUCK HAVE FUN!!

Q: ok does this sound cute to everyone? for christmas sunday just for church im wearing this black blouse with a red skirt it goes sort of to my ankles. (its one of those ruffly ones) it has silver horizontal lines of silver sequins throughout it. then im wearing black heels. does that sound cute? also how should i wear my hair with this? wavy down or straight down? or up? thank you ill rate high.

cute outfit
hair: try it straight but then wave it at the bottoms kinda like lindsay lohan

Q: What is the best foundation or press powder brand. i been having tons of trouble with my foundation stayin put andi hate reapplying it i just would like to be able to put it on an not have to look in the mirror every minute or something. Thanks alot in advance for people who help!

the best one that is also good for your skin and dosnt clog pores is BARE MINERALS you can get it at sefora or any drug store.

Q: I'm not sure how to apply it. My face always looks fuzzy even from far away. What moisturizer is good to use? What parts of my face do I apply the foundation, anyway?
(I'm going to get a makeup sponge)
I'll like sites with pictures ^^

use fingers to apply it. Go to shepora (best store) and ask for bair minerals foundation. Pick a color thats a little lighter than your natural skin color and if you need help with that you can always ask someone there.
1) put just a touch on your finger
2)litely pad it under your eyes and if still noticable rub it a little bit with you index finger
3) and blemishes or pimples that you would like to cover up just dab on a little around and ontop of them
4) remeber dont put it all over your face because that can look really bad
5) if you think foundation might wash out your face tone try a pinkish blush after applying the foundation to bring some color into you face
>3 good luck

Q: Brown Gauchos & Brown cowboy boots.

^yes or no?

too much brown is never good. try wearing the brown cowboy boots over a pair of jeans and a colorful pink shirt. Try to mix and match colors but not go to crazy. Brown and brown is never good so i wouldnt do that but some brown can be very sexi. >3

Q: 14.f
im flat chested im a 32 a in bust size, but im really emberrased because i got this bra from VS and its fully padded and its a 34 a cause i know i dont fill it out and its really embarrasing to change in p.e. cause all the girls know i dont fill out my bra but when i wear the 32 a it hurts like my back and makes red marks which isnt healthy but then like a year ago when i did wear a 32 a sometimes when i wear loose shirts my boobs would look like tiny buds that looked really weird
fyi im short like 5'3" and i heard its less noticable if you have a flat chest if your tall, and ive had my period for about a year now.

I'll rate 5 if someome can help me

first of all relax. Also i would stay with the 34 a but mabye next time try not to get a padded bra because those tend to be bigger then the actual size it says. Also your only 14 and have a couple more years to grow. Dont worry its fine just dont be so self concious.

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13/f! wow i just luuuv answer questions. heres some stuff bout me so u can get to no me betta. i in middle skewl have tons of friends popular 3 kittys and love boys. thats sounds cheesy but w/e. also i am bootyful inside and out and love helping people with there prob. such as mackeup and all that sheeawt haha well i am always heer if ya need anything and u culd always e-mail me @ PerfectPrep13 @ aim well kissesss oh PP.SS hah (inside joke) if ya need anyhelp with boys i am your girl to ask cuz i have only had my share of them!!!