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He makes me feel Wonderful and Disgusting at the same time
My boyfriend is constantly trying to tease me. He'll show me his underwear, say kinky things to me, and try to get me in "the mood". It didnt bother me a whole lot, but I got the idea that he wanted a lot of this in return. So I started giving it to him. Only he responded by saying that I was no longer his innocent girlfriend, how I've changed, and how surprised he is at me. He seemed so dissapointed. This type of thing keeps happening. I'll show him what I think is a great picture of me and he'll somehow suggest that I have low selfesteem and I should realise how beautiful I am. I dont get it? Should he be the only one in our realtionship who acts this way? Did I go too far? I rate.
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I dont think that you went to far. You dont need me to tell you what to do. But I will tell you this look inside your heart. Look deep and find out what is really in your heart because its like my Aunt Lolo is always saying a bird and a fish can fall in love, but where are they going to live. So do what is in your heart. Not what is in someone elses heart.
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everything is such a double standard. its like if you give him what he wants, he thinks you arent the "innocent" girl he knew and if you dont he gets mad or just continues persistently with the comments. all i can tell you is to talk to him. tell him how you feel and what you thought he wanted. explain to him that you dont want to play the whole mind game thing anymore. you want it all out on the table. good luck
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Does he seem REALLY bothered by it? If so, you should probably stop; otherwise, he might just be teasing you.
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no you didnt go too far..he was doing it so you thought you would chime in also. the only way to settle this is to talk to him on how your feeling that he can tease you and get a little crazy, but if you do it back how that shouldnnt be wrong. let him know acting like that with him doesnt mean he lost his innocent girl..its just bf and gf having some fun.
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tell him this thats the only way to fix it >3
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ok talk to him the key to every relationship is communication! and tell him its not fair that he was giving you massages and signals and stuff cuz he knew he wanted it he just wants to be able to know he has you hooked. <3kristin
I hope i helped please write me if you need more of my help!!!!
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I wish I knew how old he was!
I don't know why he would think there was something wrong with you for doing the same things he does. Maybe you should ask him how his self esteem is next time he does it.
Might create an interesting conversation on the subject. Then ask him why the double standard.
If you're comfortable acting the way he does, then you didn't go to far. I think maybe he just doesn't realize how much he does it himself.
Have a talk with him. :)
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