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There is this really hot girl I've been talking to. She told me she's slept with a lot of people. I mean, a lot, like 40 something guys. She's so hot though and, to be frank, she's easy.

I want to have sex. She told me that she'd do it with me next week if I come over to her place while her parents are gone. She has a big pool there and she said she always does it in the pool so that she's clean and STD free. What she was saying was that the chemicals in the pool kill any STDs that somebody might be carrying.

Sounds great but I want to double check this. I'd hate to have to go to the doctor after banging her. Is she telling the truth? (link)
Make sure you wear a condom because you never know what she is carring. Also, having sex under water can be more harmful expectally if the water containes, chlorine, salt, or bacteria. By thrusting in and out, you can cause irritation and or an infection from the pressure. Plus the has lost the spermicide and or lube, from the rubbing in water. So if I were you I would wear a condom if you really want to have sexy with this woman, and start the foreplay in the water, and save the sex for dry land :)


i m male/22 i don't musterbate ,but have sexual urge ,will i have sexual problem in future,i mean am i be good or bad at sex? (link)
Masturbation, is normal and is a great way to learn about your body, and your sexual points. You will not have any problems with sex, nor performance. This is something that you learns with experience.
There are actually a lot of people out there who have never masturbated, and have waited to be with someone they loved before ever playing with themselves.


Hi. My name is Molly. I have experience with guys, I do. But I was wondering whether there was anything I could do to make my guy feel better while we are making out or something. Is there any place that they like to be touch or like tickled, other than the obvious. If you could answer this fast, that'd be great. and Im not weird. (link)
Every guy is diff. Most guys like their tummy being rubbed. Run your fingernails over his chest lightly. He'll love it. You can do that on the back as well. I dont know if that really helps but I tried. lol


OK.. so i heard that having diarrhea means that something is realllly wrong with your digestive system.. is this true?.. because i havent had a normal poop for a while... ive had diarrhea for weeks...

HELP!
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Diarrhea just means that you don't have enough water in your systen and it wouldnt hurt to eat a little more fiber. I now it sounds weird water with water. lol. Trust me. More liquids and their is nothing wrong with you digestive system.


For my summer reading I have to read "To Kill a Mockingbird." I was wondering that if you have read it, what was it about, and did you enjoy it? Thank you very much. (link)
I didnt like that book at all. It was so boring. Until the very end then it started to get good. But what you could do it goto Sparknotes.com and they will tell you what happend in every chapter.
Have fun. lol


Ever since we met, my boyfriend always had this thing about grabbing my upper arm to pull me closer to him when he wants to talk to me or something.


Sometimes it's like he isn't aware of his own strength or something because it'll hurt. And I always tell him not to do it because of that. He apologizes and tells me that he doesn't realize he does it that hard and says he'll try to stop.


Well, of course, he doesn't stop. He just did it last night and that time it left marks on my arms. I didn't even notice until my mom said something about it this morning and I had to sit that and explain to her why the guy I'm seeing left marks on my arm! NOT EASY.


I haven't showed him the marks yet but what should I say to him when I do? I mean, I know what to say but how do I make it clear to him that he NEEDS to STOP?


And by the way, he is in NO WAY abusive, if he came off that way. I'm 18/f -- He's 21/m
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I would push his hand aways and remind him to stop because it hurts and not only that but it leaves marks and you dont like it. I had a friends like that and that is what I did. It takes a while to stop a habbit. It usually takes me a few weeks to stop the habbit so I put on a rubber band and everytime I do it I snap the rubber band and then I stop. You could try a rubber band to if you wanted and if we is willing...


I'm foureen female. Here's my problem: I like my best guy friend, but I don't know how to tell him I want a more than friends relationship. He waits for me after classes, when I'm scared he calms me down. He really isn't like that to anyone else. I mean there have been times where we've come close to kissing. We always hint and stuff too it's just he hasn't made a move, and I really want him to. So does anyone know cirtain things to say or hints to drop to get a guy to make a move? I'll rate five. (link)
I never really liked my friends they would be my friends friend. They were always hotty with bodys. lol

Just tell him to meet you somewhere where it is quit(i.e park, lake). Then just tell him that you have been friends for so long and that you would like to be more than friends. YOu would like to try it as b/f and g/f.
He might say no, and things might get weird for a while, but it will return to normal.
He will prob. say yes. He shoulds like he kindof likes you too. Hes prob. shy, guys are shy and worried about rejections aswell. Just go for it. Take a chance. The worse that could happen is that he would say no.
Remember "There is nothing to fear in love. It is hard, it is fun. Take a chance because you never know"


I have been really good friends witht this chick for a long time but then she got drunk and something happened one night and she did something that i thought would never happen, she flashed me. I didnt care cause we were too good of friends but i told her what she did and then another one of her best friends told her that it never happened and now she believes them and has forgot about me and wont talk to me...however it really did happen and i have no idea what to do about it..how do i convince her it was true and it did happen? Then if i cant convince her how do i gain her trust back? Thanks! (link)
My friend Lib did the same thing. She flashed me and doesnt remember it. lol... But we are still great friends.

Ok what I would do is tell her that you two have been great friends for blank years. If she is truly a great friends she will listen. Then tell her that she was drunk and her friend didnt see her do it, but you did. If she doesnt beleive you. Then you just have to let it go. If she doesnt want to be your friends after that then she is not a ver good friend or she is confused and doesnt know what to beleive. Just give her a little time. She could be embarrased that she flashed you. She might just need some time to come to terms with herself.


I've realised I have depression and I desperatley need to talk to someone.
I know who i can trust (its a teacher) and I'm so scared because Im not an open person, I cant talk about my feelings easily.
I've tried to go to the counsellor at college but I cant walk into the room.
Anyway, how can i talk to the teacher?
What do i say to begin the conversation?
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I had this problem, only it wasnt depression. I was scared of the counsellers room. I wouldnt talk to my teachers either. Then one day I desided what could it hurt. I went to the office and made an appt. with my counsler, and it wasnt as bad as I thought. Trust me it takes a load off your shoulders. Cause you realize that you are really scared about what they are thinking and what they are going to say.
You really dont need to worry. Just walk in their office and ask if they have a moment to talk with you. They will listen no matter what. They will. Its just starting talking that is hard. Just tell them what ever it is. That is the only thing you can do.
"Just take it one day at a time."


this girl i like has a boyfriend. i was gong to ask her out but he beat me too the punch. im not one to usually get jealous but i was going to ask her out the same day he did. now i cant help but feel jealous because i really, really like this girl. i dont know what to do. I will rank high:-) (link)
Well, I always say fight for what you believe in and that really doesnt help you. What you have to do is make sure that you really like her. Then win her over. Steal her away. Make her fall head over heals for you. Do something that is so romantic and something that is so breathtaking that she cant say not no ot. Trust me if she has any feelings for you what so ever she will fall for you.


I am a 17/f in my senior year in high school. I am not very popular, and hang out with the loser, or nerd crowd. The few friends that I have are not very nice to me, but I put up with them because I would rather have some mean friends then none at all. Well last week, one of my "friends" told the most popular guy in our class that I was checking out his butt. ( This wasnt true, but because my face went red they all assumed it was). I was mortified and just walked away. All my friends laughed at me, and the guy just looked uncomfortable. There was just me and my two friends, and him. He had none of his popular friends there to witness this. Well anyways, the next day I kept catching him staring at me. When I would look at him he would look away. This would also happen in our english class. Well on friday, we had a grad council meeting in the cafeteria. He was there, and when no one else was looking, I had to walk by him. This is when he gave me a huge smile, in kind of a sexy, flirtatius way. I was shocked and never said anything. Anyways, my question is: do you think he may really like me? I find it hard to believe because he's the class valedictorian and jock, and can have any girl in school. I also heard he doesnt have a gf right now. Or do you think he's just playing a trick on me? (link)
I think that he might really be into you. But you can never be sure. So what I would do is kind of play hard to get, just to make sure. If that doesnt work I would just go right up to him when nobodys around and just ask him. I mean what is the worst that could happen?
I dont know if this will help ne but, A bird and a fish can fall in love. But where are they going to live. So just take a chance.


I went out to have lunch with a male friend of mine. During our meal he asked me where I was going to meet Mr. Right, and that Prince Charming wasn't going to knock on my door. He also said that if I was still single in 5 years that I wouldnt be happy. The whole time he was looking at me romantically. At the end of our meal I applied a fresh coat of lipgloss and he couldn't take his eyes of me, like he was getting turned on. When we left the restaurant it was raining and he held his umbrella over my head.
Do you think that all the questions he was asking me was him hinting around that he was interested in me? I think he was thinking long term, why else would he be talkig about 5 years from now? (link)
He is so hiting on you. He is trying to hid it up by all of the question. It kindof sound like he might be head over heals. Ok maybe not that drastic but pretty close.


I was wondering if anyone knows of Greek gods? What were the powers of the Greek gods /What did they do? Which fictional mythical creatures would be good for a fantasy story? (link)
OMGosh I love Greek Gods and Goddesses, they are my absolute fav.
So here I will help you.
Zeus-god of the sky; ruler of Olympus
Poseidon-god of the sea and earthquakes
Hermes-god of merchants; messenger of Zeus
Hera-goddess of marriage; consort of Zeus
Athena-goddess of wisdom, war, and crafts; patron of Athens
Aphrodite-goddess of love and beauty
Apollo-god of the arts (esp. poetry and music), archery, and divination
Ares-god of war
Demeter-goddess of agriculture and fertility
Dionysos-god of wine, mysteries, and the theatre
Hephaistos-god of smiths and metal-workers
Artemis-goddess of the hunt and protector of children
those are all of the main gods, but there is also many many more which would include the Titans and the ¿Chorithens?dont know how to spell that. There is also the free spirits and yeah, there is so much. lol



my dog is a maltese and turning 2 years old [ i guess 14 in dog years ] and lately has been barking a lot at night. he used to when he first got here but stopped. about a week ago he started to bark after everyone goes to sleep. so i have to keep going down stairs and wake up and either hit his cage or take him out to the garage for him to run around and come in...but he keeps barking a few minutes after i go up. what should i do? should i try to tire him out by running with him or something right before we go to sleep? or will that have an opposite effect and have him wanting to play more? please i'm desperate - i havn't been able to sleep at all because i'm the only one who is willing to go downstairs. thanks in advance. (link)
Um you could get a mussle to put over his mouth. Sounds kind of mean though. I would use that as a last resort. I think maybe he is either lonly at night or just might wanna play. You could let him sleep by you that might stop the barking. Other wise yeah I would go with the mussle


i recently bought these clogs

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat90114&navroot=clearance&productId=A_3411_4209

and i want to wear them with this skirt

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90046&sscid=&navroot=womens&productId=0315_1725&size=

socks, or no socks? (link)
I would wear ankel socks. It would look stylish and great.


OKay Im 13 female.. and my best friend is .. 12 male .. im serious he iS MY BEST FRIEND!
Well i accused my best friend of someting and ive been totally killing him and he just looks at me an f rowns.. and i cussed him out.. then i found out he didnt tell my secret.. someone else did.. and he told me wen i accused him HE WUD NEVER TELL anything about his BEST FRIEND and he said he loved me.. what do i do to apollogize.. and he tried to kiss me on the cheek and hug me.. and i turned around ! WUT DO I DO!!?!/
I WILL RATE 5!! (link)
Well, just tell him that you are sorry. I mean you really can't do anything else. If you wanted you could treat him to a movie or somthing. Something fun that the two of you can do. Make the whole night about him. Trust me he shouldnt stay mad very long.


Me and my girlfriend of over 2years have been having some issues lately. She says that she isent sure if she wants to be with me, and when she says this she cries and tells me how much she loves me, however, the reason she doesnt know if she wants to be with me, is because i dont hurry up and finish school. I love this girl so much and definetely see a future with her. Everytime we talk about this, we end up crying , so i decided to send an email, telling her how if she wanted I could brake up with her to make her decision easier, its been 2 days and i have not received an answer to my question, we still talk on the phone all the time and see each other, but no mention of my email is ever brought up. What should I do? How much time do i need to give her to make up her mind? its killing me knowing that she is contemplating braking up. (link)
Do something really nice for her. Candle light dinner or a walk on the beach. That is what I would want. So her how much you care for her. Be very romantic. Dedicate a whole night to her. Do what ever she wants.

Ooh send her 3 dozen roses, that would do it for me... lol...


im very confused i have a girlfriend and i like this guy (yes im bi) he is awsome im friends with him we have alot incommon n i dont know but people say he is gay so im hoping. well any way i dotn know if i should break up with my girldfriend n then c if he is gay or any thing at all or has any intrest in me.or c if he is gay n has any intrest in me n if he dose then break up with my gf. dont get me wrong i like my girlefriend and all but i like this kid more. if any one can give me realy good advice ill rate high. (link)
Im gay so I can relate a bit. What I would do is tell my girlfriend that I would like to take a brake for now. Its not breaking up or anything so you will be fine. Then goto this guy friend of yours and just talk to him about it. I mean, the least he can do is turn you down right? If he says yes if/when you ask him out you can break it off with your girlfriend. If he says no, you still have your girlfriend.


Hey 16-m. I'm terrible at keeping to a schedule and managing my time. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I could try to manage my time better? I usually have things to do after school, and by the time I get home I have just enough homework to keep me going late into the night. After I look back on the day, I spot out about half an hour at the least I could have saved if I did things differently. Any ideas? ...I used to have a tan line on my wrist from my watch, which might explain why I've been bad at this lately [would getting a new one help?] Will rate - thanks a lot. (link)
I guess what you can do is get a pocket watch. That way you will be stylish and wont have to worrie about tan lines. I too am bad with time. What I always do is set my alarm so I know at that very moment I have to leave. So you can try that. Otherwise I have nothing. sorry!


You bring up some important points. First, about loving a wife. If you don't love your wife it is because you chose not to love her. Love is not simply an emotion or a temporary infatuation. For most marriages that wears off after a short time. I'm sure that homosexual relationships tend to get less passionate after a while. However, husbands are commanded to love their wives regardlesss of the passion. Love means we are committed to be faithful to them and to serve them and to give ourselves to them. Jesus was the perfect example of giving himself for us. We are called to do the same for our spouse.

About homosexuality, I encourage you to specifically read 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 in part is says; "Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral...nor homosexual offenders...will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God."

Please notice that the sin of homosexuality does condemn people to hell. Second, notice that people can be changed, "that is what some of you were". You were not created by God to be a homosexual. It is something that you can be set free from by Jesus just like an alcoholic can be set free from alcoholism. In Christ, you can be someone new. You must trust the Lord completely with your life and your future if this is going to be the life change that Christ wants for you.

Remember this, the short life we live on this earth will be nothing compared to all eternity. Is hanging on to the homosexual life style worth spending eternity in the horrible torment that hell holds? Hell is described as a place of suffering, of torment and torture, of fire and anguish, and a place that you can never escape from. For you as for any other lawbreaker, the salvation of Jesus is your only hope. (link)
So long story short, give up happiness to sit by gods side. I want to thank you so very much because you have helped me realize that God is nothing but a selfish, homophobic child. If he is this almighty savior. Well, I have one thing to say to him. God watch out because this fag is going to rock the heavens from dusk till dawn.
Oh and by the way I didn't choose to be gay. You think I like having people not like me because I am gay. Yeah that is something I choose. And one day when I move away fear that I will be bashed in some alley. But you see I don't worry about those kinds of people because to me they do not exist because I have friends hundreds of them, who love me for who I am. Sure I love to meet knew people but If I have to give up my born destiny for more. I will say forget it. As long as IM alive I will cherish this gayness gift.
Don't you think everyone is entitled to a little happiness. I mean as far as Im concerned God is a homophobic jerk.




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