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She is contemplating braking up, what should i do?
Me and my girlfriend of over 2years have been having some issues lately. She says that she isent sure if she wants to be with me, and when she says this she cries and tells me how much she loves me, however, the reason she doesnt know if she wants to be with me, is because i dont hurry up and finish school. I love this girl so much and definetely see a future with her. Everytime we talk about this, we end up crying , so i decided to send an email, telling her how if she wanted I could brake up with her to make her decision easier, its been 2 days and i have not received an answer to my question, we still talk on the phone all the time and see each other, but no mention of my email is ever brought up. What should I do? How much time do i need to give her to make up her mind? its killing me knowing that she is contemplating braking up.
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Ok, you're taking the wrong approach to things. If you care about her this much you can't go around telling her it's her decision. I've done this to my boyfriend before. The only way I stop thinking about breaking up with him is when he makes it absolutely clear that he doesn't want to break up. You can't go around telling her it's her decision or she's going to think you don't care if she does breka up with you.
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Do something really nice for her. Candle light dinner or a walk on the beach. That is what I would want. So her how much you care for her. Be very romantic. Dedicate a whole night to her. Do what ever she wants.
Ooh send her 3 dozen roses, that would do it for me... lol...
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well you can either ignore it like she is, or attempt to get to the bottom of it all. my suggestion is to find out why. is it because of issues with you, and or school? or is there someone else? do not accuse her, but ask her if she wants there to be a future with you. thats all it takes, i speak from experience, no matter how bad things get if you both honestly want to be together, nothing will stop you. if she does want to be with you, she wont break up with you, and it sounds like she feels she made a mistake in contemplating it, you offered her a way out, she ignored it. when i was givin a way out i ignored it, because i dident really want to break up, i just wanted certain things to change. talk to her about whats making her feel stressed and if theres things you can do to help her deal with you being in school. small changes like an extra call,thoughtful actions go aloooong way!
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i spose these things in life happen alot
the dating process is brutal but you've found somebody you love and loves you back
therefore you pretty much beat the "game"
if she doesn't mention the email, then perhaps you should just forget about the whole thing.
maybe receiving that email actually shined a light on the fact that you two could actually be over and made her realize she doesn't want that.
yeah. i hope i helped :]
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