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popular guy likes nerdy girl? Is it possible?
I am a 17/f in my senior year in high school. I am not very popular, and hang out with the loser, or nerd crowd. The few friends that I have are not very nice to me, but I put up with them because I would rather have some mean friends then none at all. Well last week, one of my "friends" told the most popular guy in our class that I was checking out his butt. ( This wasnt true, but because my face went red they all assumed it was). I was mortified and just walked away. All my friends laughed at me, and the guy just looked uncomfortable. There was just me and my two friends, and him. He had none of his popular friends there to witness this. Well anyways, the next day I kept catching him staring at me. When I would look at him he would look away. This would also happen in our english class. Well on friday, we had a grad council meeting in the cafeteria. He was there, and when no one else was looking, I had to walk by him. This is when he gave me a huge smile, in kind of a sexy, flirtatius way. I was shocked and never said anything. Anyways, my question is: do you think he may really like me? I find it hard to believe because he's the class valedictorian and jock, and can have any girl in school. I also heard he doesnt have a gf right now. Or do you think he's just playing a trick on me?
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I think that he might really be into you. But you can never be sure. So what I would do is kind of play hard to get, just to make sure. If that doesnt work I would just go right up to him when nobodys around and just ask him. I mean what is the worst that could happen?
I dont know if this will help ne but, A bird and a fish can fall in love. But where are they going to live. So just take a chance.
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if i was you..id string him along a little bit..just to see if he really is interested in you. play a lil hard to get...when he looks at you or smiles or whatever he does...just smile back...dont make it like an obnoxious OMG IM DROOLING OVER YOU smile..just a cute flirtacious one. maybe say hi or something..just keep his attention..and with you saying he is mr popular my guess is that he also isnt shy around girls either..so if he does really like you..he'll come to you...like the others said. he could be pulling your chain but you never know..and plus..once you're out of highschool. you never have to see any of those people again if you dont want to...so take a few risks.:P best of luck with the jock! <3
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First off,I have to say that I am staggered by the immaturity of your class group. Seventeen year olds behaving like that?! I don't like to brag about Britain(and goodness knows there are enough things wrong with our culture) but at least in my school, noone was still playing these petty, cruel and spiteful games so late on in school.
To cut to your immediate problem, I have a nasty feeling that this jock is just stringing you along because he feels the need to enhance his status, and making you uncomfortable, perhaps even making a fool of you, is sadly what cuts a dash in your school's most unfortunate culture. Having said all that, he could be a genuinely nice guy who really likes you, and if he's really popular enough, that won't affect his staus-he's still him whatever. I would still say to go carefully though.
Good luck, and I guarantee that these situatiations occur less in college. lucretia x.
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He could messing with you or he could really be interested Its hard to tell when theres no communication going on whats so ever. Just see what happans over the next 2 weeks or so. And i would try to talk to him if you have enough courage to talk to him! gOOD LUCK!
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Just let him approach you. I don't mean to stereotype but he could just be pulling a "carrie" on you. (Not saying that you're like carrie, it's just possible that he's pulling your chain). If he's really interested he'll come to you eventually. In the mean time, let him keep on smiling.
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He might like you. Or he may just be messing with your emotions because he know he has the power to. So don't act like you are all excited and stuff because then he will most likely think that he got you wrapped around his finger.
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I thik its possible, but play it cool, you never know what guys are thinking. Good luck and I hope you get you beau.
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