You bring up some important points. First, about loving a wife. If you don't love your wife it is because you chose not to love her. Love is not simply an emotion or a temporary infatuation. For most marriages that wears off after a short time. I'm sure that homosexual relationships tend to get less passionate after a while. However, husbands are commanded to love their wives regardlesss of the passion. Love means we are committed to be faithful to them and to serve them and to give ourselves to them. Jesus was the perfect example of giving himself for us. We are called to do the same for our spouse.
About homosexuality, I encourage you to specifically read 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 in part is says; "Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral...nor homosexual offenders...will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God."
Please notice that the sin of homosexuality does condemn people to hell. Second, notice that people can be changed, "that is what some of you were". You were not created by God to be a homosexual. It is something that you can be set free from by Jesus just like an alcoholic can be set free from alcoholism. In Christ, you can be someone new. You must trust the Lord completely with your life and your future if this is going to be the life change that Christ wants for you.
Remember this, the short life we live on this earth will be nothing compared to all eternity. Is hanging on to the homosexual life style worth spending eternity in the horrible torment that hell holds? Hell is described as a place of suffering, of torment and torture, of fire and anguish, and a place that you can never escape from. For you as for any other lawbreaker, the salvation of Jesus is your only hope.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Spirituality? Nomad6C9 answered Tuesday January 17 2006, 5:04 pm: So long story short, give up happiness to sit by gods side. I want to thank you so very much because you have helped me realize that God is nothing but a selfish, homophobic child. If he is this almighty savior. Well, I have one thing to say to him. God watch out because this fag is going to rock the heavens from dusk till dawn.
Oh and by the way I didn't choose to be gay. You think I like having people not like me because I am gay. Yeah that is something I choose. And one day when I move away fear that I will be bashed in some alley. But you see I don't worry about those kinds of people because to me they do not exist because I have friends hundreds of them, who love me for who I am. Sure I love to meet knew people but If I have to give up my born destiny for more. I will say forget it. As long as IM alive I will cherish this gayness gift.
Don't you think everyone is entitled to a little happiness. I mean as far as Im concerned God is a homophobic jerk. [ Nomad6C9's advice column | Ask Nomad6C9 A Question ]
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