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I lost my friends trust!!`
I have been really good friends witht this chick for a long time but then she got drunk and something happened one night and she did something that i thought would never happen, she flashed me. I didnt care cause we were too good of friends but i told her what she did and then another one of her best friends told her that it never happened and now she believes them and has forgot about me and wont talk to me...however it really did happen and i have no idea what to do about it..how do i convince her it was true and it did happen? Then if i cant convince her how do i gain her trust back? Thanks!
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My friend Lib did the same thing. She flashed me and doesnt remember it. lol... But we are still great friends.
Ok what I would do is tell her that you two have been great friends for blank years. If she is truly a great friends she will listen. Then tell her that she was drunk and her friend didnt see her do it, but you did. If she doesnt beleive you. Then you just have to let it go. If she doesnt want to be your friends after that then she is not a ver good friend or she is confused and doesnt know what to beleive. Just give her a little time. She could be embarrased that she flashed you. She might just need some time to come to terms with herself.
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i would appoligize and say that you were so drunk...you mixed her up with a differnt girl. Cances are she is just really embarresed, and her friends are just helping her to cover it up because your friend is scared you'll think less of her.
i hope i helped!
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if shes avoiding you over something this stupid then she isnt a very good friend. ive had girls i know do way stupider stuff while drunk and were still friends. if you really want to convince her you can always describe her nipples or something. and find out why the other friend told her it never happened.
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Well before you go through all the hard work of winner her back ask yourself this quesion do you really want a friend that wont even beleive you on something that silly ? if no then make new friends and forget about it if yes then sit her down and have a heart to heart talk about what happen how would she know if she flashed you she was drunk an why would you lie about somethingas dumb as that and once you do that you should have her trust back because she would hopefully beleive you
i hope i helped good luck =)
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she is probally embaressed, she was drunk.
just talk to her, leave her an IM or myspace comment or a note in her locker and just be like "hey, its not a big deal, i was just letting you know what happened. I dont care, and its not like I'm telling a bunch of people. I dont know why <insert persons name who told her she didnt here> told you you didnt, but you did. but its not a big deal. I MISS YOU! call me! Love you and miss you, <your name here>
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Well go talk to her friends that said she didnt, because they could just be telling her that, because they wanted her to not worry about it.
And see what they say? But you really need to sit down with your friend and tell her that she really did flash you,and that you wouldnt lie to her, or just drop the situation.
But communication is the key.
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She believes them because she WANTS to believe them, not you. She is probably so embarrassed that she did that and now just wants to 1) avoid you because of that and 2) wallow in her denial that anything actually happened at all. Seriously, I don't know why she made such a big deal over this because....she just flashed you- who cares? If she wants to be this way then let her, my guess is that it'll blow over and you all will be friends again shortly. I wouldn't mention the incident again since she seems so embarrassed by it.
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