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I'm 14 i love giving advice and recving advice ,i'm new to this site but i think i got the hang of it , i love people asking me questions so start asking =)

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I'm a tennis player and I always wear soffee (sp?) shorts to play tennis in, run in, or lift weights in. Wearing a thong to workout is so unconfortable, so i was wondering what underwear someone would recomend? I have a couple pair of these jockey underwear that i've had forever, they're like those boyshort undies. I hate wearing bikini ones because you can see them in the shorts! Any advice on where i should go to get these miracle undies?!

boy shorts and it doesn't matter if you can see you bikini because hopeful no on is looking at your but lol

Hope i helped Brianna

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well when you say right down topics like wqhat topics did ytou talk about?

like things that happen durning the day like how you thought about them or how you missed them and want to hang out soon or just ask questions that bring you into topics like friends gossip things you like talking about normally we talk about type of music or how far would you go with me or which movie i want to see



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i have a boyfriend, lets call him [ X ] and my bestfriend is telling me she really likes this other guy, lets call him [ A ]. but everytime i'm hanging out with my bf X and my bestfriend, she's always flirting with him. and i think she might like him, but i dunno how to tell her to just stop w/o hurting her feelings.

anyone have any advice for a nice way to say "stop flirting with my bf!"

please and thank you.

first tell him how you feel then tell her i bet if they are good people and care about you they will stop


i hope i helped
Brianna =)

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okay well i want to give my boyfriend a BJ
but we have no way to get comdoms
and i would rather do it without one
and like we are both virgins. b.c we have known eachother since we were like 11 we are both 14

so with us both being virgins and not having no kinda sex with anyone just you know kissing each other

can i get a mouth infection giving him oral without a comdom?

i know this isn't the answer your looking for but anyways i'm telling you i've given a blowjob once and i hated it afterwards you feel depressed and really bad about yourself so i wouldn't do it if i were you and you can get an infection and after i gave that guy a bj i thought everyday i had an infection but just trying to help you out but if i were you i wouldn't do it because than he would tell all his friends and drama drama drama

i hope i helped
Brianna =)

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okay, so i have had a sunburn for about a week and a half and now its starting to peel and its grossing me out so i was wondering how can i fix the peeling.

i rate

alot of lotion helps lol



i hope i helped -Brianna=)

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how can i get a guy who used to go out with a popular girl and who is just friends with me go out with me?
i am 15, a girl, from america, and speak english.

does he know that you like him first of all because that might help and just be yourself



i hope i helped -Brianna=)

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On myspace they always have those "cool new people". I always wondered how people got on it? Do you have to sign up or do they just pick you right when you make a myspace? Does anyone know?

I dont wanna be on it but i was just always curious.

they pick you randomly lol


i hope i helped -Brianna=)

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what do the 3 bases mean? like i know that they have something sexual to do with them, but what are they?

fitst base is making out second base is making out and feeling up and third base is oral sex and home plate is sex lol

i hope i helped -Brianna=)

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ok so here is a conversation i had with this guy that i like and i can't figure what exactly he meant in his last text message so i'm gonna type the whole conversation and i want you to tell me wat you think he means. I'll rate 5's to everyone that gives me an opinion. O and my name is *Debbie* and his is *Nathan* And this conversation was at 11:30 last night.

Nathan---how about we give what we both want a chance and see how good we really are together. hit me back adn let me know what you think you might like.

Debbie---in shock didn't reply for a minute

Nathan---are you going to text back anytime soon i would really like to know what you think before i go to sleep, i guess i could just call you.

Debbie---Well depends on what you really want.

Nathan---You know what i really want what is it you want.

Debbie---No i don't think i know what you want.

Nathan---I want you and you do know that what do you want, I wouldn't mind there being an US but that would be up to you. but what do YOU want.????

Debbie---(i sent this one to the wrong place)I want there to be an us to.

Nathan---are you there can i get a response please, just leaving me hangin ain't cool you know. I will call you in the morning but i want you to text me.

Debbie---I sent it to your phone instead of your screenname but i want to be with you.

ok this is where i get confused.

Nathan---i never got it but *that's good* i'll call you later ok.

Are we dating? What does *that's good* mean?

Thanks signed
really confused

you should just ask him lol that confused me to i think you guys are but you should make sure

i hope i helped =) Brianna

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I`m 15/f and im inlove with a 19 year old. It`s not that much of a difference but some people think it is. My parents wont let me see him because of his criminal record / past with drugs. What should I do? How can i find ways to be able to see him?
Ive never felt so special in my life and im so happy when im with him. sometimes when im in the car with my parents I start crying cause they dont understand how much i love him and they dont care.
how can i sneak around and find ways to see him please help me!

they are just trying to be good parents and look out for you put yourself in their shoes would you let your 15 year old daughter hang out with a 19 year old boy who had crimail offenses if yes then your probably not going to be the best parent in the world but maybe you should move on and find someone else different who can make you feel the same way but is maybe your age and doesn't have lot od criminall ofeenses


i hope i helped =) Brianna

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Hallo!
O.K. so here's the deal. My brother takes me to school each morning in his car. Usually we would just leave at the last second, and get there in time. Now, we're leaving 30 minutes earlier to pick up his friend. I was o.k. with it, but now they're starting to smoke in the car and I get to school with my clothes smelling like smoke. Normally, I would just ask him to stop, but during last summer him and his ex-girlfriend had a baby when he was sixteen, and now I just feel bad for him a lot and I would feel guilty for asking him, because it's probably his way of dealing with the baby (Not that it's the right way.) What should I do?


P.S. not only do I need advice, I give advice,too. So if you need me..uh then yeah :) PL

don't think about it that much and well lets see bring a bottle of perfume and you should smell good as new


i hope i helped =) Brianna

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I have these two friends and they both lie at times. To me at times...and well one day they were asking weight. And I said I'm 160 and she said 120. now she's pretty fat and she can't in no way be 120. I was really stunned at her effort to lie. I don't want to confront her but she makes me feel like i can't trust her again.

What do I do? help me please cause it relly hurts me she lied.

well not to say anything i would lie on my weight to because i'm not confortable with my weight so that might just be it


i hope i helped =) Brianna

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ok so there is this really really nice guy who goes to my church he is a good friend and stuff and i kind of like a little is that a bad thing or if i tell him do you think our relationship will change i am not sure!

well find out what he thinks about you before you tell him and yeah i'm pretty sure things will change for the good or the bad


i hope i helped =) Brianna

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im almost 16. ITS LONG BUT PLEASE READ IT I NEED HELP! alrighty well me and this girl had NEVER really liked each other. but then this year we became BEST FRIENDS. well she did some really slutty things and talked behind my back and was just very dramatic and i hate drama. so right now shes like trying to appologize to me and stuff. the only thing is i dont want her as a friend AND I LIKE HER EX BOYFRIEND. which she says shes still madly "in love" with. but shes going to a different school next year. and i want to be able to date whoever i want. and she told him he "CANT" talk to her friends anymore. shes like crazy. so is this guys off limits? cause im not firends with her and i want a new start and i feel like this relationship would be good 4 me....sry this was so long.

it 's ok but about this anyways ask yourself does he like you ? he wouldn't be off limits but you would have alot of drama brought your way because of dating this guy do you want that ? anyways

i hope i helped =) Brianna

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In the movies do you talk fake a yawn and put your hand over the girl's shoulder hold her hand? Kiss her? i dont no what to do or when to do it..

well this is my advice i think the fake vawn is really chessey so if i were you i would just grab her hand and start rubbing it and then look her in the eyes if she looks back then kiss her if she doesn't try again until she does but you don't have to kiss just hold her hand and watch the movie

i hope i helped =) Brianna

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I can usually keep my cool but get shy hence my name but like i've kissed girls but i've never made out liek french kiss. How do you actually french kiss do you just put you tongue in the other persons mouth? On dates what topics do people usually talk about? and when you call a girl and talk for hours what do you talk about there also like ive talked for a long time but it was random stuff not anything like a topic...

well about the kissing you could practice on your hand how you think it would be like than just do that on the girl and everyone kisses different so there is no right and wrong way on dates just talk about anything that comes to mind but try to be romantic and no chesey lines lol and and what i used to do when i wanted to talk on the phone for hours with this person i would write things down durning the day about what i want to ask or talk about and then when i call or they call i take out a peice of paper lol silly huh? but anyways

i hope i helped =) Brianna

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so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple months and i love kissing him. and i always want to. we havent done it that much though. and its because i am a nervous wreck every time. he was my first kiss and weve never really made out or anything and he knows that im nervous and that he was my first and he knows i think i have no idea what im doing and he trys to make me feel better about it but i still cant help it. i want to make out with him but i dont know how to or how to get over the nervous thing. please dont say just go for it cuz i wish i could lol. any help you can give would be GREAT!!

lmao i once was in this situation well this may sound stupid but there's this movie called bluemoon or something like that its a country movie but anyways they practice making out with their hands idk if that works but some of my friedns do that to funny huh lol but i geuss it works or you could always just let him lead do what he does


i hope i helped =) Brianna

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13/m
Ok so, I have this problem were I might fall in love with someone very easy, and when this happens I get rejected/ heartbroken like 99% of the time. Can anyone pleas help?

ok well look at the bright side your not going to marry any of these girls and dont get so hung up over one girl i mean your only 13 flirt and have fun and don't get hurt

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So i was dating this guy and we were getting pretty serious and I was completley head over heels in love with him, and he claimed he was too. EVerything was perfect. Than out of no where tonight he dumps me because he wants to date around and doesn't want to be in a relationship. What do i do?? Is he lying? i Need advice ahhhh

two words forget him he seems like a player and just wants everyone so if i were you i would move on

hope i helped -Brianna

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I have been with my b/f for about a yr and a half now. We have definitely had our ups and downs. Last year i was at a friends house and one of my b/f's good friends showed up. He asked if i wanted to hang out. Went to his house and he put the moves on me. I refused to have sexual contact with him. Even though i had the urge to. He told me that he was sorry and that he couldnt help but wonder why i was with this other guy and that he thought i was pretty.

Ever since that time, he always makes comments to my b/f about how my b/f doesnt treat me right. Or he will joke around about how im his type. We live in a tight-knit town where everyone knows everyone. I see this guy everyday and he always smiles or stares and then looks away.

My major problem is that im finding more and more that im not in-love with my bf anymore as he has become physically violent.

My sister-in-law thinks that i should leave my bf and go with this guy. I am quite tempted as he and i have so much in common and he knows how to treat a lady. I also have a medical condition where i cannot have children. And this guy has full custody of his little girl. Every time i see him with her i melt because he is such a good father.

Am i wrong for wanting to try and have a relationship with this other guy?
And do you think he would be interested in trying to have a relationship?

Well this is a very tough questio .... first of you need to dumep the boyfriend because obviously he's abusing you and you deseve beter than that and the fact that you dont like him that much anymore for those reasons second off i wouldn't jump from guy to guy if you get what i'm saying i mean listen to how bad this sounds o yeah that one girl dumped her b/f and went out with his best friend like really quick ... sorry...but you dont want to have that reputation and about the bestfriend??? he has a kid???? are you confortable with thhat???? anyways what i think you should do is dump the b/f and gett closer to his bestfriend


i hoped i helped -Brianna

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