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So i was dating this guy and we were getting pretty serious and I was completley head over heels in love with him, and he claimed he was too. EVerything was perfect. Than out of no where tonight he dumps me because he wants to date around and doesn't want to be in a relationship. What do i do?? Is he lying? i Need advice ahhhh
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Hi, if he really loved you, then he would want you, not anyone else. It sounds as though he has lust for you than love. And when we feel lust, we tend to go from one person to the next. Were as love, our feelings are all towards one person. I think he might be agreeing to lust than love. If he is, then hes not worthy of your time. Its love, honesty and respect and he seems to be breaking all three of those rules. Yes I do think hes lying and he does'nt deserve you. But first try and talk to him about it. Let me know how it gets on. If you've got anymore questions or want help then just go to my column. Watch this guy, he sounds as though he's after you for sex or make outs. Daniel.
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He's probably not lieing and it is just his way of telling you he's a manwhore and wants every chick he can get. i don tknow how old he is, but if he is younger he probably isnt going to want a serious relationship anyways and he jsut wants to be out there and see whats out there. i suggest you do the same so you get a feel for what your dealing with..
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two words forget him he seems like a player and just wants everyone so if i were you i would move on
hope i helped -Brianna
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Guys will be guys i dunno for sure but i think you mite have miss read him for him too dump you like that was pretty horrible but i think that he mite not of throught anything of the realaship at the time or he mite of throught the relaship was getting to serious to soon i dunno maybe you should try and talk to him if he dont want to talk i think the best thing to do would be to move on let me no how this situation going soon xoxox all the best please get back to me on this one
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I don't think he is lying, in fact I can't imagine how he could have made this more clear and straightforward. I actually respect his honesty because most guy typically try to sugarcoat things when they break up with a girl. I am really sorry that it hurts you, since you had high hopes for the relationship, it's really tough to go through this stuff. It doesn't seem like it was you though, he just isn't into it.
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Did you say that everything was PERFECT? Well, if that was the case, I'll bet that you would still be happily in a relationship together... Seriously though, it sounds to me like he was getting bored, or to quote a now cliche phrase, "He was just not that into you."
Don't take it personal, be relieved! Trust me, a man will NEVER lie about wanting to get out of a relationship with you. If he had enough guts to say it to your face and be honest about what he wanted, then it is much better for both of you to get on with you lives.
Stop analizing what 'could have been' or 'what did I do wrong'. Take the bull by the horns, and get out there and meet someone new. Chances are you will be much happier when you are loved and adored by your man rather than being loathed by him. Good luck!
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He's a PLAYER, dearie.
If I were you, i'd move on and just find another 'prospect'. There's definitely a lot of other guys other, and who knows? Maybe one of them is just the one you're looking for! ;)
Hope I helped you a lil' bit!
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Some boys are just afraid of commitment and are not ready to go steady. There is not a lot you can do about it other than ask him to give you a reasonable explanation. I know it's horrible being dumped but it happens to everyone and we all get over it eventually. Just accept it as an experience and get on with your life. Good luck.
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