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well to really understand whats the problem is there are somethings your gonna need to know and i think it maybe confusing so just try to understand and i will also give you a ~5~
well i think my best frind is a lesb. but the thing is i think i am too and i think she likes me and i think i do too but i really dont kno i mean we both have had boyfriends and well i dont kno can you become a les. like awile after? but i think she was always one cuz wen i would spen the night at her house we would look at movies but like Not another teen movie and stuff like that, that shows naked girls and stuff and once when she was at my house we were waching a nother movie like that and even my causin who is a boy asked me if she was a les. and i said no but the other day when i went to her house she was rubing my leg and playing aound and i was too and at 1st it was kinda wird but then i got usto it and was ok i really dont kno whats going on but now like im haveing dreams about me and her toganther like both of us marryed (with other men) and us have somthing on the side i dont kno what to do cuz i think i like her too but the thing is what if shes just like really frindy i mean i kno her for a wile and what if when i talk to her about it she get creepd out i really dont kno what to do is this all in my head or am i really a les. i really dont wanna be but than again i think i like her i dont kno what to do how can i find out if shes really one and if i am one too please help thanks
will give you a ~5~ (link)
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sometimes things like that are just a phase. you might not actually not be les, or then again you could be. If you are then there is nothing wrong with it, so i wouldnt worry too much.
As for finding out with your friend- i would sort of ease into the topic. Slowely. "dont you think angelina jolie's a hotttie lol?". yeah. good luck :)
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ok so, my school is having a dinner dance. my best friend and i were going to ask the ppl we like to it today after school. BUT these to guys, who we are kinda friends with and like us, asked us to the dance. but when she went on the bus today, she asked the 2 guys that we like, what they would say if we asked them. they said they would have said yes!!!!! what the hell should we do? we are in need of some serious advice!!!! thanks
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i say that you go to the dance with the two boys who asked you, but after the dance maybe you and your best friend shuld ask the boys you like out. If they said that they would have gone to the dance with you, then maybe they like you.
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f/14
freshman
well basically school sucks and...i really dont like it. im aquantinces (sp)with 20 or so people in my grade, but i really only have two friends.
-one of them is always all over her boyfriend and they only talk to eachother, its like someone turned on a switch or something. whenhes not there, we have a good time, but if hes there she basically forgets im in the room.
- the other one is usually fine but when her other friend (that im friendly with) is there she totally ignores me.
so basically thats it. its just me, myself, and i. my mom was thinking of homeschooling me, not that she knows any of th at, just because she thinks it'd be better since my schools kind of crappy anyway and i hate all the people in it.i kind of want to stay though for things like prom, and graduation, and stuff like that but idk if its really worth it to stay there if i basically have no friends here. im not really sure if homeschooling is good though. when i go to college i dont want to be like the only one that was homeschooled, and not know everything im supposed to, or someting like that. i would get a tutor for math since my mom basically sucks at math, but everything else she would teach me.
idk.
someone please help me out
and if any of you are homeschooled that would be good too..but it doenst really matter. just your opinion will be appreciated. (link)
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im also a freshman 14/f.
freshman year does suck- alot. but i heard that it gets better and better each year, and by senior year you flying.
grades- your perminted to fuck up freshman year... i am too
as for the friend thing-
since you have so many aquaintences, how about you pick your closest ones and ask to hang out or call them on the phone. they'll turn into close freinds soon if you put enough effort into it.
i recommend staying in highschool inless it gets really bad
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Agh! One of my BFF's copies everything from other people! She's so unoriginal with her AIM profile, taste in music, style, way she acts && everything! So annoying! What should I do? Say something.. or just ignore it? Its so annoying tho! I will rate Ok thank yu! (link)
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If she's your best friend then you probably love her personality, so i say ignore it. its probably a phase and people do eventually come into there own person.
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Okay, I'll try to make this short.
My best friend introduced me to this boy, and we all decided we want to be best friends. Well, him and her got super close (they go to catholic school together; i go to public school) and he and I aren't so close. She and I are because we live very close. We've hung out quite a but, and my best friend told me she likes him. Well, of course, after liking her brother for over a year, I decide to like newboy. My friend understood, and was happy that I didn't like her brother anymore. She and I even kind of came to the conclusion that we're taking the "May the best whore win" route of who gets him (if he even likes one of us) But the problem is: I really am getting fond of this boy. We have lots in common and he's everything I could ask for. And we're kind of throwing hints at each other that we like each other (well, that's what it seems like to me). I don't know what to do! I don't want to loose my best friend, but I really like this boy! (link)
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hoe's before bro's, right?
the most important thing is to make sure that you dont lose your best friend, so i would put her before the boy.
in my opinion, none of you should go for this boy- it could ruin your friendship
cheers,
elodie
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Well, one of my really, really good friends is in the hospital. Actually, right now he's in a program because they think he did what he did to himself so he would die. Obviously, that alone hurts so much. He's been in there for almost an entire month and for that entire time, I've talked to him, but just on the phone. I know I'm going to see him soon, but it's not like I can go everyday (he's about an hour away). Today, my best friend, his girlfriend, told me that he's going to be gone for another 4 weeks! After that, we only have 3 weeks left of school! I know I have a right to be like sad about it, but how do I keep myself from being too depressed and going crazy? (link)
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i've been in the same exact situation.
1.) get his number. I'm not sure how he's behaving so i don't know what security he is on, but if he's doing okay you can usually call him. or ask him to call you.
2.) visit as often as possible. Its not always easy though so i recommend asking your best friend and his girlfriend to tell you whenever they visit, and if you can come.
3.) other then that, hope that he shows progress and is let out soon, but you also have to understand maybe he needs to be there right now, because the people there can help him if its a good program.
good luck
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Im 16 years old , grade 11, ive known a gurl named teshia for 3 months , met her thru a mutual friend, she was goin out witta guy cory for 9 months, and i thot she was very pretty, and seemed nice, we started saying hi once in a while, then we started calling eachother, soon enuf we were best friends and talkd for hours atta time evry nite and went out to a bunch of places, i made her the happiest shes bin in her life 4 times in those 3 months, but for the last month i really started to fall for her, i loved her, her and cory didnt havva good relationship,he ignored her lots, called her once a week, did sumthing with her twice a month,they fought alot bout me because shed say oh aj does this for me why cant you , i hated cory because he made her miserable, but she couldnt leave him, she luved him, she wantd to be with me tho,then she broke up with him for the reason being i thot was her wanting to be with me , so about a week later i asked her out all romanticly , and she said im not ready , why are you doing this to me, then thers me thinking she'd be all happy, then that was 6 days ago nd since then ive bin tha most hurt ive bin in my life, she still wants to be good friends ,but ive bin tellin her for tha last month i dont no how long i can stay friends because it hurts seeing u with cory, now i cant cuz it hurts not being with u, so i get advice saying just drop her, forget bout it she had her chance, from my sister, friends, ect.. and i tried and shes all i ever think about, its too hard and hurts too much, i asked her again why we cant be together, are you over cory? she says yes but i cant see myself being with you sexually, i was in awe because we almost did sexual stuff a few times, she wanted to but i didnt because she was with cory, and i think thats wrong, it just hurts so much, what should i do? (link)
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if you truly love her, then you want her to be happy... right?
so i would let her go out with cory.
plus- you never know what will happen. if they don't have a good relationship, they will break up soon and then maybe you two can get together.
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ok so recently, in the past few months, ive turned into a bit of a bitch. i honestly dont know why. i get annoyed a lot easier. most of the time, i get jealous really easy. like for example, my friend found out that i had a advice column, so he decided he wanted one. well i got really mad because its my "thing" and i wanted it to myself. im selfish and im whiney. i dont know why im starting to be like this. i also started doing drugs, becoming more "sexual", looking at porn, being belemic, and a lot of stuff that i know will ruin my life. i cant stop. im losing all my friends, and ive already lost a lot of them. i just dont know what to do. (link)
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Maybe your stressed out. I know that when i'm stressed about something (school, family, friends, etc.) i get real bitchy too. you mentioned that your belemic? maybe your weight could be stressing you out too. idk. when i was belemic it stressed me out but im not sure- im not you.
try relaxing.
good luck
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How old Should a child be when they start dating? (link)
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honestly just as long as theyre in middle school its fine. two young kids arent going to get too seriouse. When you see real little kids- 6th graders dating... you never see them get too seriouse.
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When you`re friend is mad @ you, is it best to say sorry // talk to them online, in person 0r does it matter? also is it best to give them time to cool down so they`re not as mad or what .. i will rate for answers. anything`s useful. thanks! (link)
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i don't think it matters- as long as the message gets across. online you have to be careful because you might say something that isnt supposed to sound mean, but since it is online can be taken the wrong way.
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last night i was with my friend. my best friend. i mean me and her are like really tight.. anyway, she has a boyfriend and we met some guys the night before and they invited us to the movies. so we went and last night her and this one guy are like making out. you know its making out, so whatever. but then he started feeling on her and then they got to third base! she hardly even knows this guy.. and i guess im kind of jealous. but hardly. i mean the guy was pretty hot.. and i wouldnt mind being with him but i wouldnt let him finger me! i mean she has a boyfriend!! and like it kind of makes her seem like a whore.. but me and her boyfriend are pretty good friends and i know if i had a boyfriend and he cheated on me i would've been pissed. now shes gonna break up with him and i'm pretty sure he really likes her. now we're best friends but idk what to do.. i'm not gonna tell her boyfriend because he's gonna tell everyone and people are gonna be calling her a whore and it'll just turn up into this whole mess.. what do i do? [sorry it's so long] (link)
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if she is your best friend, you should always side by her. Talking about it with her might get you too into a fight, so at a sleep over or something you should just sort of ease into the subject. I mean- she could kind of agree with you. just be like "so was he a good kisser? was that your first time at 3rd? do you feel guilty or anything?"
maybe she'll open up to you.
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okay, i need help now. like it's 2:30 a.m. were i live rigt now and i can NOT fall asleep, what are some good ways to try and fall asleep?
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is this just for tonight?
if it happens every night, maybe your waking up too late so your not tired at night.
Make sure your bed is comfertable, try a shower.
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well im normally giving advice but i needed it to so i thought i should ask well anyway i no a lot of people think hickeys/love bites are stupid or old etc but i dont and my bf wants to give me on my neck and stuff i want one but i just wanted to no if it hurts some people say it does som say it dont i just want the truth please tell me thankies!! (link)
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While your getting it, it feels a little soar- but in a good way. Once you actually have the hickey, i dont feel them at all.
I would let him do it, they feel good.
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theres this girl in my class and shes so concited and shes always saying how cute and skinny and pretty she is and the thing is that shes not she's mad ugly and shes not cute and her belly hangs out her shirts and ppl think shes so "hot" what she say... im soooo close to snapping at her and just telling her off and just telling her like it is each day i have to bite my lip not to say n e thing but i know its gonna come out..what would be the best thing to do?
and its hard to ignore it i tried it wont work
help me figure this out before i end up telling her off (link)
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she's probably just self consious. I definitely wouldn't bitch her out though. Just try to ignore it.
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One of my best friends in school is in my science class. since the beginning of the year whenever we had to do labs we would be partners, and most of the time we get good grades.
Now, my best friend is starting to be friends with another girl -- shes nice & funny and all, but she is always fooling around. My friend is now partnering up with her alot and it kind of bothers me (pure jealosy. i know). We have a project that is due in 6 weeks, we can work alone, or with 1 or 2 other people. i was offered to work with them, but i dont want to work with her because i know if i dont do good on labs & science my grade will drastically drop. i dont think that i can work well with her cause she wont be able to focus.
im not exactly mad at my friend for ditching me, but i am kinda upset cause i didnt do anything. right now for the project i am the only one in my class working alone. i talked to my friend about it and she said that her friend would work, but i dont believe it. we have to hand in our proposals tomorrow, and i know my friend isnt just gonna ditch her new friend.. so what do i do. thanks a ton. (link)
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I would try not to worry too much about your friend's grades until they start REALLY slipping.
As for your friendship and jeleousy over the subject, I've had the same problem. Eventually though, it passes. Your best friend will probably get tired of her new friend soon, and no one can replace you. I would wait it out, and maybe try to make friends with the new girl. Just because she fools around doesnt mean that you can't stay on task while working together, and she could be a reallly nice person.
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