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school problems...
f/14
freshman
well basically school sucks and...i really dont like it. im aquantinces (sp)with 20 or so people in my grade, but i really only have two friends.
-one of them is always all over her boyfriend and they only talk to eachother, its like someone turned on a switch or something. whenhes not there, we have a good time, but if hes there she basically forgets im in the room.
- the other one is usually fine but when her other friend (that im friendly with) is there she totally ignores me.
so basically thats it. its just me, myself, and i. my mom was thinking of homeschooling me, not that she knows any of th at, just because she thinks it'd be better since my schools kind of crappy anyway and i hate all the people in it.i kind of want to stay though for things like prom, and graduation, and stuff like that but idk if its really worth it to stay there if i basically have no friends here. im not really sure if homeschooling is good though. when i go to college i dont want to be like the only one that was homeschooled, and not know everything im supposed to, or someting like that. i would get a tutor for math since my mom basically sucks at math, but everything else she would teach me.
idk.
someone please help me out
and if any of you are homeschooled that would be good too..but it doenst really matter. just your opinion will be appreciated.
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if i were you i would stick to your high school at leaste til the rest of the year and try to make friends with all your acwaintences (sp), and then next year i would still try it at leaste for a month or so to see if you can make new friends---or if you make new freinds this year and stuff then id def. stay for good..but if you do decide you hate school so much i would maybe just transfer to a different high school instead of being homeschooled and missing out on graduation and all taht good stuff. just dont give up on your social life!! i hope i helped <3
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im also a freshman 14/f.
freshman year does suck- alot. but i heard that it gets better and better each year, and by senior year you flying.
grades- your perminted to fuck up freshman year... i am too
as for the friend thing-
since you have so many aquaintences, how about you pick your closest ones and ask to hang out or call them on the phone. they'll turn into close freinds soon if you put enough effort into it.
i recommend staying in highschool inless it gets really bad
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I am homeschooled because of depression. I wasn't able to function in school, my grades were ok but I was missing out on classes by going to a counselor a lot and getting a lot of make-up work.
I tried going to school for my freshman year and it worked out pretty well until the middle of the year. So I'm now homeschooled again.
I had quite a few friends in school too, and they weren't my best friends, there were about two or three that I was pretty close to, it's kind of like the way you are in school, just people you say hi to and about two that you actually hang out with. I will admit that even though I felt really lonely, my friends changed that a lot when I was down. They made me feel happy and silly to hang around, but still I wasn't really that happy, it was hard.
My point is that even though I wasn't that close to my friends, I was still happy because I found myself only getting closer to these friends through out the year even though I didn't realize it at the time. I just paid attention to how many friends I had and whether they really wanted to be a closer friend to me because it felt like they had too many other friends. Looking back at the beginning of the year, I actually had some pretty good times with those friends because I not only hung out with the ones that I've known for years, but my friends made all of these other friends that I became closer to.
Being homeschooled will not solve your problem of having not enough friends. It will actually get worse. You'll be at home all of the time and you can hang out with your friends still, but they'll probably be hanging out with friends they have at school. It's not that they won't care about you anymore, you won't be at school to make plans and laugh with your friends anymore. I think that you should try hanging tight and realizing that you could be closer to these friends than you are now. And you could be thinking that you don't have that many friends, but you should think about it, because if you do decide that homeschooling is best for you, you'll realize what you had.
I'm not trying to say that homeschooling will fill your head with regrets, but to just be careful of the reason you are doing this. And your reason is because you don't have that many friends, but then again being homeschooled will not make that problem go away. You will always want friends around you no matter how much you think you can handle being alone. Besides, having a lot of friends can be a special thing, but what's even more special is having about two or three good friends. And if they aren't that good yet, then get closer to them. It's possible.
-TheTeenGirl
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My freshman year I was homeschooled. I liked it for the most part. You don't really have a bedtime, you get your work done faster, and you have more attention, like one on one. You work at your own pace so it's easier for you. However, once you start homeschooling, it's a bad idea to decide to wanna go back to public school. I tried to do that but it messed up my credits. I did half a semester of summer school and luckily it caught me up. But if you stay homeschooled, i'd say you're better off that way. There's websites where you can find textbooks and such. Your school might even let you check out books or be willing to sell them to you for the year. Just talk to your principle and see what can be done. You can still see your friends after school and on the weekends, and it might even bring you closer to them..if you have any other questions feel free to ask!
♥ Evy
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