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Does this guy like me? I can't tell!
okay,first of all i'm a 14 year old female. sorry if this is long, but let me try to explain my situation:
to start out, i didn't really like this guy (lets just call him Sam, that really isn't his name, but thats what i'll refer to him as for this). but then one day during music class, we both volunteered to demonstrate something for the entire class. after we finished two girls (who happened to be both of his ex-girlfriends) came up to me and asked me if i liked sam. i told them no (which was the truth then..we were really just friends). Then they told me that they think we would make a really cute couple. So that got me thinking. Then that same day one of my best friends asked me if i liked sam because i was talking to him. I told her the same thing i told the first two girls, no. Once i started talking to him more i started to think that he liked me, so i started liking him too. like this one time on the bus (we ride the same bus to and from school) i came on the bus and just kidding told him that he was sitting in my seat. he realized that i was kidding but said sorry and said that i could sit next to him in the seat. i thought he was joking and laughed and said that's ok. but then he felt bad and got up so i could sit there, but then this other kid quickly took sam's old seat. so sam ended up sitting in the seat next to mine. did he really want me to sit next to him? and does that mean that he likes me? then one night when i was out to the movies with my friend he came to my house with 3 other guys friends to see if i could hang out, but my dad told him that i was out. sorry this is so long, but i'm almost finished. then last night my school had a school dance. it was the last slow song of the night and he asked this other girl to dance, but the girl didn't really want to dance with him so she told me to dance with him. i danced with him for a little bit. but for some reason he thought it would be funny to dance with like 5 girls in one song. so he danced with me for like 20 secs, then another girl, then another girl, then back to me for like another 20 secs. Then before the song even ended his friend ran over to him and told him he had to dance with this other girl from 7th grade. so he just stopped dancing with me to dance with this other girl. i thought he was being rude at the time, but maybe he just felt bad for the other girl.
so my final question: does he like me?
thanks!
<3hopeful romantic
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well its not thay he doesnt like you as girlfriend material i think he likes you enough to be friends with you maybe you think you like him because your friends were talking alot about him made you think you liked him but you really didnt
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From there:
I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
Based on his actions, I think he could. Guys in 7th grade are often sporadic, so I wouldn't take him dancing with other girls at the dance in offense. =]
--Jack
(16/m)
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