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night turns into trouble
last night i was with my friend. my best friend. i mean me and her are like really tight.. anyway, she has a boyfriend and we met some guys the night before and they invited us to the movies. so we went and last night her and this one guy are like making out. you know its making out, so whatever. but then he started feeling on her and then they got to third base! she hardly even knows this guy.. and i guess im kind of jealous. but hardly. i mean the guy was pretty hot.. and i wouldnt mind being with him but i wouldnt let him finger me! i mean she has a boyfriend!! and like it kind of makes her seem like a whore.. but me and her boyfriend are pretty good friends and i know if i had a boyfriend and he cheated on me i would've been pissed. now shes gonna break up with him and i'm pretty sure he really likes her. now we're best friends but idk what to do.. i'm not gonna tell her boyfriend because he's gonna tell everyone and people are gonna be calling her a whore and it'll just turn up into this whole mess.. what do i do? [sorry it's so long]
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if she is your best friend, you should always side by her. Talking about it with her might get you too into a fight, so at a sleep over or something you should just sort of ease into the subject. I mean- she could kind of agree with you. just be like "so was he a good kisser? was that your first time at 3rd? do you feel guilty or anything?"
maybe she'll open up to you.
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The best thing to do would be to tell him what she did becuase that is definetly not the right thing to do especially is she has a boyfriend. I dont think it would ruin your relationship with her because you are doing the right thing by telling him so she provbably will get mad for a little but then she will realize (hopefully) that you did the right thing and you werenet trying to be mean you were trying to do the right thing and the right thing is to tell him.
♥ good luck
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well I think that you should not tell her boyfriend that she cheated on him. It will end up as a big mess and she might think you were not being a loyal friend and went behind her back. I also think that you should probably stay out of their business, if she wants to brake up with him, then let her brake up with him... it will be better if you can stay close to both as friends rather then take one of their sides only<3hope i helped
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sometimes, you just need to stay out of things. this is one of those things you should stay out of because you don't want to hurt either of your freinds. let your best freind do what she wants to do and maybe she will learn from it. just be there for both of your freinds, and that's the best thing you can do!
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i wouldn't do anything. this is not your place to interfere. what your best friend does are her choices and she should also deal with the consequences. although you may feel like you should do something, i do not think you should, because as you said, this could very well turn into a mess, and you could lose both of your good friends. this will all straighten out in time if you just leave it alone
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