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used 2 much :<
okay. im 16/f
MR.X
this guy, [this started back in october] MR.X [22at the time, 23/m now + he has a 3year old daughter] stayed at his house whilst i was dating my ex bf and slept with MR.X once. then the next day broke up with my ex bf cos my ex was a virgin and i didnt feel i was the right person. then 2 months later i stayed there again and we slept with MR.X again. i developed feelings for MR.X and now he's got a girlfriend.
MR.Y
so this guy MR.Y [18 at the time, 19/m yrs old now] met him seemed like a nice guy. alredy knew one of his mates. he came over mine 2 nights later whilst parents were out. i slept with him. then i started to develop feelings for him only to find out he's got a gf of 3 years. was pretty upset. ive got his house number and pretty sure his gf lives with him. kinda thinking about giving her a call and blurting it all out.
MR.Z
and MR.Z [one of MR.Y's friends, he's 18/m almost 19] got with him a month later only to find out he was using me.
Problem is now, i miss MR.X. I cant stop thinking about him. when i go to sleep at night i hug my pillow thinking about him and nothing will erase him from my memory. i know the age difference sucks. but i really like him.
ive been used quite alot over the last 8 months and im sick of it. but nothing can equal up to MR.X. recently one of my close friends has shown an interest in me telling me im cute and all that. but i know if anything was to happen, i would just be converting him into a MR.X clone.
please help. im so confused :<
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Hey!
I know it's really hard getting over a guy you really like (mr.X). Had have had the same problem, it took me like a year to get over my ex bf. (and during that year I had some realapses). What I think you should do is totally forget about Mr.Y and Mr.Z. They are bad news. And as for Mr.X...you need to get over him! There are plent of other fish in the sea. Chocolate and a night with the girls usually helps. It will be hard to forget about him but you deserve better. Sounds like you have no problem with finding a bf, so go for a new MR.! Like a Mr.L (L for LOVE =P )!!
It also sounds like thoose guys are just using you for sex. I've had that problmen too...didn't end up good..
So in conclusion, dump them all. Forget everyone and have a freah new start! That's what you need!
Good luck hun!
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Hi
Sounds to me that you too easily let people use you. You're 16 years old, and you're already having sex with alot of people.
I think you need to slow down, and realize that having sex with men will not make them love you and want to be with you. I can tell you this, because I have been there. When I was younger I would have sex with guys in the hopes that he would want to stay with me....not the case..in fact it was the complete opposite.
If you give the impression that you will just give it up (sex) to anyone, guys aren't going to take you as a person who wants a serious relationship.
Start respecting yourself a little bit, and the right person will come along that will see you as a self-confident, self-respecting girl.
I also think Mr.X is far too old for you...I know you don't want to hear that, but it's true. You're still a young lady, and he is a grown man with a child...try to stick with someone who's still in high school...
Good luck to you. Take care.
Brenda
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