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Im having a Christmas party/New Years Party. On New years Night. But its still for Christmas and I have one every year and people get really into it. Like all the girls wear slutty santa outfits haha. Anyways, there needs to be a theme. Last year it was "All I want for CHristmas is You." This year, what could it be? I was thinking "Santa baby, (please hurry down the chimney tonight)," maybe.
Does anyone have any other ideaasss?!
THANKS (link)
Rudolph! Or like Jingle Bell Rock! That's a good theme! or just like: Snow!
Good luck


What is the best site to download movies for FREE so you can put them onto your iPod?

thanks

probably in wrong category.. SORRY (link)
Use Torrents!! That is the best ever! Download a program called UTorrent. Then go online to eg. www.mininova.org, www.bittorrent.com or www.isohunt.com and download torrents, oopen them in the utorrent program and that's it :D


I'm 15 and I usually don't wear any makeup but when I do I only wear some eyeliner and mascara. I wanna get more though. What kinds of stuff should I buy? i was in sephora yesterday and there's so much nice stuff but I don't know what to get. I would like it if I could get some advice from girls about my age b/c I want to wear what's in style and nothing too crazy. I have dark brown hair, blue eyes, and a light complexion. If you could just give me some tips and tell me what you do and what brands to get, that would be great! Pictures would be nice too. (link)
Your like me, brown hair, blue eyes and a light complexion. Just remeber, you don't want too much makeup. Eyeliner and mascara are good. What I use is:
Eyes: Max Factor 2000 Calorie mascara-black and Max Factor colour perfection Eyeliner (applied only on my eye lids, right on the line where my eyelashes start
Skin: L'ORÉAL True Match (W5 Sable Doré Golden Sand)
Rouge: IsaDora (07 Soft Peach)
Lips: regular lipbalm

And that's it :D!

Well that's for day-makeup.
If I was going to a party I would have all od the above, but a bit more of everything, including eyeliner all around my eyes and a light pink-ish eyeshadow and Pink lipgloss

Hope I helped!


me and my substitue teacher are really close friends. hes bout 40 and im 16. he is in the military and also does security at the mall and i visit him everday. he helps me with all my problems and is known around the city. all the kids love him. hes drivin me and my friends home a few times and he knows my mom. hes goin away to iraq soon and asked me if i wanted to go get chinese food on tuesday. weve been plannin this for a while and i have no problem with it. he knows i lvoe to drink and he jus recently asked me what kind of alcohol i want cz hes gunan get me some so i can dirnk. i kno its weird, but i am very close with him and he is leavin and i want to get suttin to eat. im jus wondering if i shood drink or not. i dont think he would everrrr try anything cz he knows my mom and is known around the town, and he busts drug dealers and works with the cops. please let me kno if u think i shood drink or not. (link)
Why not? Seriously, your 16. Everyone drinks, at least where i'm from. Just know your limit. Just because you drink doesn't mean you need to get drunk. There is a difference! There is NOTHING weird with being friends with a 40year old. DOn't feel bad because of that. If you want, drink. Just know your limit and don't drive afterwards. If you drink, drink responsibly.
Have fun on tuesday!


what are some good techniques to put eyeliner on? like.. what part would u put it on? i know some people put it on the top, but i dont know how to do that. also, what color eye liners or eye shadows would look good with greenish/hazel eyes? (link)
As far as techniques go, just relax your hand and draw. I put it on top, right above my eye lashes and in the outer corner of my eyes, ad well as the outer-bottom part of my eye. I have big blue eyes and use black because it makes a good makring of the eyes. But oyu have green/hazel eyes (pretty!), if you want you can always use black, it's a classic but if you have small eyes and want to open them up, then use a white eyeliner only on the bottom of your eyes. Otherwise, you can always try green or brown eyeliner. Depending on the color you choose it will enhance the color of you eyes! ;)






ok my gf is 15 i know thats young but she says she was raped when she was 13 and she thinks she cant have an orgasim cuz of it she can only have one if she or me rubs her clit for a long time shes also really sensitive and says she dosnt feel anything when she fingers herself or i do it oral sex dosnt do it either any one who can help me i love her and i wasnt to give her a really good orgasim pweese help

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maybe she is not ready to have sex again. It brings back horrible memories and feelings, this is not something that wears away quickly. The first thing is not to focus on how she can get a orgasm, you should focus on helping her emotionally getting over this traumatic event. Sure it has gone 2 years, but that might not be enough. I have some horrible experiences with sex and now evetytime i do it i can't keep it out of my head and one time i even started crying (not big turn on...). So all i'm saying is get your friend to take a little break from sex and talk more about how she feels.

good luck!


OK, onne of my closest bffl's is getting on my last nerves. She's always saying that she is getting more guys than me. GRRRRR, its driving me nuts. Just because she has a bigger chest than I do and atracts older guys, doesnt mean she gets more guys than i do, right? I dont know, all i know is that im tired of her always bragging. If she wants to act like a slut and bitch , fine. But what should I do about the problem. I DONT KNOW IF I CAN TAKE ANYMORE. Can someone PLEASE help me?!?!?!?!?! (link)
I've been there girl! And believe me, it might seem hard but he best thing is to talk to your friend. if you guys really are the colsest bff's then you should wihout a doubt just talk to her. Tell her how tou feel (sounds corny but it's still good to do!). Just go and take a coffee or whatever and sit down and talk about it. Tell her it hurts your feeling when she keeps on bragging as she does and that she can keep it to her self if she has to brag about it.
The reason she might be bragging is because she is insecure and wants you to know how cool she is or something.

good luck!


How do I become more trustworthy and truthful without appearing fake? (link)
It's a pretty hard question. It al depends on the person you want to seem trustworthy too i guess. Well a good thing is to make small promises or comittments like "oh you haven't seen that movie well i have it at home, i could bring it to you tomorrow" (and then you bring the next day of course). It's a good, small little thing. Trusting someone is all about "small tests", you test the person. the better they do the more they trust you. Why would have to be fake to seem trustworthy. The "small tests" can be anything from brining the movie example to keeping a secret. But remeber, trust must go both ways, if you don't trust the person, don't expect the person to trust you. But I'm sure you'll do fine =)

Good luck!


hello ! im really interested in discovering new songs and such, and i have been 'talking' to some kid a lot lately, we both like eachother alot ! anybody know any good love songs !? not ones that are 'too common', preferably with a slow beat. thanks alot guys :] (link)
Five times august- Better with you
The Afters- Beautiful love
Coldplay- Swolloed by the sea


I was wondering if you guys had some bands/songs that you really liked that are similar to my favorites.

Some of my favorite artists are Red Hot Chili Peppers, Dashboard Confessional, Switchfoot, Jacks Mannequin, The Audition, Houston Calls, Cobra Starship, The Matches.

So could you give me some of your favorite alternitive rock type bands and songs? (link)
Hoobastank
30 seconds to mars
Tenacious D
Five times august
Jason Mraz
Jimmy eat world
something corporate
3 doors down
snow patrol
Yellowcard
Brand New
Mew
Crash Diet
Neverstore
Tiger Lou
Takida
Vertical horizon (!!)
Weezer
American Hi fi
AFI
the clash
Reilent K
Thrid eye blind
plain white T's
Train
Starting Line
Bowling for soup
blood houndgang
bliss 66
suguarcult
No adress
Postal service
Hinder (!!)
Von Ray
Nickelback
Smash MOuth
blue october
pink spiders
all american rejects
panic at the disco
Simple plan
Thrice
number one fan
Live
Billy Talent (!!)
cut copy
foountains of wayne
8stops7
taking back sunday
Eve 6
One lady peace
The Killers (!!)
Manic street preachers




hope i helped some!
if you want even more bands then just say so! =)


THis guy and I really like each other....well at least I know that i really like him. But he told me he liked me, and we have been talkin to each other for a month and some days. He is really sweet and we talk nearly everyday. but there is one problem: I live like two counties away from him (about 45-50 minutes) and the only common ground we have is when we see each other at church every Saturday. This weekend, he told me that he doesnt know if it will really work out because of our distance. I was crushed. But we saw each other the next day, and he said that he missed me, and he think he made a mistake. Then he added that the distance was not the only thing, that he wasnt being completely honest. Im not sure what it is, and im not sure whether he still likes me (but he did say that he still has feelings for me). And now i dont know what it is. And he is busy with homework alot, so it has been two days and we still havent tlaked about it. If he cant call me, he usually would call me just to say goodnight. Now if he doenst call, he just doent call. And now I dont know what to think. I know that if it was just the distance, then we could definitely work it out. I dont know what to think. SOmebody HELP!!!! (link)
I think he still likes you. He just tires to be a ralist. It's hard living away from eachother but that's still no excuse. I have this friend whos girlfriend lies in Austria (and he lives i sweden!) And somehow they manage for it to work. You guys only love 40-45 minutes away from eachother. That's the time it takes for me to go to school! I go to school and back everyday, and that's about 90minutes a day! That's no biggie at all! You guys can totally make this work! If there is a will there is a way! The only reason for you guys not to be together is that one of you don't feel that way about the other. But I think he still likes you, give it a try! At least you see eachother at least once a week in chruch! That's awesome! then you can hang out afterwards or something! It is too hard to find a guy that you like and that actually likes you back so hun, when you find him (which you have!), do everything to make it work. It's worth it! There is too little love in the world because of silly things as "too far away" or "too big nose" or something! Let me just ask you somehting: DO you like him? If yes- go for it! otherwise, that's your answer!
Good luck! ;)


so about a year ago i gave this boy that liked me ALOT a chance we went out for a few months and we were young and in love .. everything was perfect until one day out of the blue he broke up with me .. i was heartbroken... so we didn't really talk all like that for a while i thought i was over himand then we started talking again and the feelings came back then i made a mistake and had sex with him even though i don't regret it .. he was a virgin .. and then he denied everything even to me .. when im the person he did it with ? makes no sense right? anyways.. then he was like i don't want anything to do with you blah blah blah .. ya know the stuff guys say .. but besides that i was at his house the other day and he kissed me .. and this isn't the first time he came on to me .. alot of people think he still likes me but he just won't say anything .. what should i do? i tryed talking to him .. but talking 2 that boy .. hah your better off getting a response from a brick wall.. hes very stubborn... & maybe since i turned him down soo many times before he's doing it as retaliation? ahh idk .


i'll apprchiate the help (link)
This totally feels like the situation I usually get myself into! HOney, I know how you are feeling, I've been there! It was the same for me, he dumped me and then we had sex, then he didn't want me again but everyone stil thought he liked me. So confusing and so painful! One thing that I have leared, guys are not that complicated as they seem. They usually have such a lame, stupid excuse that it can't be compicated. they are just asses.
One thing you have to do is ask your self and try to answer as turthfully as possible:
Do you like him enough to try to get him back? Is it worth it?

If yes: Then you must really like (or love) him to want him that much. I think you desevere a guy who doesn't treat you that way (they are haarrrd, almost impissoble to find but once you do it was worth a wait). But you should fight for him, he is you man and then prove to him how much he means to you, guys like that!

If no: then there you go. Then you know what to do.

I know you know the answer to the question, but sometimes it's just hard to realise the truth..

goood luck and merry christmas!


I’m sitting here
Watching everyone
Everyone walk hand and hand
Walking with their girlfriends
Walking with their boyfriends
Thinking and wondering why don’t I have that?
Missing being in a relationship
Thinking it’s a bad thing
Thinking its bad that I want a boyfriend
So I don’t try to find one
When something happens good
I don’t except it
I say to myself
This isn’t right
Boys don’t go out with boys
Why do I want this?
Why do I need this?
It’s killing me not having someone
Someone to walk hand and hand
Then I wont be the kid sitting there
Saying why don’t I have this
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There is NOTHING wrong with being bi or homosexual at all!
My best friend is bisexual and he has a crush on both a guy and a girl. There is nothing wrong with that! To be honest it's even better! Then you have more options! Congratulations I say!

And you should feel that you need a partner to make you happy. You should be confident in youself and be pleased with yourself first before getting into a relationship with anyone otherwise it will be hard, Believe me!

So remeber, threr is nothing wrong with you, just be proud of who you are, okay?

Merry Christmas!


im really confused about this. When your about ot have sex, like he starts taking off your clothes and you start taking off his when would you put the condom on. I'm really confused

thankss =] (link)
I know!! I have been thinking about that too!! But after a few (very awkward moments) I have realised that right after the forplay, right when the clothes are off, that's when to put it on! Don't do what I did once. I avoided to say anything because I didn't know when would be a good time so we did it anyway. Not a good idea!

Just remeber what a friend once told me
"If it's not on, it's not on!"

Good luck and merry christmas!


So as everyone knows, Christmas is in two days. I still don't have any presents for my mom, dad, sister, or grandparents! I don't have any money either, and I dont want to ask people for money, so I was thinking of making them gifts. I need some ideas, something easy, that I could make in a day. Any advice is appreciated!

Happy Holidays. (link)
Parents are always hard, I'm giving my dad a book and my mom a frame with black/white photos from our trip to new york this fall.
Then my sister I'm giving a really pretty shirt and matching necklase. But since your sister is 10 then something girly, fluffy, gilltery and pink can never go wrong. I don't have any grandparents really so i can't help you that much. But I'mi guessing something made by you is always good. Do you knit, draw, take pictures, sing or anything you can to that for them.

Hope I helped in anyway.
Merry Christmas!


I've been having variations of the same dream over and over. I think that dreams can sometimes mean things. If any of you know anything about dream interpretation..could you please let me know what the following dreams might mean? Thanks so much!

The first dream:
My immeadiate family & I were walking down this gravel road. There was nothing around us for a long time. Then, all of the sudden, there is this big building with one door. When I get closer to the door, my friend Deven (a girl) opens it. I've always been friends with her but lately we haven't talked much. So, anyways, she hands me a note from this guy Nick that I've had a big crush on for two years now. (Just in case it matters, I asked Nick to a dance and he said yes one day and changed his mind the next. We haven't really talked since then because I've been too embarrassed). It said that he was sorry for all the stuff that happened last year and that he really wanted to make it work between us. After I read the note, I looked inside the building and there was a dance/disco going on and all of my friends were having fun.

The Second Dream:
It was the first day of school & Nick walked up to me and gave me a note. I didn't get to read it before I woke up & the dream ended but when he handed it to me..he said that he wanted to make it work with me and him.

Sorry for such a long situation but hopefully somebody can help! It is really bothering me & I want to know if this means anything! Thank you sooooo much (link)
What is it with our dreams and notes? =P Anywaym et's see what we have here...I'm not sure what it all means but let's start with the first dream.
First dram:
I think the walking down the gravel road with your family could be that you just fee that you are "floating" around. The walking represents you living your life and right now you are just like walking by life...if you get what I'm saying.. Let me put it in other words. You are walking with your family, there is nothing around you. I think that represents your how you feel about your life right now. Days are drifting by (the walking) and you can't really seize the day because there is nothing to seize (the nothing around you while walking).Maybe it's the whole Nick thing or the unfinnished business with your friend Deven. But you are walking with your famliy which means you feel that they are with you but maybe can't see the world through your eyes.

The "all of a sudden" building might either mean great fear or something you want to conqueer. (or both- conquering your fear). And when Deven opens the door I think means that she is opening the door to your friendship. YOu said you hadn't talked to her in a while and maybe that's your fear (the building!) right now beacuse it might be hard to start talking again. And the sign that she opens the door into the building means that you want to conquer the issue with Deven.

Then the whole she giving you a note from Nick thing I think is a sign of your crush on Nick ad your girly-gossip-friendship with Deven. That's how you want it to be. You want Nick to want you, you want nick to take you to that dance.

When the disco/dance appears you get really happy beacuse all of your friends are there and you are having fun. But let me ask you somehting- was nick there? Do you remeber any Nick? Because maybe if he wasn't there then it might be a sign that you are better off without him and that you can have fun and stuff without him.
Your family is apperantly gone so in the presece of your friends you feel secure. The are the substitues os your family = good friends! I understand it was you don't know what happened to your family after you went insside the bulding and I think that means you need them to lead you but when it's time you need to do it on your own. (walking through the door of the building)


Sencond dream:
It's short, not like the otherone...
Again I think this is the desire in you. You want him to say to you in someway (but not directly, hence the note) that he wants it to work between you two. He symbolism of him giving you a note is like him giving his comassion to you. Saying that he wants it to work between tou two. But keep in mind, this is all what you want.


Both drams:
I read in a "dream interpretation book once that the people in your dream is a shaddowing of you. It's forms of you. See as actors playing you.. So havea think about that with all what I said. In you dream it's Deven who takes the first step. Maybe it's acually you who opens the door to your fear (the building). YOu are helping out you. HAve a think about it!

Hope I helped! And remeber- keep on dreaming! =D
If you have any questions, you can just ask me!
Good luck, with everything!


ME And one Of My bestest Freinds Ever Are Drifting because shes been talking about me to one of my toher freind, and not stuf that was true, LIES that shes saying about Me And My Boyfriend , i was pretty upset when i found out because were supose 2 be the TWOOO BESTEST Freinds since 6th grade til now which is four years. and it really sucks because now i cant even tell her things because she runs her mouth behind my back , and even said she doesnt tel me anything anymore and doesnt want to [she said that to my other freidna bout me] which hurts, so what friendship is in that if i cant trust her, i cant tearn to her to talk to and she wont talk to me?? even tho i was there for her when she REALLYY needed it, now shes not here for me. what do i do? i havent asked her about what she said yet, because ive been not even trying to talk to her because it pisses me off thinking of it (link)
It sounds to me like you have to talk to your friend. Or if you can even call her that, no friend, especially Best friend should never ever do that. Sorry if I seem a bit harsh but I know how it is when a best friend goes behind your back...

I have lost two of my very best friends in this past year! My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and she knew how much I liked him and the other best friend appeared to be a complete phony, a compulsive liar. Every word I have heard from him has all lies and I hard concrete evidence to prove that...I knew them both for many years, one for five years the other one for four years...

I don't want to bring you down but people can stab you in the back, it's human I guess. But not all people will. There are a few that seperate from that pac. The thing I think you is talk to your friend. Tell her how you feel. If you have been best friends for so long then talk to her. You should ask her why she's done it! But if she contiunes- that's when it hurts. Then I think you should end the friendship.

Friends are suppose to make you happy, not bring you down. Even if it means cutting out your best friend. Believe me, it hurts like hell and it's so not easy. But once you get past that face then you will be happier because if you really think about it- did you loose a true friend? How much of a friend is she when she is spreading lies about you?

You should make a list of qualities your friends should have, I'm guessing "making up lies behind you back" is not one of them. So that's why I think you should cut her out of your life. YOu should just hang out if people who make you happy, not bring you down! Life is too short to supress your anger and hang out with people who bring you down!

It's really up to you if you if you feel like the friendship is worth fighting for and if it feels that way, then go for it. There is no point of loosing a friend just like that...Talk to her- that's my advice.

Good Luck!


I really really want to get a digital camera and i know that if i want a good camera, i am going to have to pay good money. I really want one of those cameras that comes with the printer and you just sit it on top and push a few buttons and walla! well, i want to get a really good brand and make sure my camera will last a while, so i am needing advice on which cameras to stay away from and which are really great. Thanks. I rate (link)
Get a Nikon Coolpix L101

It's really good and not to pricy ;)


what is a good way 2 ask a boy out???
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Just be casual, and not like "do you want to go out with me?"

Be more like friendly in the begining, For example if you are talking about a movie you want to see and he says he hasn't seen it either then you can go "hey, do you wanna go and see it on friday?" or somehting like that. Then it sounds more impulsive and laid back (they like that).

Good luck!!


hi. im 16 and i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for our one year. im madly in love with him and i want it to be something really romantic i dont know what to do. please help (link)
Make a scrapbook out of you favoutie memories! It's personal, romantic and he can cherish it forever




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