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me & my substatute teacher =/
me and my substitue teacher are really close friends. hes bout 40 and im 16. he is in the military and also does security at the mall and i visit him everday. he helps me with all my problems and is known around the city. all the kids love him. hes drivin me and my friends home a few times and he knows my mom. hes goin away to iraq soon and asked me if i wanted to go get chinese food on tuesday. weve been plannin this for a while and i have no problem with it. he knows i lvoe to drink and he jus recently asked me what kind of alcohol i want cz hes gunan get me some so i can dirnk. i kno its weird, but i am very close with him and he is leavin and i want to get suttin to eat. im jus wondering if i shood drink or not. i dont think he would everrrr try anything cz he knows my mom and is known around the town, and he busts drug dealers and works with the cops. please let me kno if u think i shood drink or not.
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Why not? Seriously, your 16. Everyone drinks, at least where i'm from. Just know your limit. Just because you drink doesn't mean you need to get drunk. There is a difference! There is NOTHING weird with being friends with a 40year old. DOn't feel bad because of that. If you want, drink. Just know your limit and don't drive afterwards. If you drink, drink responsibly.
Have fun on tuesday!
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Since you deleted the other question after I had already answered it, I guess I should repost my answer so you don't forget.
I don't think you should drink with him. With that kind of age difference, it'll just lead to bad things. Just tell him you changed your mind or you're just not in the mood for any. It's nice that you're friends with him & all, but in all honesty, drinking with him [when he works with the police] and where it's illegal, is not the best idea.
Think about it.
& Good luck.
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no, no, no. dont drink.
for one, you are underage.
and he should not be buying you a drink.
both of you could get into trouble.
so its best if you just didnt drink.
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For his sake do not get him to buy alcohol from you. Its irresponsible on both your parts.
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No, darling, I don't think you should drink anything. I don't think that your male friend would try and take advantage of you. However, if you really care about him, you wouldn't risk it. What if you were to get drunk, and being 16, your legal guardian was to find out? They'd be curious to know wouldn't they or some other adult. And what if you're seen. What if you're caught? Not only are you risking getting yourself into trouble but your 40 year old friend as well. He could go to jail. And if you care about him, or yourself b/c you never know how things really turn out to be about those that you think you know, then you wouldn't risk it at all. Either way, it's too risky and in the end, you both may get into trouble. It's not worth that. Besides, even if you don't get caught, you may have to deal with a terrible hangover, unless you can hold your alcohol really well. Bye and hope I was some help.
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I say no.
You're not 21. You'll get in trouble.
His supplying the alcohol. It's illegal. He'll get in a shitload of trouble.
He is known around the town. Bad image.
40 and 16yr old...sounds a bit...you know.
He knows your mom...hmm, let's think about that. What if your mom finds out?
DON'T DRINK.
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youre not 21.
so it would be illegal.
and he could get in trouble for giving alcohol to a minor. its a no all the way around.
xxtiffany
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i myself could never resist an offer for vodka, but if i were you, i wouldnt drink, both because he is older than you and its a bit sketchy, your only 16, and he knows ur mum.
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