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Im so scared im not going to have a friend next year, all my friends are going to be in seperate hombases!!!!!!!!!!!! I need tips on how to make friends because its hard in middle school,
THANKYOU!! :D
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First off i went through this problem last year. Although you're very nervous middleschoolers aren't vicious tigers, they have hearts too. You'll be spending every day with the kids in homebase, so here are some tips:
1. Be friendly
2. Introduce yourself
3. Sit by other kids
4. Try to get to know people
5. Don't be judgemental
6. Smile
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I know just what you mean, making friends can be really difficult but you will defidently make one your first or second day if your really open with talking to people,almost everyone gets really shy at first when they talk to new people so you could try asking more questions to who ever you meet, and be happy but not to happy, you dont want them thinking your annoying. haha, you could be like "hey whats your name?" and you could talk about things you have in common or classes you both have or basiaclly anything. most meetings are a little akward but the trick it mainly keeping the convorsation going. i really hope something helped. good luck. :]]]
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Hi there.
Well I know what your going through because I had that problem a couple years ago.
Anyway.
First off, you can't be shy.
You have to make conversation with people.
And you also have to remember to be yourself.
Because if not, people will only like you for what your not.
And you want people to like you,for you.
:D
So anyways yeah that's what you do.
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Haha.
I assure you that there is going to be at LEAST one person you'll meet. When I went into middle school, I had NO friends. The friends I had in elementry school all went to a different middle school, thus leaving me completely friendless. I basically made a friend in the first week or something like that. I'm still somewhat friends with her and I believe we were in the same homebase twice in a row =) That was super sweet.
I'm sure that your school has some kind of activities to do during hb or some kind of activity to get you guys to interact with each other. If not...well, you can always say hi to the person sitting next to you or whoever looks amicable. Don't worry. I've been through middle school and freshmen year of high school & I made friends who are seniors, juniors, and sad, but true: most of my friends are sophomores, well, rising juniors now. It's not hard to make friends in middle/high school unless you think/want it to be. Just relax, be yourself, and I'm sure there are going to be people you know or other people that are in the same situation as you are =) Good luck!
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be kind and friendly to everyone, be especially nice to those who are nice back to you...
its that easy
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