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"Drifting BEST FRIENDS"
ME And one Of My bestest Freinds Ever Are Drifting because shes been talking about me to one of my toher freind, and not stuf that was true, LIES that shes saying about Me And My Boyfriend , i was pretty upset when i found out because were supose 2 be the TWOOO BESTEST Freinds since 6th grade til now which is four years. and it really sucks because now i cant even tell her things because she runs her mouth behind my back , and even said she doesnt tel me anything anymore and doesnt want to [she said that to my other freidna bout me] which hurts, so what friendship is in that if i cant trust her, i cant tearn to her to talk to and she wont talk to me?? even tho i was there for her when she REALLYY needed it, now shes not here for me. what do i do? i havent asked her about what she said yet, because ive been not even trying to talk to her because it pisses me off thinking of it
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It sounds to me like you have to talk to your friend. Or if you can even call her that, no friend, especially Best friend should never ever do that. Sorry if I seem a bit harsh but I know how it is when a best friend goes behind your back...
I have lost two of my very best friends in this past year! My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and she knew how much I liked him and the other best friend appeared to be a complete phony, a compulsive liar. Every word I have heard from him has all lies and I hard concrete evidence to prove that...I knew them both for many years, one for five years the other one for four years...
I don't want to bring you down but people can stab you in the back, it's human I guess. But not all people will. There are a few that seperate from that pac. The thing I think you is talk to your friend. Tell her how you feel. If you have been best friends for so long then talk to her. You should ask her why she's done it! But if she contiunes- that's when it hurts. Then I think you should end the friendship.
Friends are suppose to make you happy, not bring you down. Even if it means cutting out your best friend. Believe me, it hurts like hell and it's so not easy. But once you get past that face then you will be happier because if you really think about it- did you loose a true friend? How much of a friend is she when she is spreading lies about you?
You should make a list of qualities your friends should have, I'm guessing "making up lies behind you back" is not one of them. So that's why I think you should cut her out of your life. YOu should just hang out if people who make you happy, not bring you down! Life is too short to supress your anger and hang out with people who bring you down!
It's really up to you if you if you feel like the friendship is worth fighting for and if it feels that way, then go for it. There is no point of loosing a friend just like that...Talk to her- that's my advice.
Good Luck!
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If your friend runs her mouth alot about u and tells lie leave her alone she isnt your real friend she doesnt care about you some friends pretend to be your friend be cause they want something you have or stop being your friend because there jealous most likey jealous shes made that you have someone and if she does have someone he not as great as your boyfriend and she also wants to make herself look godd by belittling you but dont play into that No!!!!!!! just stay away from her and tell hey if you going to talk abo me and tell lies i dont need you and get on with wour life you dont need negativety and if she cant give you support and a friend hand then tell her to step off and go find someone tat be good nice nd true to that wont tell lies and or spread rumors but you know dont throw away the friendship but take a brake from the friendship till you get trust in her again until thenm you should be associates and find someone else you can confide in until thta time comes when you feel she can be trusted again and good luck
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She`s not being a friend. You can try talking to her and being completely honest tell her how you feel - if she doesn`t stop saying things then you don`t want to be friends. Or You can just stop talking to her for awhile and see if she notices. Trust is a very important thing in a relationship and if you don`t have then there isn`t a relationship. Hope things go well. ♥
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