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Friendship jelousy!
OK, onne of my closest bffl's is getting on my last nerves. She's always saying that she is getting more guys than me. GRRRRR, its driving me nuts. Just because she has a bigger chest than I do and atracts older guys, doesnt mean she gets more guys than i do, right? I dont know, all i know is that im tired of her always bragging. If she wants to act like a slut and bitch , fine. But what should I do about the problem. I DONT KNOW IF I CAN TAKE ANYMORE. Can someone PLEASE help me?!?!?!?!?!
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Well,I would say that you should tell your bffl that she needs to think about what she is saying because you no that she doesn't want to lose you as a bff so just tell her how you feel or just invite her over for a sleepover or something and tell her then....Also if the guys are only getting your bffl for her body then they are acting really immature because its not how you look....looks arent everything at all.So dont go for guys that are that way,you'll find that one guy someday! I hope that this will help!Hope you and your bffl get to be friends again!Good Luck!
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I've been there girl! And believe me, it might seem hard but he best thing is to talk to your friend. if you guys really are the colsest bff's then you should wihout a doubt just talk to her. Tell her how tou feel (sounds corny but it's still good to do!). Just go and take a coffee or whatever and sit down and talk about it. Tell her it hurts your feeling when she keeps on bragging as she does and that she can keep it to her self if she has to brag about it.
The reason she might be bragging is because she is insecure and wants you to know how cool she is or something.
good luck!
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well,i think you just need to tell your friend in a nice way to get over herselfand just let her know its not a contest. if she is one of your bestfriends you dont want to lose her as a friend so let her know its bothering you
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*If she's shoving this in your face, she isn't a very good friend. If this is the case, I wouldn't be friends with her anymore. Or first, I would talk to he about it and see what she has to say -- in a calm manor. If you want, give her another chance, if not, don't be friends with her anymore.
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I used to have a friend like this and it sucks. She keeps telling me my head's too big, my taste sucks, only fat ugly guys will like me, I look like a nerd, bla bla bla. Pshht. *shut up man*
If she starts saying tt again, tell her off. "yea but you attract old man while all the cute guys come to me." Don't show her your anger or she'll take it as jealousy. Seriously, just ignore her or say "tsk" and frown at her with irritation. What she craves for is attention; so dun give it to her. When she starts on this topic, answer her with one-word only or dun answer at all.
Or you can tell her things like "Ok so what do you want me to do? You're not exactly gonna win my admiration with tt kind of talk you know."
Everytime a girl does that to me, I'd just think she's actually insecure. She needs to voice out what she wants people to think of her. When we're confident bout certain aspects of ourselves, I doubt we'll brag bout it unless we feel that it's at stake. So in actual fact, she could be feeling inferior to you.
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There are other things to worry about in life rather than a friend who says she gets more guys. That doesn't prove anything, therefore does not make you less of a person. Ignore it, confront her, or find new & mature friends. Complaining about her on advicenators will not get you anywhere. Addressing the problem with her WILL.
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Friendship should never be about guys.
Never!
If she says that to you,
tell her that is fine with you,
because you wouldnt want to be in a relationship wiht a guy if he only likes your chest.
Right? I know this could bug me too, I know a person like this too. It is SO annoying. A lot of the time when people call themselfs 'sluts','whores',, etc its because they wish they could be. They wish they had the body, or they do have the body and they like it,
tell her how you feel. Make it clear to her, that you dont want a friendship thats a competition between guys, and tell her you dont care if she has a "bigger chest" looks arent everything. If shes giong to be a slut, what kind of guys do you think she is going to attract right? If she doesnt listen, just end the friendship. I know thats abrupt and rather..frank, but if all else fails, you dont have to be her friend.
Hope I helped
<3
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It's probably just to make her feel more confident in herself. Everyone likes to know they're "special" and if that's how she gets her pride than so be it. I personally think it's rude but maybe she doesn't see it. You should talk to her about it, and make sure she understands how it affects you. The key to a friendship is honesty and with honesty comes confruntation.
Also, don't ever let that get you down. It's about quality not quantity. If you feel you are getting guys because of reasons other than big boobs etc than that should make you feel great about yourself. It means they think there is more to you than sex, and they will probably want to get to know you in better ways than sex.
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Well, she's probably very proud of attracting so many guys. I don't know how long she's been doing this but if it continues on for the next week, just tell her straight on that you are NOT jealous but it's getting annoying. Ask her how she would feel if you bragged about the same thing over and over agian incessantly. Meanwhile, just tune out and try to change the subject. If she doesn't get the point, then, well, just tell her straight on that well, what I said above.
Good luck =) And if she persists, I'm always online
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Now, no offense but that's not right. Your friend isn't really being a friend. Tell her straight up and say 'so, i don't want a guy that only thinks about my looks' or you can always laugh it off. If those don't work start joking and say 'ohh, but I am much prettier' and then laugh.
-Jennifer
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Kso, first of all, the boys that are attrackted to her because of her chest are pervs, and do you want a perv as a bf? Didn`t think so. If you sad yes, then go give yourself a swirlie because you are a dumb little girl. Anyways, if you are still reading this, you do NOT want to date a perv. Good job. Ok, so no that we have established you do not want to date a perv, we can move on to the fact that your friend is retarded. Do you want her retardedness to rub off on you? So you can be a skank whore? didn`t think so. again, if you said yes, go eat your foot, becuse then YOU SUCK. ok, so if you are not feeding your foot to yourself right now, you are reading this and understanding that your friend is stupid and you should not hang out with stupid people...catch my drift? ok so, you should TOALLy talk to her and tell her how you feel, and if she says she`ll chnage then good! problem solved. but if she says she likes herself that way [or somethin of that sort] then you are better off without her. Understand?
Ok, so now go put some mustard on your foot & begin nibbling.
Hope i helped!
<3L.
OK WELL I TOLD YOU;
TALK TO HER.
DUR.
tell her how you feel & if she is a true friend, she will understand.
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