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Q: The first danced with my crush was Creed-With Arms Wide Open. I was wondering if that is a love song. Can anyone explain to me what that song is even about? thanks so much
*I think it could be considered a love song. Here's more about it..

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/With_Arms_Wide_Open

Q: whats the difference between loving someone and being in love with them?
*The difference is when you love someone, you would never think of being romanticly involved with them. When you are in love with someone, you do think of being romanticly involved with them.

Q: what is the point of poking someone on facebook?
it's fun though it usually makes me angry...

okay it's just there to get their attention and also to show that you care about the other person.

Q: is it impossible to make out if both people have braces?
*No, it isn't impossible. You just need to be careful because the braces may stick together, or get caught. :)

Q: can u put two condoms on for double protection>>>????lol
*No, because it will do the opposite. The condoms will tear, and then you risk pregnancy, among other things.

Q: Bob-my best friend
Fred- My ex
okay before we get into this i dont wanna be called a whore
Okay. Bob and I have been friends for a really long time. I even dated one of his close friends, and had sex with him. Well, now, I have been talking to him, well, we kinda had sex, but only once. I only did it because I really like him, and he still talks to me and acts better than ever. But, he don't know im inlove with him, he really means alot to me, and I want to be with him soo bad but i think his friend Fred is keeping us from being together. i dont even know how he feels about me im afraid to ask him, i dont want him to think any different of me
*If he's a good guy, and he had sex with you -- more than likely he already has feelings for you. I would talk to him and tell him how you feel, I'm sure he'll understand and be easy to talk to about this. And I don't think he's think any different of you, after you talk to him about it.

Q: what do i do about my dog throwing up blood
*You need to take your dog to the vet, to get treated with the proper care. Dogs throwing up blood is a very serious thing.

Q: OK, onne of my closest bffl's is getting on my last nerves. She's always saying that she is getting more guys than me. GRRRRR, its driving me nuts. Just because she has a bigger chest than I do and atracts older guys, doesnt mean she gets more guys than i do, right? I dont know, all i know is that im tired of her always bragging. If she wants to act like a slut and bitch , fine. But what should I do about the problem. I DONT KNOW IF I CAN TAKE ANYMORE. Can someone PLEASE help me?!?!?!?!?!
*If she's shoving this in your face, she isn't a very good friend. If this is the case, I wouldn't be friends with her anymore. Or first, I would talk to he about it and see what she has to say -- in a calm manor. If you want, give her another chance, if not, don't be friends with her anymore.

Q: This weekend I am going to the movies with my boyfriend, but technically this is our first date. Any ideas of what I should wear?? I want it to be cute but hot at the same time, without being trashy.

Thanks
*Here are some different looks to choose from:

Casual Level 1 - Tank top or a t-shirt, bootcut jeans, sneakers/tennis shoes.

Casual Level 2 - A cute top, denim mini skirt (or just a regular skirt) and ballet flats/sandals.

Casual Level 3 - A cute top, mini-skirt (other than denim), and heels.


Q: hey my sister is 12 years old a lil bit overwieght she got most of her signs of her "p" but shes a lil bit scared about it i need advice to calm her down she gets a lil nervouse when she hears ppl saying some girls dont get it so i need advice to calm her down thanks!! answer quick plz byeeee
*Tell her that everything is going to be okay, and what she's going through is completely normal. Every young girl goes through the same thing, and many are at this moment. She's not alone. Explain to her about periods and let her know the facts, that way, she won't be scared when it actually happens, and she'll know what to do.

Q: ok so my stomachs been hurting a lot lately, & idk why. could i be pregnant if i never had sex? and i never got fingered either. i know its dumb but im soo worried.
*Considering the only way you can get pregnant, is from having sex/intercourse -- there is absolutely no way you're pregnant.

A stomach ache occurs often, for some people for many different reasons. More than likely, is isn't something to get upset about. But if you're having strong pains in your stomach, you may want to see a doctor.

Q: okay so i've heard that if you like sit in the sun with lemon juice in your hair it makes it lighter or something. is this true?
*Yes, it's true. However, it isn't healthy for your hair and causes damage (because of the sun.)

Q: 14/m

Ok, the other day my friend(15/f)told me that she likes me. But she has a boyfried, and she doesn't know what to do...Do you have any ideas on what I should do, 'cause I like her to and I don't want to feel like I'm caught in some sort of love triangle...

But she really likes me and her boyfried and doesn't know what to do...thanks in advance
*I think you should talk to her, and tell her to make a choice -- her boyfriend or you. Because you don't want to step on anyone's toes, or as you said, "in some sort of love triangle..."

Q: is it worth going to college if you're not sure what career you wanna pursue?
*I don't think so, because it might just be a waste of not only your time, but your money too.

Q: i want to have sex with my boyfriend. but he is a couple years older then me and definitely way more experienced then i am. i am afraid that if i have sex with him then thats all our relationship will be about. and i dont want that. so should i just wait to have sex with him?
*I believe you should wait to have sex with him, because if you're having some concerns -- you shouldn't go through with it right now. I think you should confront him, and talk to him about how you're feeling. If he's a good boyfriend, he'll understand, etc.

Q: I feel like I need to talk to someone, about something that happened to me, but like. I can't talk to any of my friends. because there just no, theyd make a big joke out of it or something. & i deff. cant tell anyone related to me. like im starting to get desperatee. who else could i talk to?
*I recommend talking to a school counselor, or a therapist. While talking to them, what you say is confidential and they're professionals, so they can and will help you with whatever you talk to his/her about.

Q: 15/f

Is there anywhere to get online exercise/work out videos for free? I tried looking on Google, but I couldn't find a specific website with them. The type of exercise does not really matter, I'm just feeling lazy seeing its snowy and I'd rather not be outside running and such.

Thanks so much!
*Yes, you can log onto www.seventeen.com
and find lots of exercise videos, in the "Health" category.

Q: There is this discharge I get in my panties. I knwo discharge is normal. But it is excessive amounts. Like it is always there. I could take a shower and have it in my panties in like 5 minutes... I thas been like this for years and i am not sure of why.

Is this normal.. Or what?
*Hi, honestly, you have nothing to worry about. This is completely normal. All of us women and girls are different, meaning we have different cycles and amounts of discharge, etc.

Q: well they say that if you dont want to have pimples, buy makeup that are noncomedogenic & nonacnegenic. how do i know if my make up is like that? it doesnt say on the product. where do i find it? the ingredients? lol
*Yes, non-comogenic makeup is best to keep your skin clear. You will find on the back of your foundation (bottle or compact), whether or not it's non-comogenic. It will be by the ingredients, on the back.

Q: are brad and angie married?



and are brad and jennifer togetther again?
*No, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie are not married. Both Brad and Angelina have reported, that they will not be getting married until gay marriages are allowed.

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This advice column is by two people -- Ashley (me) and my best friend, Chelsea. We're both here to answer all of your questions, whatever they may be! We'll answer anything, you want/need to know.


Ashley: Hi, everybody. I have another advice account on this site, and I've been here on Advicenators for a while now. I love helping people, and I want to continue helping them in this advice column.



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