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Innnlove with my best friend
Bob-my best friend
Fred- My ex
okay before we get into this i dont wanna be called a whore
Okay. Bob and I have been friends for a really long time. I even dated one of his close friends, and had sex with him. Well, now, I have been talking to him, well, we kinda had sex, but only once. I only did it because I really like him, and he still talks to me and acts better than ever. But, he don't know im inlove with him, he really means alot to me, and I want to be with him soo bad but i think his friend Fred is keeping us from being together. i dont even know how he feels about me im afraid to ask him, i dont want him to think any different of me
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*If he's a good guy, and he had sex with you -- more than likely he already has feelings for you. I would talk to him and tell him how you feel, I'm sure he'll understand and be easy to talk to about this. And I don't think he's think any different of you, after you talk to him about it.
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I agree with the person below me. If Bob had sex with you, he had to have had some type of feelings for you. I mean, yeah you can have sex somebody with no strings attached [friends with benefits], but I doubt this guy is like that. If you like him, tell him because some other girl could just come along & snag him, and then you'll never have your chance.
If you don't tell him how you feel, not only could another girl come around, but you could potentionally regret it. It could kill you not knowing how he feels about you, and it'd kill worse that you had the chance to ask, but never took it. Just ask him, and the worst he could say is that he's gay [which I doubt, since he had sex with you], he's taken, or he just doesn't like you. But you never know. Just ask him, and let me know how it turns out. Good luck hun.
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if he had sex with you, he probably has some feelings for him.
tell him how you feel because if you don't no matter how it turns out you'll always be wondering what he would've said if you did.
just say that you really dont mess up your friendship with him but you like him a lot, and if he likes you thats good.
if he doesnt like you, then keep being friends with him, even if it might be kinda hard and awkward at first.
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Just tell him how you feel. Fred shouldn't matter because he's an EX. Tell Fred to let go of the past. Bob and you should be together because the way you feel about him. I'm pretty sure he cares about you.
Just ask Bob. If you don't have the courage, IM him or E-mail Bob and tell him the way you feel. If he says yes, GREAT. If he says no ask him why he had sex with you.
REALLY HOPED I HELPED!
-Jennifer
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