Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 15
AIM: DancingByWolves
Member Since: December 26, 2006
Answers: 3
Last Update: December 26, 2006
Visitors: 656
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Ok i cant stand my family. they make me want to kill myself. First off. my little brother of 11 years old, is a selfish little brat, who crys and crys about everything. and if he doesnt get his way he flips out. my sister of 15 is always pointing out the bad things about me, she is always yelling at me, and always makeing me feel like crap. My older brother of 17 is always beating on everything and needs to take anger mangament classes. My mom is always telling me, how i should feel about things, and yells at me for things i dont even do. Please tell me, what do i do? (link)
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I know how you feel. Families can sometimes drive you up the wall. My brother can be a brat, and my other brother beats me and blames me for everything, as well as pointing out the faults that I have. I know it's hard to deal with it. Families are like that. Let me tell you, it's not easy. You know, it may be necessary for your family to get a councilor. Mine had to have one for a little. My biggest advice, though, 'cause I know councilors can't always solve it, is to ask your family to sit down with you, and have everyone talk about it. You need to make sure they understand that this isn't about "Who did what" or anything like that, It's just to help the family.
I really hope you can work this out.
My best wishes,
Kitty
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Hello!
This might be a long story but just bare with me :)
Alright well my best guy friend started to like me.. alot
well i knew from the beginning it was a bad idea.
but i began to like him too. The day after his bday, i freaked out and told him i didnt like him anymore and we should be friends. Alot of people were dissapointed, and the person i am, worring about everyone, i thought the only solution was to like him again. And it happened. ( i havent had a good history of boys, all of them lead me on, and i dont have any trust in them, since he was my best friend, i had alot of trust.) well he tried to make alot of moves on me but... yeah.. we finally did stuff at the movies and that night he put like "tonight was amazing blah blah i really like her" on his away message. Well the next day he messaged me saying it was akward and he didnt like and he wanted to stay friends. Well i was pissed b/c he kinda lead me on.. and now we dont even talk.. and i hate him. no trust
i was just wondering what do you think changed his mind? (link)
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You know, I've gone through this too. First with this guy I really liked, who dumped me after telling me he loved me, and then again with this guy who was my best friend.
Guys minds work in odd ways. I can't really tell you why they do it, but I think, maybe, (Or at least, this is what I think from what the 'best friend' I told you about above did) He was upset about what you did. I don't think he understands exactly how you felt, and that confused him. Trust is a hard thing to give, and an even harder thing to earn.
Hope this helps!
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Ok so my friend(15/f died, along with her dad and brother in a car crash. Her mom and older sister are the only ones who survived.
Alot of people on myspace and msn, ect... are writing a bunch of messages about her and to her family type thing. I was wondering if I should post a bullentin saying that everyone should write a message to them about her or w/e and then we should have someone give them to the mother. Is this a good idea or would it just hurt the family more? I just want to show support and what not so yea...what's the best thing to do? (link)
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The best advice I can give you right now is,
Do send it to the Mother and Sister. It will probably help them feel a little better. When you loose a loved one or a friend, it can be tough, but knowing that you're not alone helps. So by sending this kind of thing to the family that is still alive shows that they're not alone in grieving for your friend. I really, sincerely hope this helps.
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