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This is a tad awkward for her...
14/m
Ok, the other day my friend(15/f)told me that she likes me. But she has a boyfried, and she doesn't know what to do...Do you have any ideas on what I should do, 'cause I like her to and I don't want to feel like I'm caught in some sort of love triangle...
But she really likes me and her boyfried and doesn't know what to do...thanks in advance
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14/f
well, does her bf know that something is going on between you n her? i think that you should talk to her and just be like "hey, you knowi like you, but you have a bf and i dont wanna be in the middle, but you should think of who you like more and whatever your choice is we will alwayz be friends" holla back at da snowbnny n tell me if it worked... "abby luvz tyree"
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First, you got to talk to her. Then, you have to get her to talk to her man. Tell her she can't have both, she'll be hogging all the guys for everyone else. She's got to make up her mind. Or at elast go into withdrawl so she can figure it all out.
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*I think you should talk to her, and tell her to make a choice -- her boyfriend or you. Because you don't want to step on anyone's toes, or as you said, "in some sort of love triangle..."
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Well, if she likes you then why does she why does she stay with her boyfriend? Her hesitance to move on from him suggests that she still has something for him. In his case, it's better for her just to stay with him.
However, you should talk to her about this and find out what is going on. If she doesn't like him anymore than there is no point to stay with him when she likes you and you like her.
Talk to her about it.
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Generally if I like someone who has a boyfriend I just keep it to myself and eventually it becomes nothing - just a passing phase (like a crush).
Technically the ball is in her court so the next move is hers in deciding what (or who in this case) she wants to be with. So there really isn't anything you can do other than tell her to decide what she wants and to let you know when she's decided becuase it isn't fair on you for her to tell you something like this while she is already dating someone.
Just bare in mind that if she is doing this now and eventually decides she wants to be with you - what's there to stop her from doing the exact same thing with you with the next friend that comes along.
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