What can I say? I'm fourteen, freshman, currently located in Alpharetta, GA. Born in Orlando, FL, I live for excitement. My greatest passion is singing. I don't really follow the asian sterotype, except sometimes. I want to go to FIT in NYC or Parson's New School. Most of the time, I listen to MyChem or HSM or techno. All I watch on TV is Disney Channel, Fuse, and Charmed. I think the strangest thing about me is how I dress. I can be classic: long skirts, trench coat, high heels or boots, etc. or casual: jeans, t-shirts, heels, sweaters, etc. or other: band shirts, converse, studded belts, black jeans, eyeliner, etc.
I usually focus on love life questions, but I can do everything. I guess I'm better at love life because I don't have one of my own =P
You can ask me for advice here, email me if you want, whatever. I'll answer. Promise =]
Yeah, I'm crazy. But you learn to love me.
E-mail: potobubbletea@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Orlando, FL
Occupation: Student; Singer, fashion designer
Age: 14
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can you french kiss with braces? i met this guy i really like and i think were ready to take it to the mext step. (link)
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Yes, but if you both have braces, be VERY VERY VERY CAREFUL not to touch teeth. Have you seen the awkward movies where this happens? Yeah, I don't think you want to be calling someone to help you. If you both have braces, I'd just recommend being extremely careful about where you put your mouth
if only one of you has braces, it's more enjoyabble because two sets of braces makes it uncomfortable to french with
Hope I helped! =]
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me and my boyfriend had sex last weekend.
so it went like it normally do. but when he had it in, it felt like he ''cumed'' so i kept saying take it out take it out i think you cumed and he was like no keep it in, it feels good, but i was like YOU CUMED and he said no i didnt i would know now lets keep going. now i was trusting him. so i kept going believeing him. so 10 minutes later he took it out but it was halfway in and felt like he really did cumed. so i was like i think you cumed and he said baby i didnt and he starting kissing on me, and he kept going down like he was trying to eat me out. so i left his head back up and we started tongue kissing again, my perious was suppose to come this week, but it didnt, and my tummy has been a little puffy from usual, what do i do?
should i break up with him? we been together for 2 years. && both madly in love, but then again i always had iiregular period, should i be worried?
oh if it helps 13/f, im in 8th grade
i wear a 34 b, && my body is pretty mature, && im 5'7 or 5'8, (link)
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My GOODNESS, people here sure know how to bitch someone out, don't they? By the way, I'm 14 and I shain't judge you like those assholes below me did (no offense to you if you didn't).
If you're puffy, it's most definately NOT from pregnancy (things like that wouldn't happen so soon). Actually, it might be bloating, which would be positive because that probably means your period is coming soon, ergo you're not pregnant.
I'm guessing your man is older than you. I don't understand WHY her being 13 would affect the age of her man, =coughciao77cough=. I know plenty of guys that date younger girls, including seniors in HS dating freshman.
If you do get through with this and aren't pregnant, you might want to have a little chat with this boyfriend of yours. First of all, you probably can tell better than he can on whether or not he cumed in you, given how it is IN you and stuff. The fact that you repeatingly told him to take it out and he still didn't listen shows that he's slightly inconsiderate of your feelings. Also, he told you not to take it out because it felt good. It felt good. To him. Obviously, you were insecure, but he didn't really care about that, did he? I'm not trying to put down your boyfriend, but he did put you in this rut so you should be careful on what you do next.
If you don't want to tell your mum about this, which I'm guessing you don't, maybe you could talk to a close friend or an older relative you're close with and see if they could get you a pregnancy test. That's your best bet at making sure.
My last note of advice on this extremely long answer is to take heed to your actions. You can see how scared you were from this so learn from it. You're young, I'm young. The decisions we make now affect the rest of our lives. I'm a freshman now and I see how hard it is. You don't want the burden of a child to go along with it.
Message me. Tell me how it goes. Hope all this advice helped. I still can't believe the kind of people that "help" other people on this site. The nerve...
P.S. "Walking around, having everyone stare at you because you're a pregnant GIRL." -HiChic
What do you want her to be, a pregnant MAN?
(Notice how I corrected her puctuation and she implys you're young and don't know the meaning of the word "ignorant". Us young people aren't that dumb. We're actually downright brilliant.)
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Does anyone think a 14 yr old having sex would be slutty? If she has been with this guy for a year, or even less than 12 months, but more than 4? and them knowing each other for 2 years?
This is not about me, I'm just wondering, and no offense to any 14 yr olds, it's just that some people call sluts now-a-days for wearing skirts, or too much eyeliner.
Anywho...you think it'd be better if she was 15? And she knew the consequences, and had was taking birth control, had condoms, etc.
Give me your opinions, thanks! (link)
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Well, I'm 14 so I won't really judge my opinion on the first question, just because I have way too much influence from chicks at my school.
To me, I think 14 is pretty young to be sleeping with a guy. Even though girls say, "I really love him", I don't think anyone at this age knows what "love" really is. Teenagers in general aren't really mature enough to make the right choices concerning those matters.
She wouldn't really know the consequences until they really hit her.
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18/f
so theres this kid who ive been talkin to and he has a gf but last month when we were txting back and forth he told me he liked me. but now when we talk its different and i cant tell if he still likes me. how do i know if he still likes me without actually saying do u still like me. (link)
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If he's still talking to you and stuff, chances are he still likes you. It probably feels different just because you know. That always makes it a little more awkwarder.
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Ok, so my name is Mandy and my boyfriend is Evan (not our real names). We've been going out for two years, so everyone knows we're like the "class sweethearts". But anyway...
Today in science I was flipping though my book (which stays in the desk and is used by whoever sits there each period), and on one page someone had written: "I love Evan Smith - and I'm not Mandy!" And then someone else wrote below it: "Me too! And I'm not Mandy either!"
Arggh! It made me soooo mad! So I wrote: "I love him too! and I AM Mandy!" (but then i crossed it out because I thought that sounded kinda rude, like haha I'm going out with him and you're not).
But anyway, I cant stop thinking about it. I mean, I know a lot of girls think my bf is cute and funny, and some probably have crushes on him... but they actually LOVE him?? Enough to write it in a book for anyone to see?? And what are the odds of it being two people who sit in the same seat (and MY seat, at that)? That must mean half the school is in love with him!
Now I know he really loves me, so I shouldn't let this bother me so much... but it really does. Because now I'm thinking that everyone I pass in the hall is secretly in love with my boyfriend, and behind their fake smile they're really glaring at me with jealousy. And I hate feeling so paranoid and suspicious! Ugghh.. what can I do to stop feeling so upset about this?
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Just because some say they "love" your man, it doesn't mean they actually LOVE him. They might just think he's really hot or something, because I do that too. And even if everyone in the school really are secretly in love with your man, don't let it get to you because he's yours and you should trust that. =)
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I was going out with this guy for 6months and he was my first serious boyfriend, tho he wasnt just a boyfriend he was my bestfriend, i then found out that he had cheated on me like a month ago, so i broke up with him, we were still meeting up, and we were acting jsut the same as usual and he keep saying how he loved me and i was his soulmate and he wuld do anything to get me back, i was jsut about ready to give it another go when i find out he has another girlfriend. It has emotionally killed me. I cant stop thikning about it, The injustice of it all makes me sick and i stil love him and cant move on.
can someone please tell me how to get over him?
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This probably won't help, but this is my thinking:
If you can't get over him, there's probably a reason why. When it's time for you to move on, you will. Give it time.
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Hi i am a 17/F i have been a bisexual for 5 years now and i want to tell my parents but i dont know how? im afraid of their reaction. also People give me and my gf shit all the time how can i deal with out kickin ass (link)
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1) Do you know your parents general view on bisexuality? Try to find that out first before deciding because if they're extremely against it, you might have a problem. If they're not, just sit them down one day when BOTH of them are not busy and tell them (It's probably best to tell them at the same time). They're your parents and should love you no matter who you love.
2) If they have something against you, that's their problem. Don't concern yourself with issues other people have. Focus on your life. Be comfortable your gf. People who give you shit won't be able to change who you are. There will always be someone prejudice about this sort of thing. But they're going to have to learn to deal with it because it's the 21st century.
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Audrey Hepburn has become my new idol. I love her acting, how she used to help UNICEF, and, obviously, her great style. I was wondering, what are some stores for teenage girls that are inexpensive, but still have that classy vintage look she was so well known for? Thanks in advance. (link)
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My best guess would be thrift shops and stuff. You'll have to find everything seperately and throw it together so if you can do that, go!
P.S. It may take a while, though, to find some things so be patient =)
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ok well me and my boyfriend of 3 months had our first kiss today when we were up in my room on my bed and we started making out right after the kiss and we had it goin on for a good hour and a half. and now we both seem to be addicted to it and we wanna see eachother and do it again because it was so special
do you think thats weird? (link)
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Nope, not at all. I did that once. Probably about the same amount of time, or a little longer. Except I only DATED the boy for 2 monthes so...it should feel special. Don't worry about it. Kissing is a special thing.
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ok, so i\'m 16/f. i have a boyfriend who\'s 18 and we\'ve been dating for almost two months. we both love eachother. i don\'t know if we\'re getting too intimate b/c we made out the first week we started dating, he gave me a hickie our one month, and now he\'s been grabbing my boob, but i would grab his hand and just hold it.b/c idk if i like it or not haha... but last night, we were at his friend\'s house who were out of town and we were making out, then somehow he was laying on top of me (all clothes were on) and don\'t get me wrong, i enjoyed it... but i don\'t know if we\'re going too fast because i really don\'t want to loose my virginity to him b/c he\'s graduating this may and going to miami for college but i do love him and i just don\'t know whats gonna happen. give me some advice?? haha, thanks!! (link)
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Given your age and stuff, I don't think you're going to fast. I suppose since he's 18 and a senior, he's probably used to moving a little fast. Do what YOU feel is comfortable. That's always the most important thing =]
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hi i have the hawthorne heights cd and it has a extra dvd and it's a video of a song and stuff
well can i put this on my itunes or not?
when i put it in Windows Media Player comes up and i can't watch it on iTunes?
can i or not?
thanks! (link)
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If you put it in and Media Player comes up, that's probably because you haven't set iTunes as your default player.
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14/f
Okay, I liked this guy, let's call him G, for months and months, I really did love him, but he had a girlfriend. However, I always felt like we had a connection. Then, around three months ago, him and his girlfriend split up. Me and G got together about 2 and a half months ago. I was happy at first but... it just doesn't seem to be working. I can honestly say that I don't love him in that way anymore. I love him as a friend, but not romantically. It's got to the point where I feel as if we hardly speak anymore, but he told one of mine and his friends that he's in love with me.
I don't want to break up with him, because I feel really confused at the moment, and I'm the type of person that always wants what they can't havee. What if I broke up with him and then realised that wasn't what I wanted?
So I've decided to try and make it work, but so far it isn't going very well.
At the same time as this, one of my best friends, let's call her D, was dating a guy named R, who is one of our friends.
I'd always liked R a little bit, but I never thought anything of it because he was my best friend's boyfriend and I'm not single.
D had been unhappy in the relationship for a long time, she wanted to be single and was finding R a little too self-centered. So she started hanging out with him less, and last week R broke up with her. At the time she was happy because she had wanted the relationship to end, but just didn't know how to break up with him.
When D and R were going out, R had told some people he liked someone he shouldn't, and towards the end of their relationship, me and R started talking more.
The day after, I found out, due to a few close friends who speak with R, that R had told them he likes me.
Since they broke up, me and R have been speaking every night, hanging out more and flirting a bit at school. We've got a lot closer.
And I keep having second thoughts about G, because although I wanted it to work, it quite obviously isn't, and now R's in the picture...it's making me realise what I'm missing by staying with G.
However, R is my best friend's ex boyfriend, and recently she's been telling me that she's messed it up with him, she misses him and didn't realise how lucky she was until they broke up. She keeps mentioning certain people that have dated best friends and saying it's stupid, and I can't very well date her ex-boyfriend after she's told me she still has feelings for him and she misses him!
The problem is, every day, things seem to be getting worse between me and G, and better between me and R. I feel like me and R click so well, and I love being with him and talking to him. But at the same time, I'm scared of letting go of G, and I don't want to hurt him.
As far as I know, D doesn't know R likes me, and she doesn't know I like R.
I just don't know what to do.
What do you think I should do about G?
And what about R?
What if R is just a rebound?
And how could be me and R ever be together when him and D used to be an item?
Thanks for any help, I'm so confused at the moment.
xxx
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Al-RIGHTY then. I'm thinking you're having some ISSUES? Let's see what the Great Letitia can do:
So R likes you, you like R but you're going out with G but you don't like him anymore, and R is your friend's ex, but she's thinking she might like him again? Oh, the drama. I kind of had the same problem when I was dating my ex. He said he loved me and I thought I did and then I realized I didn't love him, and possibly never did. Anyway, I broke up with him and he was heartbroken and stuff, but I realized it was the right thing to do. By staying in that relationship, I would only hurt him more.
If you KNOW you don't love G, I think you should end it. You'll feel horrible for hurting him so much and he'll be so sad, but you'll get over it. NOT in a mean way, just you'll figure out that that's how it has to be. AFTER that, then you can decide what to do about this R guy. See if D still likes him and how much she does. If she's a really good friend, ask her how she'd feel if you ever dated R. If she's not that close of a friend, things might get awkward between you two if you ask her that. But first things first, work things out with G. Then go on.
;) I like a guy who's name starts with R too.
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what are some kinky things to say to a guy?
anything. (link)
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"Isn't it delicious?"
-The Seven Year Itch; Marylin Monroe
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hiii
sorry its a bit long..
well i have liked this boy for about 6-7 months or more. i went out with him for 5 months and we broke up about 3 weeks ago. i still love him and i have never loved anyone as much as him. everyone can even tell.
i cheated on him at the very start that we went out and then i realised how much i love him and i regretted it; and he forgave me. but the whole time we were going out he would ditch me and he also lied to me about smoking (i didnt like smokers at the time) and he lied about not smoking. I forgave him for everythingg he did. then he did cheat on me, but he was drunk and the girl did stuff to him; it wasnt him at all .. so i forgave him..again..then we broke up because he kept flirting with these girls and it just got too much for me. And then about 2 weeks ago his best friend sends me a message saying all this threats and stuff and that if i ever talk to my ex again i will get bashed. I didnt really take notice of it coz he hasnt said anything to me about it. But last week me and my ex started talking and i asked him what he would do if his friend hit me and he said he would go crazy and be angry and stuff. Then i asked him if he ever thinks about me anymore and he said All the time. Then i was like Why arent we together yet.. and hes like Because my best friend doesnnt want me to be. .
and today i asked him why his friend doesnt want us to be together and he said I dont know.
So practically the only reason were not together is because of his best friend..and i dont know what to do because i have never felt like this about anyone; i actually think i love him.
Please help
thankss
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Alright poppet, you sound like you're in quite a rut so I'll take a crack at it:
I don't understand why your ex doesn't just talk to his friend. If his friend is really a good friend, then he should understand what you guys have between you two. Next time you see him, ask him if he could talk to him friend and see why it bothers him so much. If his friend doesn't change his mind, maybe he's not so great a friend.
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Well im 15[male] me and my girlfriend are really in love....
but the thing is im homeschooled and shes not....
and i was scared that if i went back to school-that things might change between us ...???we wouldnt be going to the same school...thats the thing....but we will be next yea.... but if you could help me out and just answer-
would anything change between us if i went back to school.....but if she really loves me,it wouldnt matter right? (link)
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My friend Sasha's BF is homeschooled too, but I don't know if she has this problem. Anyway, I understand how you could think it would be awkward because you're so used to only seeing each other sometimes, not every single day of the week. But if you guys really love each other like you think you do, you'd probably adjust and things would go back to normal. Try talking to her and seeing what she thinks about it. That always works ;]
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There is this girl at my school and she is amazing. She is always happy, extremely nice...and i swear she is friends with everyone! I'm really falling head over heels for this girl. I've noticed she acts a bit different around me now a days...and I was wondering...did i do something wrong? She always looks at the floor and has trouble keeping eye contact with me. Plus, she giggles a lot? Is she laughing at me..something I do? Anyway, it would help if I knew what these meant. A few weeks ago i started a secert admirer thingy. I've sent her flowers and wrote her short little love letter/poem things. Any chance she found out or something. Should I stop with the whole 'secert admirer'...do girls think that's lame? Well, anyways, I'm planning on asking her out, but I'm really nervous and I'm not too sure how to ask. I really like this girl, i want to impress her, put a smile on her face.
Any suggestions? Thanks in advance! =) (link)
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Dood, this chick LIKES you. Look at it, giggling? No eye contact? ACTS DIFFERENT? Those are all signs of űber-infatuation. She's got something with you. I don't think you really need to impress her. Just be yourself and see how she reacts. If you want to ask her out, just drop it in when you're talking. For example, steer your conversation into current movies, and casually say, "Are you doing anything this weekend? If not, we could go check out the movie." Something like that, I don't know. Work with it.
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16/m
My girlfriend always thinks I'm lying to her. For the smallest things. And I don't have a history of lying, so I don't know why she thinks so.
I'll say something like, "Today I went to the store and got skittles..." and she'll be all "stop lying to try to get attention." I don't know why she thinks I lie. I don't make a big deal of it though cause I don't want her to get mad.
Any help here? (link)
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There are a few possibilities for this:
a) She's just awfully paranoid
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b) She's had a bad experience. This may be the case. When a girl gets hurt really bad, such as a guy lying to her and cheating on her, it really leaves an impact. Ask her why she's always thinking you're lying to her. If she gets defensive, chances are this is the case. Talk about it with her. Try to get her to open up to you.
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Ok so there is this boy lets say bob, and i for some reason feel really attached to this kid but i dont know him that well ive only known him for maybe 4 months, and he's all i can think about, and i dont even feel like i like him as if its involentary and ive tried to like other people but he always comes right back up, hes my brother's friend and if i got together with bob my brother would be pissed. i know that doesnt matter but my brothers approvel matters to me a lot. anyway bob is an ok kid, i guess, he flirts with me sometimes, well i think? I get confused on how you can tell if someone is flirting with you haha. anyway any advice hear? what shold i do? do i really like him? am i tricking myself? what? HELP! thanks :] (link)
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Try talking to your brother about it. He might understand, you'll never know. I think you do like this boy, if you've dreamed about him and he's all you can think about. Then again, since you've known him for such a short amount of time, you might just think you like him, but you really just wish you were better friends with him. That happens to me a lot. I'll throw myself at a guy I've just met because I think he's totally awesome, but really, I just want to be better friends. First things first, try to sort out your feelings and figure out if you really do like him. Only you can figure it out because it's your brain. After you figure that out, go from there. But if you really do like him, talk to your brother and see what he thinks about it. If you're close with your brother, that is. If you aren't, it might make things a tad awkward...
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my boyfriend is coming home in the beginning of november, hes in california and im in texas (hes 18 and im 16) weve been dating for 3 months and we started dating before he moved back to california (its a really long complicated story) anyways, i really want to do something special while hes home, i know were going to spend alot of time together the 2 weeks he's in town but i dont want it to just be like watching movies and stuff like that. i want to do something thats memorable. we're both virgins so everything of a sexual nature is definately excluded, i mean something thats totally creative and especially sweet. i also dont have much money i can spend because im going on 2 trips this year and im saving up for them. any ideas? i can use all the advice i can get! thankyou so much! (link)
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Maybe one night, go out to a field or the park or something and just lay there out under the stars. It's really romantic
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yea i didnt know what category to put this under but ya.. So basically i never really had zits i would get like 1 or 2 once in a while that was nothin i really didnt care now im breaking out bad in zits on my forehead, and a lil on my nose. I did find out that i was allergic to chocolate and that it was making me break out in zits, so i cant eat that anymore. once i stopped eating chocolate i didnt get any zits. Now im starting to get them again. I got proactive but that does not even work. I have been using it for about 3 months and nothing, it still looks the same. Well people are telling me that its weird that all of a sudden that im breaking out in zits, because i never use to have any. They are also saying that it could be another thing that im eating that could have a reaction to my face. Could that be it? if so how could i find out what is making me break out, because i dont eat the same things everyday. Can someone please give me an idea on how to get rid of my zits
because its starting to get bad
thanks (link)
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Try Benzaclin. It works really well, but it will make your skin really dry and peely in the beginning. But, that's not a bad thing because it also makes your scars go away. Ask your doctor about it
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