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Ugghhh I dont know what to title this!
Ok, so my name is Mandy and my boyfriend is Evan (not our real names). We've been going out for two years, so everyone knows we're like the "class sweethearts". But anyway...
Today in science I was flipping though my book (which stays in the desk and is used by whoever sits there each period), and on one page someone had written: "I love Evan Smith - and I'm not Mandy!" And then someone else wrote below it: "Me too! And I'm not Mandy either!"
Arggh! It made me soooo mad! So I wrote: "I love him too! and I AM Mandy!" (but then i crossed it out because I thought that sounded kinda rude, like haha I'm going out with him and you're not).
But anyway, I cant stop thinking about it. I mean, I know a lot of girls think my bf is cute and funny, and some probably have crushes on him... but they actually LOVE him?? Enough to write it in a book for anyone to see?? And what are the odds of it being two people who sit in the same seat (and MY seat, at that)? That must mean half the school is in love with him!
Now I know he really loves me, so I shouldn't let this bother me so much... but it really does. Because now I'm thinking that everyone I pass in the hall is secretly in love with my boyfriend, and behind their fake smile they're really glaring at me with jealousy. And I hate feeling so paranoid and suspicious! Ugghh.. what can I do to stop feeling so upset about this?
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there's this little thing called jealousy that gnaws at every girl and irritates the hell out of us. that's what it is. i'm going through the SAME thing.
these girls probably just have the hotts for your bf, just like any regular high school. they always have the popular hottie that every girl likes, but of course he has a gf. so in the end, you're the only one that matters to him. don't take it personally. just think out of all the girls in that school, he's got you and you've got him. and if you're not planning on breaking up anytime soon, then it's all good.
more than likely they're not really in love with him, they just say it because they're immature and wishing they were you.
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okay, listen to me...if your bf is hot. he's hot. there's no getting around that. so chances R that other girls may have little wishes that they were you. but really, just b/c 2 girls like him doesnt mean the WHOLE school does! its totally just chance! dont be so paranoid about it.lol. thats just ridiculous. you should be proud that your bf is well liked!! (just dont get a big head about it of course.haha) o, and you should have kept that in the book about you being mandy or w/e cuz that would have been hilarious...dont be so uptight. who cares about other girls. youve got him and hes got you and thats that.
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Just because some say they "love" your man, it doesn't mean they actually LOVE him. They might just think he's really hot or something, because I do that too. And even if everyone in the school really are secretly in love with your man, don't let it get to you because he's yours and you should trust that. =)
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Chill out hun! The whole school is not 'in love' with your boyfriend. Two people (or maybe just one with two different pens) thought it would be a funny joke.
You didn't think it was funny, but that's okay. You don't have too.
The truth is lots of people get jealous sometimes and it doesn't make them fake or bad people. Good friends get jealous of eachother from time to time, but they take a deep breath and deal with it and still care for thier friend regardless.
Besides, if you know he wants to be with you and trust him, it doesn't really matter how many people, if any, are jealous.
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I agree with the previous person. What are the odds that you just happen to use a book that 2 people scribbled into? It was there for you to see. It may have been meant as a joke. It may have been meant to be cruel. Whenever you have a great boyfriend, there will be other girls that like him. Sometimes, it may secretly be your best friends. All you can do is hope you are the one your bf loves. If you have that, you truly have it all. There are alot of petty people out there. Should you ever be single again, you may be the one liking some girls bf. You'll probably act with more class because of your experience. If you are really worried about this, maybe you can get a hall pass to see who else sits in your seat. You could probably find out from the teacher as well. If you just used the excuse that someone is vandalising school property, they pull out the seating charts for other periods. This could just be a friend having some fun with you. It is twisted but sometimes jokes are. You are the one that has him. You just have to keep that in mind. They can write whatever they want, but he is yours.
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By taking this into consideration::
some stupid rude girls most likley KNEW you sat there,and did it, just to be bitches.
so.. don't let it bother you, at all.
seriously, don't let them win.
let them be jealous
they should be, right?
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