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old crush
i used to have a crush on this boy when i was a teenager, and for years i havent been able to get him out of my mind, i used to be his sisters best friend and he detested me( used to make fun of me cuz im fat), and i beleive he still does, i recently starting seeing him again for small periods of time, but every time im within 50 feet of him my tongue feels like its swollen and i cant talk!!! i mean words really just wont form, now im 19 i still like him but he has a girlfriend and shes like a size 16 or 18 and thats the same size as me, i have no idea about what to do about any of this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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When you meet someone that you really like, somebody who takes your breath away, that would be your guy. The reason that you can't speak is because your sub-concious is trying to stop you from saying somthing silly and that is natural because you don't want to say anything silly to him now, do you?
About his girlfriend, see whether the realtionship is going well, and if it is, see what she's doing and see whether that will work for you. In your heart of hearts you know you love him and you'll do anything to get him back, but sometimes, we need to let life take it;s course and see what happens, don't rush and do something which you might regret for the rest of your life.
I hope this helps and soryy if the answer is a little complicated
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bc he has a girlfriend there isnt much you can do about that but you need to be comforable around him and be able to talk to him and thats what you need to focus on at the moment,
just think of him as a friend you can talk to and try and settle those nerves... its will be hard at first but just think of him as just another guy and not the guy you like. (that will be hard i know)
i know feelings can mess everything up at times...
so once you'v settled your nerves around him, then chat with him heaps and your friendship with him will become closer and thats what you want to start with. hope i helped xx sal
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