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My current Relationship...
ok, so i\'m 16/f. i have a boyfriend who\'s 18 and we\'ve been dating for almost two months. we both love eachother. i don\'t know if we\'re getting too intimate b/c we made out the first week we started dating, he gave me a hickie our one month, and now he\'s been grabbing my boob, but i would grab his hand and just hold it.b/c idk if i like it or not haha... but last night, we were at his friend\'s house who were out of town and we were making out, then somehow he was laying on top of me (all clothes were on) and don\'t get me wrong, i enjoyed it... but i don\'t know if we\'re going too fast because i really don\'t want to loose my virginity to him b/c he\'s graduating this may and going to miami for college but i do love him and i just don\'t know whats gonna happen. give me some advice?? haha, thanks!!
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Okay sweety, first of all please don't take any of this offensivly but 2 months isn't long enough you guys should have waited atleast 5-6 months before getting physical so that you can really see were yall stand.I know it's hard but i know you don't want your relationship to just be based on sex.So my advice is that your not in LOVE yet i think that you care for him alot or you have love for him but i know your not in love with him yet.Okay you slipped on the fist week by messing up the chase(making him want you and whatever you have in store for him later,even a kiss matters)Even after one month and he gave you a hickie you should eccept it,get rid of it,and make sure that it not happen again anytime soon(maybe 3 months later).Take things nice and slow but keep things at ease not get bored show him that you relationship means more than just fooling around.It's pretty normal that he wants to touch and grab and i know you like it but let him know that it isn't going to go any farther.Let him know how you feel before he try to do a hit and run(and i don't think his friend would like that yall was over his house ha! ha! ha!).Well just come to a agreement before he leave about whether you guys are going to stay connected or whatIt's all about expressing your feelings just pick a moment and you hand it to him so that he can know.BE STRONG GIRL,I'm behind you!
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Given your age and stuff, I don't think you're going to fast. I suppose since he's 18 and a senior, he's probably used to moving a little fast. Do what YOU feel is comfortable. That's always the most important thing =]
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I don't think you're moving too fast, but that's my personal opinion. Everyone will have different opinions on this. But the only persons who should matter is YOURS. If you don't want to get too intimate, then don't.
You seem to doubt it quite alot, so don't go any further until you're 100% sure.
Whatever you decide, he should respect your decisions. If he doesn't, he hardly "loves" you.
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