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a bit long but its making my life hell :( please help me
hiii
sorry its a bit long..
well i have liked this boy for about 6-7 months or more. i went out with him for 5 months and we broke up about 3 weeks ago. i still love him and i have never loved anyone as much as him. everyone can even tell.
i cheated on him at the very start that we went out and then i realised how much i love him and i regretted it; and he forgave me. but the whole time we were going out he would ditch me and he also lied to me about smoking (i didnt like smokers at the time) and he lied about not smoking. I forgave him for everythingg he did. then he did cheat on me, but he was drunk and the girl did stuff to him; it wasnt him at all .. so i forgave him..again..then we broke up because he kept flirting with these girls and it just got too much for me. And then about 2 weeks ago his best friend sends me a message saying all this threats and stuff and that if i ever talk to my ex again i will get bashed. I didnt really take notice of it coz he hasnt said anything to me about it. But last week me and my ex started talking and i asked him what he would do if his friend hit me and he said he would go crazy and be angry and stuff. Then i asked him if he ever thinks about me anymore and he said All the time. Then i was like Why arent we together yet.. and hes like Because my best friend doesnnt want me to be. .
and today i asked him why his friend doesnt want us to be together and he said I dont know.
So practically the only reason were not together is because of his best friend..and i dont know what to do because i have never felt like this about anyone; i actually think i love him.
Please help
thankss
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Lets take this one thing at a time.
Lies. Not good. Doesn't matter what he lied about it will be hard to ever believe him again. Strike one!
Drunk. If he is your age he is also breaking the law. Same deal with the smoking as a matter of fact. Strike two!
Excuses. Drunk and cheating makes him a two time loser. Such an easy out using being drunk as an excuse. Strike three!
Blaming the girl. Oh please! Strike four.
Flirting. Usually not a strike but he has a bad record. Not a good thing.
Letting friends run his life. What? He has no balls. Strike five.
I think you could find someone more deserving of your affection young lady. Running after this guy is going to get your heart broken. :)
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I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL! And I know it sucks. What you need to do is you need to tell your ex how much you love him. If he feels the same about you he'll ignore what his friend thinks. It's not up to his friend, it's up to you two. As for this kid telling you he's going to hit you.. I would deffinately tell an adult. I know that seems really lame but people these days are phsycotic, and honestly, you'll be lucky if the worst he does is smack you around..
I hope this helped, but if you want more advice deffinately leave something in my inbox, I'll be happy you help you.
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Alright poppet, you sound like you're in quite a rut so I'll take a crack at it:
I don't understand why your ex doesn't just talk to his friend. If his friend is really a good friend, then he should understand what you guys have between you two. Next time you see him, ask him if he could talk to him friend and see why it bothers him so much. If his friend doesn't change his mind, maybe he's not so great a friend.
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