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Insane Crazed Stalker Freak
OK, this is my 3rd question about this guy, if you havent read my other questions....ill fill you in:
Okay so this guy really likes me and keeps following me wherever i go. He gets really close to my face when he talks and is obnoxious and annoying. a tad bit rude too. Im ognoring him at the moment, and its NOY WORKING. He just wont give up. Im actually ANGRY. I dotn know what to do other than to tell him straight up thaat i dont want him following me. But he recently got transfered to 2 of my classes and sat next to me in both. One of them was my favorite classes and now hes in it. I know its not his doing, but he atleast can make an effort to try to stay away from me. No, he knows im avoiding him and is still ding every little thing he possibly can to be near me. Its gotten to the point where i cant even hang out with my own friends! Im really upset and angry, and i really need some help, and help that will work and keep away from me and out of my life.
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The only option you're left with is to make the message clearer than ever. Tell him you don't feel comfortable with him following you around everywhere. & if it's still a problem, you need to talk to a teacher/administrator & see if they can step in. If you ever feel threatened by someone at school, don't ever feel afraid to bring it up.
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Tell him, clearly and loudly, that you want him to stop following you and leave you alone. You don't need to be mean, but don't be friendly either. Be cold and to the point.
Don't ask him what is problem is if you really don't care. I wouldn't care what his problem is if I were you. I would simply want him to stop being my problem.
Then speak to your teacher or principals. Just walk up to them and ask to speak to them privatly for a minute. You don't need to insult him, but make sure they know that his behavoir is making you upset and uncomfortable. They can't do much for you at this point, but at least you will have let someone know you have asked him to stop if he doesn't.
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Guys don't always get the female hints (women usually go nonononononoyes), tell him what I wished a lot of women would have just told me.
I suggest you do this where there are some people around, but where your conversation would still be private. Ask him nicely what his problem is, hear him out, then decide or not to tell him nicely that you are getting tired of this crap and that he should please "F-off". Turn around and walk away.
Just cause you are telling him straight up don't mean you should say it like a bitch, just keep your cool, but if he persist be a COLD bitch.
Like, he comes sits next to you in class, casually put up your hand and ask you teacher to move you to another seat.
Then lastly if THAT don't work, tell your dad or teachers that he is harassing you.
My best to you.
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Absolutely tell him he is scaring you and he needs to stop following you around. Tell him girls do not like it when you get thisclose to them. Start out nicely, but if he keeps doing if you may have to get a bit harsher. And if he STILL follows you, tell a teacher, definately. Because if you told him to stop twice, and he still does it, he has no respect for you and may end up doing something worse. But don't jump to conclusions right away, you have to tell him first, sometimes guys just can't take a hint.
Hope I helped.
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just turn around when hes following you and say i am flatered by you but i do not want you to follow me and if you continue i will inform the police
say it really sternly and hel leave you alone
let me know how it goes please i am curios
samgamlin@googlemail.com
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tell him straight up, but the first time be firm and not angry or anything. if he continues, either toughen up when you tell him or go to a counselor and they'll warn him for you
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