15/f
ok i kinda like my boyfriend best friend and one night i had called him and we was talking for a while then our conversation got deep and we started talking about sex and what will happen if he comes see me cuz hes coming down here for christmas im very interested in him b/c hes different but i love my boifriend and i dont want to cheat so do you have any ideas on how to stop liking my boifriend best friend thanx
No one who "loves" their boyfriend has the desire to have sex with another guy, let alone talk about it. It doesn't sound like you are truly commited to your boyfriend & that's not fair to him. Would you want your boyfriend to do the very things you're doing to him right now? How would you like it if he was thinking about having sex with your best friend? I mean, do you have any respect for him, for his feelings or for yourself? If you feel like you'd rather be with his best friend, then you need to be honest NOW. I can tell you right now - this whole situation isn't going to be pretty considering they are "best friends." (No friend agrees to have sex with their best friend's girlfriend.) But the only thing you can do is be honest from the start.
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15/f
ok i have temper tandrums so i have alot anger built up inside me any way to get my anger out before i expode b/c between skool, my boifriend, my mama life has been close to hell so plz help thanx
The most healthiest solution? Exercise/Running/Punching Bag + Music. :)
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15/f
ok me and my boifriend cant wait to have sex but im still wondering if im ready to have sex with him i have had sex before 4 times but not with him and all those times have been with the wrong person and this time im kinda taking it slow compared to all the other times we have been dating for 4 months now but we've known each other for bout 6 or 7 months so how can i find out if hes the right person to have sex with...
I'll get to the point on this one - when you have to question yourself, it usually means you aren't ready. Of course you can't wait to have sex, you're 15 & your hormones are raging. But I suggest continuing to take things slow & wait till you know he's the right one. Why the rush?
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all the guys in mygrade hate me. they think im a whore cause i dress slutty but i dont mean to. I have no idea what i am doing wrong! i am so sad. please just help all you can
First & foremost, you should never care what other people think of you. On there other hand, there is a level of self respect you should care about. If you acknowledge that you do dress more revealing than you should, then the simple solution would be to tone it down. I'm not sure how old you are, but guys my age find it so incredibily sexy when a girl dresses classy. They like girls who cover themselves because it leaves more to their imagination. I truly believe dressing slutty is the worst way to get attention from guys. You're attracting the wrong crowd & no one is going to find it very appealing. So the only thing I can suggest is to wear clothes you feel comfortable in & don't let anyone get the best of you.
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So my boyfriend was hitting my face with a shoe [sparring gear] He didn't realize it was hurting me. He didn't stop after I gave him a look to. So when he stopped a few seconds later, he did it again so out of nowhere, I slapped him. He got really upset and later said it was disrespectful. I don't know what to do! He didn't even think about what he was doing to me. I know what I did was wrong, i quickly realized that. I did something before thinking but it wasn't a hard slap. What am i supposed to say or do? he's completely pouring this out on me. i just want it to stop.
No real man hits a woman in any way or form. Clearly, you are not in a healthy relationship with this guy because that's just not how couples (or even friends) treat eachother. Infact, it's horrible to hear that someone could do something like that to someone they supposedly care about. You did nothing wrong. Yes, any physical abuse to one another is wrong. But don't let him turn this around & make it all about you. If hitting someone in the face with a shoe isn't disrespectful to him, then it's obvious he has some issues decyfering what's right & wrong. You just can't continue being in a relationship with someone who does these things (especially without a reason. Even if there was some reason, it still doesn't make it right.) If you stay with someone who is emotionally or physically abusive, you're give them more power each day. You need to end things now before things become more serious.
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OK, this is my 3rd question about this guy, if you havent read my other questions....ill fill you in:
Okay so this guy really likes me and keeps following me wherever i go. He gets really close to my face when he talks and is obnoxious and annoying. a tad bit rude too. Im ognoring him at the moment, and its NOY WORKING. He just wont give up. Im actually ANGRY. I dotn know what to do other than to tell him straight up thaat i dont want him following me. But he recently got transfered to 2 of my classes and sat next to me in both. One of them was my favorite classes and now hes in it. I know its not his doing, but he atleast can make an effort to try to stay away from me. No, he knows im avoiding him and is still ding every little thing he possibly can to be near me. Its gotten to the point where i cant even hang out with my own friends! Im really upset and angry, and i really need some help, and help that will work and keep away from me and out of my life.
The only option you're left with is to make the message clearer than ever. Tell him you don't feel comfortable with him following you around everywhere. & if it's still a problem, you need to talk to a teacher/administrator & see if they can step in. If you ever feel threatened by someone at school, don't ever feel afraid to bring it up.
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me and my Boyfriend have been going out for a month ((tomorrow)) and i was wondering if i should get him anything. cause like this is the longest realtionsship that i have ever had. and i really like him. ((im 15 by the way)) and i was just thinking about like being relly nice ot him and wearing one of my shirts that are his favoirte. i dont know. i need to know if its okay for me to get him something because i feel like i should. but i dont know. please help =]
Although this is the longest relationship you've been in so far, don't feel obligated to go out & buy him something. Really, it's only one month. If you wanted to do something nice, go for it. But I wouldn't go all out.
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ok well last week my brother and my dad got in a big fight and my dad kicked him out (my bro is 18) and wel yesterday my dad and i got into a fight and he said that next time i do anything wrong he is going to kck me out of the house to jst like my brother ok but i am only 15 years old i turn 16 in Feb and well i wan to know how old you have to be to be able to live on your own or like to be kivked out of your house and your parents not be responsable for me my dad says 16 but i hink it might me older than that i really need to know
btw i live in teas incase the laws are diff 4 each state
lost&confused,
Tara
I lived in Texas & like most states (if not all), your parents can't kick you out on the street until you're legally 18 (unless they want to get charged with child neglect.) But if you WANTED to move out as early as 16 or 17 (I think it's 17), then you can if you get legal papers signed by your parents.
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I get $9 a week for allowance. I feel like I should be saving money for college, but even if I put half my allowence in each week, i will have only a tiny bit of money by the time I graduate, (im a freshman) so should i begin to save now, or just enjoy my allowence each week?
Well, no one can argue that saving money is always a good plan. But I wouldn't get too worked up about it quite yet. Spend your money wisely, but still put some to the side incase something comes up. I think if you really needed to save for college, I'd look into a part-time job once you turn 16 (if you aren't already). If you decided to go to community college your first year or two, you could easily afford a couple classes.
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I want to create a business on the internet with my own pages and stuff but i was wondering how to make the web page? I know how to use bsic HTML just like title, body, bold that stuff but how would i add boxes and stuff. I want one of those pages with pictures of something and then you click it and it tells you about it and you can select it to buy or select it in other colors, ect. and for it to some way email me the order or at least have a page i can go to and see the orders. Does anyone know how to make a website and can help me??? Thanks so much!!!!!!!!!
Telling someone how to create a website is like telling someone how to build a boat. It's something you have to learn on your own. Since you seem to be open-minded about the basics to HTML already, all you need is to continue learning it. The best advice I can give you is to search websites online or get a book on HTML @ your local bookstore.
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I am going with my girlfriend's family for Thanksgiving this year to her family friend's house, and I was wondering:
1) What should I bring? (gifts, food, etc)
2) What should I talk about?
3) General advice about girlfriend's parents.
This is not the first time meeting her parents, but the first time really having a conversation with them.
1.) The best thing you can do is offer help. Talk to your girlfriend's parents & ask them if they need anyone to bring a sidedish or dessert. If they say everythings covered, offer help in other ways like clearing the table/cleaning/washing dishes after the meal.
2.) The parents are more likely to ask questions since they want to know more about who's dating their daughter. From there, it won't be hard developing a conversation. Take the opportunity to brag about what school you got into, the things you have planned for your future..things parents like to hear. :) & to show that you aren't self centered, ask them questions. Be sure to be yourself, be polite, compliment them on the food & thank them for inviting you.
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