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ok wll this morining in 3rd period health i was txtin my b.f and i said to him
:i think we should break up this isnt going well'
he said are u serious?
and i wa slike yes sorry
and then right after i was like APRIL FOOLS BABY
and he said ok w.e and the said w.e im done with this shit hope you have fun being single (link)
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Hah babe. first thing you need to do is calm down. This happend to me last year. I did the same thing to my boyfriend and he was all like ok were done. and i freaked out he didnt answer me and then i found out that he was playing the joke back on me. I mean come on think about it. If hes gonna break up over a stupid little april fools joke what kind of guy is he? so thats my opinion. I think hes playing the joke back on you. I hope everything works out !. Ahh goodluck.
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my bf used to call me just because. he used to text me or message me online just cause.
noww he never does.
and also it seems he never wants to chill with me.
what do i do??? i have a bad feeling in my heart (literally......it feels weird when i think about him) :(
i think he still likes me and i still like him...but idk.
help
16/f (link)
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I had the same exact problem. And its like you dont relize how much you took that for granted. well this is what i did. i Just asked him about it. I said dont get mad or anything but is something wrong? like you always used to call just to talk and text to see how i was doing and you dont do those things anymore. Im not asking you to do them again its up to you but i miss it. they would always make me happy. and he sounded shocked. and he was all like oh my god im so sorry. i forgot and then i got busy. he didnt even relized he stopped doing it. and he started up again and we became stronger and more open with eachtoher. the best thing to do is talk to him. i hope everything works out. mkay good luck !.
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I start gym class this week, i go to an all girls school. im not skinny at all and i had knee surgery a year ago so im not in shape and i cant get in shape cus i dont have time and my knee hurts a ton, and i have to wear a brace in gym. im scared we'll have to work out a lot and everyone will like make fun of me cus most of the girls at my school are skinny and in shape, but it's not my fault i busted my knee! help me not be so nervousss (link)
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Wow. i totally know how you feel.Im a cheerleader and my whole squad is made up of skinny girls and then theres me. Il be the first to admit im CHUBBY. And even though there not guys and people dont understand why it bugs me to jump haha and dance and just you know around girls because "who am i trying to impress" its just as nervwracking. Hunny just do it. Ispent to much time worrying what people would say. I made friends when i got my confidence up higher. Believe in yourself. Im sure your a beautiful girl. Do the best you can with your knee. Have a high confidence level and believe your beautiful! Make friends be loud and outgoing so people know your a cool girl. Just have fun. Ok im know its easier said and done but in the end youl be so much more happier you did. GOODLUCK. i hope everything goes okay. and i hoep i helped.!
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idk if this is the right category or not but.. theres this guy. hes like my bestfriend.and i really really like him. we went out before and stuff.. well a few weekends ago we made out. and all week he has been sending me text messages saying how hot i am and how much he wants to f*** me. well my question is how do i make him start to fall for me and not just think of me as a hookup? thanks!! ill rate 5s (link)
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Wow for a minute i thought this was me. I totally have the same problem. my bestfriend only wants to be friends with benefits and we did go out before. Luckily i changed that =) ok so heres what i did.So yea we would basically talk for three hours everynight and he would always text me and tell me how hot i was and he wanted to do certain things with me but i wanted a relationship. so i would usually always go along with it but i kinda just like was like "ha" and change the subject or i would always be like i hate pervs. and after a week or so of that he totally got the hint and he started taking me more serious not that we didnt talk about it still ha. But then he asked me out after he knew i wanted him. So wev been going out for almost four months =) another advice let him know what you want and you want a relaitonship and not just the sex. Hope i helped. goodluck i know itl work!.
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ive been bisexual for as long as i can remeber and i reciantly moved adn ive been wonderin if i should tell my friends that im bi, but i really dont want them to be like omg your bi im not talkin to you any more. so whats your opinion for chics who are bi? do ya like em or hate em, what..... thx in advance (link)
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Okay so you have friends and you dont know if you should tell them if your bi or not. Well out of all honestly. Some people tend to get a little bit freaked out by the whole bisexual thing. Not judgung you at all. I know a couple of bi people and there cool people. I also know when they didnt know if they should tell our other friends ( i kinda knew before everyone else) they decided this is a good time to see who your true friends really are. Dont hide who you are because your afraid some people wont like you. As im sure you probly already know there are those people out there who are "homophobic" and who discriminate against busexuals and homosexuals. You are who you are and so be it. If they dont like it screw them. How many other people are out there. And if there your true friends or just your friends theyl like you for who you are. I think thats your best bet. Just coming out with your friends and being who you are. Hold you head up high and dont let people put you down for who you are. And be the best person you can be. Goodluck with everything i hope you make the right choice. You deserve the best. Ok im done =)
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My boyfriend is taking advantage of me and threatens to hurt me if i don't make-out with him or have sex with him and i'm still a virgin but i don't know how long i can hold out for! (link)
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Wow. I totaly know how you feel on this. Lets say iv gone through this type of situation before. ANd i know how hard it is. And i know what i am going to say now and what the people below me said is gonna sound like crap and too hard to do just take it into consideration. SO i had this boyfriend. And in the beginning it was amazing he meant everything to me. But i didnt know he was lieing to me. We were sitting in his car one day and he started feeling me up. ANd im like stop im not in the mood. And he said think again if you dont do what i tell you to...he pulls out a knife and he said then wel do something else i dont think youl appreciate as much. So of course i was scared as hell and i did what he told me to. This continued throguh about six months. After that i wasnt a virgin anymore which i regret with everything i have. So one night i was tired sick and done with his shit so he was in the mood ha and i wasnt giving in so he pulled the knife out and i said go for it your not getting it from me tongiht and he didnt have the balls to after that i felt like i could do anything and i broke up with him. Sadly after he kept satlking/threatning me. so i had to get a restraining order. but wow after that it felt like a brick was let off my shoulder. I had way more respect for myself. Now i know its gonna be hard but just take it step by step and tell someone let somone help you with it. I wish you the best. Hope everything works out
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I am trying out for High School Musical (not the movie, the play.) I have no idea what to sing. (link)
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So your trying out for the play highschool musical. And im guessing obviously in this play youll have to sing. So you might want to pick a musical song. I dont know if thye tell you before audtions if you cant sing a song from the movie like for examply your not allowed to sing " Were all in this together" or something like that. So maybe to be on the safe side sing another song from a musical you can never go wrong with that. I tried out for plays before and iv sang musicals before and it never backfired on me lol. So uhm here are some ideas.
"Tomorrow"- From Annie.
"Mama Mia"- From Mama Mia. (id sung this one before and they were impressed)
Those are two examples. Another idea is maybe songs from another disney movie. Some examples for that are....
"Part of your World"- The little mermaid.
"Beauty and the Beast"- Beauty and the beast.
Those are some examples of songs you can sing i would reccomend a song like that if your trying out for a musical. When i did musicals those are usually the types of songs i would sing. Well goodluck and i hope i helpd. I hope you make it!
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hey i'm looking for songs about a boyfriend or spouse that has died (like gone away by the offspring and pictures of you by the cure). anything slow would be great, alternative music is really good too but i'm open to any suggestions. thank you so much. (link)
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Uhm the only ones i can think of are "goodbye my lover" by james blunt is a goodone uhm yea what they said below the avril lavigne one, and maybe i dont know if you would count this one but "How to save a life" by the frey. ok hope i helped.
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me and my boyfriend had sex last weekend.
so it went like it normally do. but when he had it in, it felt like he ''cumed'' so i kept saying take it out take it out i think you cumed and he was like no keep it in, it feels good, but i was like YOU CUMED and he said no i didnt i would know now lets keep going. now i was trusting him. so i kept going believeing him. so 10 minutes later he took it out but it was halfway in and felt like he really did cumed. so i was like i think you cumed and he said baby i didnt and he starting kissing on me, and he kept going down like he was trying to eat me out. so i left his head back up and we started tongue kissing again, my perious was suppose to come this week, but it didnt, and my tummy has been a little puffy from usual, what do i do?
should i break up with him? we been together for 2 years. && both madly in love, but then again i always had iiregular period, should i be worried?
oh if it helps 13/f, im in 8th grade
i wear a 34 b, && my body is pretty mature, && im 5'7 or 5'8, (link)
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Hey, Im not going to talk down to you like every person below me did. You want advice not to be judged, Like you i have made some decisions i shouldnt have and i payed the consequences, I know what it feels like. Maybe not this situation. But okay, Your thirteen, even though i dont agree with yelling at you like others have i do agree with what they said. You are only thirteen thats pretty younge to be having sex. But i dont know your life story or your story with your boyfriend. Like you said you two are madly in love. Then maybe you think your ready to have sex. Im not telling you your wrong. Im just telling you to stop and think about your future for a minute.....You can be something so great. But if you have sex something like this getting pregnant or getting an STD can hold you back from that. And your thirteen. Wait till highschool. Think about all those guys there maybe just maybe one day you and your boyfriend take a break and you swear you meet the right guy hes like the one. Youv been waiting for forever he makes you froget about this guy. Youl have nothing to look foward to with him. You already had the sexual expieriences its nothing new to you. Did you know in a poll 23% highschool relationships actually last? Your thirteen babe. im not sayings its not gonna work. Im just saying take this into consideration. Now about the whole pregnancy thing. I had a friends who had gone through the same thing your going through. Basically hun it is what it is. You just have to keep your head up high and hope for the best. Wait a week or two if you still havent gotten your period then go ahead and take a test. As of breaking up with him. I wouldnt say take it to that extreme. Just let him know your trust in him has gone down. And he now has to earn it back. Dont give up on him or anything you believe in. Stick up for yourself too. If worse comes to worse and you are pregnant. Dont let ANYONE put you down. Believe in yourself. Dont let anyone tell you who you are either, Im not much older then you. About 2 years older. And i know what its like to be called names. To the point you start believeing that you are that. Just dont believe your better off. Im sure you are a beautiful smart girl. The people below me dont know you. And dont know what its like to go through what you going through. Everyone has there reasons. So hold your head up high and be the best person you can be even through a time like this. When its all over just know its gonna make you a stronger person. Good Luck im gonna be praying for you and hoping everything is ok. And Let me know. ok thats it.
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