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Can he think of me more than a hookup?
idk if this is the right category or not but.. theres this guy. hes like my bestfriend.and i really really like him. we went out before and stuff.. well a few weekends ago we made out. and all week he has been sending me text messages saying how hot i am and how much he wants to f*** me. well my question is how do i make him start to fall for me and not just think of me as a hookup? thanks!! ill rate 5s
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Wow for a minute i thought this was me. I totally have the same problem. my bestfriend only wants to be friends with benefits and we did go out before. Luckily i changed that =) ok so heres what i did.So yea we would basically talk for three hours everynight and he would always text me and tell me how hot i was and he wanted to do certain things with me but i wanted a relationship. so i would usually always go along with it but i kinda just like was like "ha" and change the subject or i would always be like i hate pervs. and after a week or so of that he totally got the hint and he started taking me more serious not that we didnt talk about it still ha. But then he asked me out after he knew i wanted him. So wev been going out for almost four months =) another advice let him know what you want and you want a relaitonship and not just the sex. Hope i helped. goodluck i know itl work!.
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If he is your best friend/ then im sure honesty has always been a part of your friendship. The first thing I suggest you do is talk to him about it. Tell him you don't want your friendship ruined over this, but you need to tell him how you feel. Tell him you feel like he is only into hooking up and ask if he like you in another way. Make he understands that you like him more than a friend, more than just for hooking up. If you want to go into detail about why you like him you should. Tell him how much he means to you, why and how you appreciate him always being there for you, the bond you two have shared...etc. Because of how close you are, talking to him seems best.
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Well, if you don't want to be considered a hook-up, don't be one.
As I'm sure every grandmother has said, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
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try if you will to get him to go on a few dates with you and show him that romantic side of you tell him you want to get to know him try to plan a time when you two can just get away from being interrupted like a coffee shop or something take time so he can get to know you and fall for you keep in mind this may takes weeks or months but dont rush it
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