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my bf used to call me just because. he used to text me or message me online just cause.
noww he never does.
and also it seems he never wants to chill with me.
what do i do??? i have a bad feeling in my heart (literally......it feels weird when i think about him) :(
i think he still likes me and i still like him...but idk.
help
16/f
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I had the same exact problem. And its like you dont relize how much you took that for granted. well this is what i did. i Just asked him about it. I said dont get mad or anything but is something wrong? like you always used to call just to talk and text to see how i was doing and you dont do those things anymore. Im not asking you to do them again its up to you but i miss it. they would always make me happy. and he sounded shocked. and he was all like oh my god im so sorry. i forgot and then i got busy. he didnt even relized he stopped doing it. and he started up again and we became stronger and more open with eachtoher. the best thing to do is talk to him. i hope everything works out. mkay good luck !.
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Sorry, but I don't really go with triquetra on this one. If you ask like, straight off: Why aren't you calling/texting me anymore?? It'll make you seem clingy and that'll sort of annoy him. I don't know what kind of guy he is, but to be on the safe side, don't ask him.
Maybe you should try calling or whatever first? Just like casually, like "what's up? want to chill?" And if he has a long conversation or he says yes to hanging out with you, you can see that nothing's going wrong. but if he cuts the convo short or something like that, maybe something is wrong?
Has he cheated before? If he did, it could be an option that he's thinking of other girls.
I think the best you can do to find out 100% is get your friend to go up to him and go, "Hey, are you still going out with her?"
He'd say, "yea." (if he says no, it should explain itself.)
and then your friend would go, "Oh? Really? I thought you weren't because whenever I try to call or want to hang out with her, she's busy with you. Now she's like always free, so is there something wrong?"
Or something like that.
But if you think it's okay to talk to him about it face to face, that's cool. Just don't go, "Why haven't you been calling me?!" or something like that. Go, "I've noticed my cell never rings with your number anymore. Anything you want to say?" or whatever.
-Jenni C ♥
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Ask him why he doesn't, that will be the only way that you'll find out why he doesn't call/text/message you as often as he used to. Could it be because he's got more to do, such as studying? Just ask him because you know that you've got feelings for him.
The bad feeling you've got in your heart? I've experianced that and i believe it is a response to when we think about somebody whom we care about incredibly, you just don't want anything to happen to that person. I've been getting these 'vibes' quite strongly recently. So it's a perfectly natural reaction which occurs when we think of somebody whom we care for, nothing to worry about.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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