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sex sex sex {{but please dont judge me}}
me and my boyfriend had sex last weekend.
so it went like it normally do. but when he had it in, it felt like he ''cumed'' so i kept saying take it out take it out i think you cumed and he was like no keep it in, it feels good, but i was like YOU CUMED and he said no i didnt i would know now lets keep going. now i was trusting him. so i kept going believeing him. so 10 minutes later he took it out but it was halfway in and felt like he really did cumed. so i was like i think you cumed and he said baby i didnt and he starting kissing on me, and he kept going down like he was trying to eat me out. so i left his head back up and we started tongue kissing again, my perious was suppose to come this week, but it didnt, and my tummy has been a little puffy from usual, what do i do?
should i break up with him? we been together for 2 years. && both madly in love, but then again i always had iiregular period, should i be worried?
oh if it helps 13/f, im in 8th grade
i wear a 34 b, && my body is pretty mature, && im 5'7 or 5'8,
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My GOODNESS, people here sure know how to bitch someone out, don't they? By the way, I'm 14 and I shain't judge you like those assholes below me did (no offense to you if you didn't).
If you're puffy, it's most definately NOT from pregnancy (things like that wouldn't happen so soon). Actually, it might be bloating, which would be positive because that probably means your period is coming soon, ergo you're not pregnant.
I'm guessing your man is older than you. I don't understand WHY her being 13 would affect the age of her man, =coughciao77cough=. I know plenty of guys that date younger girls, including seniors in HS dating freshman.
If you do get through with this and aren't pregnant, you might want to have a little chat with this boyfriend of yours. First of all, you probably can tell better than he can on whether or not he cumed in you, given how it is IN you and stuff. The fact that you repeatingly told him to take it out and he still didn't listen shows that he's slightly inconsiderate of your feelings. Also, he told you not to take it out because it felt good. It felt good. To him. Obviously, you were insecure, but he didn't really care about that, did he? I'm not trying to put down your boyfriend, but he did put you in this rut so you should be careful on what you do next.
If you don't want to tell your mum about this, which I'm guessing you don't, maybe you could talk to a close friend or an older relative you're close with and see if they could get you a pregnancy test. That's your best bet at making sure.
My last note of advice on this extremely long answer is to take heed to your actions. You can see how scared you were from this so learn from it. You're young, I'm young. The decisions we make now affect the rest of our lives. I'm a freshman now and I see how hard it is. You don't want the burden of a child to go along with it.
Message me. Tell me how it goes. Hope all this advice helped. I still can't believe the kind of people that "help" other people on this site. The nerve...
P.S. "Walking around, having everyone stare at you because you're a pregnant GIRL." -HiChic
What do you want her to be, a pregnant MAN?
(Notice how I corrected her puctuation and she implys you're young and don't know the meaning of the word "ignorant". Us young people aren't that dumb. We're actually downright brilliant.)
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well for all the people that were saying shit and talking down about you, they can go to hell, because sex is a natural thing there probably just mad because they cant get any haha anyways...
you could be pregnant although its to early for symptoms to really start showing, but if you think he came in you then you should take a pregnancy test even if you dont think he did, you should still take one to make sure.
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k look - you said not to judge you, & that's not what i'm doing so just remember that. even though a ton of people have already answered this before me & made perfect since, i'm going to tell you anyway. you are freakin 13 years old ?! that is absurd. at 13 i barely even knew what sex was. i don't think you are pregnant, & i hope you aren't but you should learn from this. it sounds exactly like he didn't respect you at all, & that means that you shouldn't be with him. but you have been with him since you were 11 ? um, ok - i defnitely think you need to take a second & re- think some decisions you are making or you probably will be pregnant at least by the time you are 16. & although you probably won't listen to me, you sound so ridiculous asking this, at 13 .. grow up please.
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first off, a week is way too early to see signs of pregnancy, especially puffiness! second of all, you're only 13 so your period can still be irregular.
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The only way you'll know is if you take a test. And if he did cum inside you & said he didn't, then he obviously lied to you. I, personally, don't think you should be with someone who would lie about something like that [if he did lie].
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I'll keep this short.
You could be pregnant. Take a test.
If you insist on having sex (even though you shouldn't because you are only 13), WEAR PROTECTION. It will save you all this hassle and worry.
and if I were in your position right now, yes I'd break up with him for the following reasons:
*He ejaculated when he said he didn't
*Something serious like that isn't something which should be lied about
*He wanted to carry on because it "felt good" and didn't sound like he respected what you had to say
*He's obviously not mature enough to handle it - neither are you.
I'm not judging you or trying to sound mean by the way. I just find it highly irritating when young teens barely having started puberty get themselves into dodgy situations like this when they can be prevented.
SO to conclude:
Get a pregnancy test. and in the mean time, try not to worry. You can even go to the doctors for a test and they won't tell your parents because it's confidential.
Best of luck. and remember not to get yourself into that situation again.
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Hey, Im not going to talk down to you like every person below me did. You want advice not to be judged, Like you i have made some decisions i shouldnt have and i payed the consequences, I know what it feels like. Maybe not this situation. But okay, Your thirteen, even though i dont agree with yelling at you like others have i do agree with what they said. You are only thirteen thats pretty younge to be having sex. But i dont know your life story or your story with your boyfriend. Like you said you two are madly in love. Then maybe you think your ready to have sex. Im not telling you your wrong. Im just telling you to stop and think about your future for a minute.....You can be something so great. But if you have sex something like this getting pregnant or getting an STD can hold you back from that. And your thirteen. Wait till highschool. Think about all those guys there maybe just maybe one day you and your boyfriend take a break and you swear you meet the right guy hes like the one. Youv been waiting for forever he makes you froget about this guy. Youl have nothing to look foward to with him. You already had the sexual expieriences its nothing new to you. Did you know in a poll 23% highschool relationships actually last? Your thirteen babe. im not sayings its not gonna work. Im just saying take this into consideration. Now about the whole pregnancy thing. I had a friends who had gone through the same thing your going through. Basically hun it is what it is. You just have to keep your head up high and hope for the best. Wait a week or two if you still havent gotten your period then go ahead and take a test. As of breaking up with him. I wouldnt say take it to that extreme. Just let him know your trust in him has gone down. And he now has to earn it back. Dont give up on him or anything you believe in. Stick up for yourself too. If worse comes to worse and you are pregnant. Dont let ANYONE put you down. Believe in yourself. Dont let anyone tell you who you are either, Im not much older then you. About 2 years older. And i know what its like to be called names. To the point you start believeing that you are that. Just dont believe your better off. Im sure you are a beautiful smart girl. The people below me dont know you. And dont know what its like to go through what you going through. Everyone has there reasons. So hold your head up high and be the best person you can be even through a time like this. When its all over just know its gonna make you a stronger person. Good Luck im gonna be praying for you and hoping everything is ok. And Let me know. ok thats it.
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You're a pretty darn tall and stupid for being in the eighth grade.
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omg you cant get pregnant that fast! you are so ignorant! (bet you dont know what that word means!) anyways get a test tell your boyfriend you arent having sex anymore cause you dont wanna be the middle school slut that got pregnant. if he freaks dump him. honey, you are only 13! and im not much older than you and i think sex is disgusting! arent you scared about having a baby? can you imagine holding a little baby? walking around having everyone stare at you because you are a pregnant GIRL?! girls at my school have gotten pregnant and everyone talks about them and is disgusted with them. its not to late to stop and fix things even if you are pregnant. but its impossible for you to have a puffy tummy right now. showing u are CLUELESS which isnt really a bad thing. but it takes a while before the baby even starts forming. and if you get an abortion you ARE killing a sweet little baby girl or boy. Think about it and if you really want to put yourself in this position and always be scared like this. imagine telling your friends or family. your teachers staring at you and people at random stores just staring at you. its not something you can hide. and they would all know you had sex with sum boy. please hun, think about it and make the right descicion. i pray you arent pregnant because everyone deserves a 2nd chance and you or the baby could get terribly sick with you being so young. my friends have had sex and had pregnancy scares and its the worst thing ever. knowing what you might have gotten yourself and your baby into. they have turned around and you can to. if you need more help or advice feel free to inbox me. Good luck and may God be with you
~*~HiChick~*~
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wow just wow 13 and in 8th grade. What were you thinking you have your whole life ahead of you. You can't just think for that moment you have to think what will happen with the actions you took for the rest of your life. Imagine if you are pregnate you have just ruined your life. You shouldn't trust guys with stuff like that all they really want is to get some they know they can't get pregnate so they dont worry. You should definatly get tested as soon as possible. Not only for pregnancy but STD's. Speak to an adult about it.
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First off, GO get tested RIGHT AWAY...you could be pregnant. Others have said the same thing, and I'll repeat it again. You are very, very young..too young to be doing these things. Obviously dear, sorry to say this, you aren't mature enough to deal with these situations. Why do you get yourself in them in the first place? Well, now that all is said and done, just go to a clinic or wherever, and get a pregnancy test. Go in a couple days or so, and you'll get accurate results. Better yet, please, for YOUR sake, go talk to a school nurse. They will not judge you at all. They will give you guidance and let you know what you should do next (and maybe give you a pregnancy test). I don't know how old your boyfriend is, or who he has been with, but regardless, get tested for other things (STD's, if you know what those are) as well.
Your boyfriend sounds young too,(otherwise, why would he be with a 13 year old), so he probably doesn't know how to deal either. I am not so naive as to think you are not going to have sex. Next time, use a condom! Never, ever have sex without one. Also, rethink what you are doing. You are so young, you can wait off doing these things for a while, believe me. If you do not want to listen to me, or anyone else, at the very least, go talk to your school nurse for one thing, and always, always use protection.
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First off, just so you know, the whole pull out method does not really work. Guys ejeculate small amounts of semen during sex and these can make you get pregnant.
What you should do first of all is check and see if you actually are pregnant. If you had unprotected sex you should always be a bit worried. Second you should either a. stop having sex and just be 13 years old, or b. if you really must then start using protection.
You see when people advise children not to have sex it is precisely for this reason. They are not usually educated enough to know whats safe and what isnt, they take risks (like you boyfriend probably just did), and they are not usually equiped to deal with a potential accident.
As for what to do with your boyfriend, you can try talk to him and figure this out. However remember he is also just a child and he may not fully understand what a mess he can get you into. Self control at that age is... lacking.
I do hope for your sake you are not pregnant. If you dodged the bullet be a bit more careful next time.
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You've been together since you were 11 years old? What'd you guys do? Play Monopoly?
Should you be worried. Yes, for two reasons. The first being that if you didn't use any protection whatsoever, which is what it looks like, there's a good chance you could be pregnant.
The second being that you're 13 and having sex, and type like a 6 year old with a thought process of an 8 year old.
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