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Q: okay, i really like this boy. ive liked him for a while now. there is a strange attraction between us but i dont think that he likes me. how do i make him like me?

Talk more to him. If you and your friends are hanging out in the weekend, invite him. You can also ask one of your friends to ask him if he likes you.

I hope it helps.

Q: Im so obsessed with harry potter. now that the books are all out and there are no new movies i have gotten desprate, so much that i was on youtube watching fake 6th movie trailers. any suggestions?

All good things much end and surprisingly it's this. Find yourself something new to obsess about like Narnia, Star Wars I don't know things that you like too. Don't worry in the future they might re-do the movies but that will take a while use the time you have now to obsess over something else. Just not over a person thats kind of weird lol.

Q: Well, you have answered one of my questions before and I've got to tell you that you are good. So I have a problem. I am in love with my brother. Well he is my step-brother. What do I do?

Well he's your step brother not your actual brother. I dont know how close both of your parents are but if they split up in the future you should tell him but dont tell him while both of your parents are together because that would somewhat awkward. I don't really know if I helped sorry never been through this, hope it helped. Best of luck.

Q: is the devinci code fact or fiction? im wondering about the secret societies of the church? also they talk about religious history throughout the movie so i was wondering if any of it was true.

You never know these days but you should believe in what you want to believe not in a movie or in a church, but for all that we know it can be true or not. By the way its The Da Vinci Code sorry had to do that grammar freak. =] and again sorry.

Q: i'm going on sort of a double date thing on friday. Its going to be me and my boyfriend and my friend and her boyfriend going to the movies.My boyfriend and i haven't kissed yet and he said he was gunna kiss me in the movie. This will be my first kiss. Wat should i do?????
Thanx in advance

Well as people say that your first kiss should be special you shouldn't have it in a movie theater where everyone kisses. Tell him you don't wan't him to kiss you there, you wan't it to be somwhere memorable.

Q: can anyone identify the pyramids in this pictue and if they were photoshoped together or actually lined up this way? for a report on egypt

link: http://www.leeabbamonte.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/05/giza-pyramids.bmp

They are alined that way. Its really cool because they are under the three constant stars.

Q: Ok ok I know a lot of people have been asking this ,but I really am stuck. I really want to get my best friend something really nice for christmas, but I don't know what to get her. She is 16, loves theater and musicals, normally wears (American Eagle, Holister ect,) but I dont want to get her just a shirt. I want to get her something she will like.

Thanks in advance. I'll rate you. =]

Well since she likes musicals she probably likes to collect playbills so you can get her one from ebay. You can always get a special in the store she likes.Socks work too.

Q: can you put a DVD in the computer and play it, then pause it, take a screenshot of whatever scene it stops on and then have the picture of the scene in your pictures?

if so, then which buttons would you press.

Download Gadwin Systems and you are set.

Q: i reveal some things i shouldn't have said to someone cause im affraid he might tell his girlfriend which i totally hate, what do you think its best to do to kind of make what i said sound less important so he will think like oh its something that doesn't even matter ?

Cover it up.

Q: I enjoy sex. I crave it from my bf. But when we get ready, he seems so tense. We've been going out for a long time now and were definetely ready. What can i do to make him loosen up. How can i seduce him? What do guys enjoy most in sex?

Please help me

Dont push it. He might not be ready. Just because you think you are doesnt mean he is. Remember consider other people and their limits.

Q: I've asked this question before, but I never seem to get a real, good answer.

It's about my VAGINA. I'm fourteen and a virgin.

Not the inner workings, but the outer appearence.

My lips, or labia, don't really look like I think they're supposed to. Now, I haven't exactly seen many vaginas but this just doesn't seem normal.

Instead of just being skin colored, my lips are a kind of brownish purple. Instead of just being smooth, my lips are kind of wrinkled, and if I pull them, they extend, but are still wrinkly.

I've seen 'Knocked Up' recently, and I saw the scene where Katherine Heigl has the baby and they showed her vagina. I understand she was crowning so that's not what I should look like, but her lips looked NORMAL. Not purple or brown, not wrinkled - but normal.

So is what I'm describing usual for girls? Does anybody else look like this? Uhm, help?

I've read this question before and I saw people answered it so I didnt need to, but if you have any other questions ask your mom or go to the doctor. Stop putting it here we are not specialists.

Q: okay well for christmas i really want a blue ipod nano, the second generation, with NO video. does anyone know where i can find one online? i cudnt find it at apple.com or target.com or bestbuy.com or overstock.com! plz help me find one?!

Try amazon.com or ebay.

Q: ok so i broke my computer which had all my music on itunes. this is my problem i go a new computer and i dont have any music on it. my ipod has all the music from my old computer. i want to add more music to it using the new comp without itune deleting the songs i already have on my ipod and replacing them with the ones a want to add. is it possible to add more music to my ipod using a different computer and itunes not deleting the music i aldeady have on the ipod?

It's not possible. As soon as you plug it to the new computer it will delete all the songs.

Q: me and my boyfriend had sex last weekend.
so it went like it normally do. but when he had it in, it felt like he ''cumed'' so i kept saying take it out take it out i think you cumed and he was like no keep it in, it feels good, but i was like YOU CUMED and he said no i didnt i would know now lets keep going. now i was trusting him. so i kept going believeing him. so 10 minutes later he took it out but it was halfway in and felt like he really did cumed. so i was like i think you cumed and he said baby i didnt and he starting kissing on me, and he kept going down like he was trying to eat me out. so i left his head back up and we started tongue kissing again, my perious was suppose to come this week, but it didnt, and my tummy has been a little puffy from usual, what do i do?
should i break up with him? we been together for 2 years. && both madly in love, but then again i always had iiregular period, should i be worried?
oh if it helps 13/f, im in 8th grade
i wear a 34 b, && my body is pretty mature, && im 5'7 or 5'8,

wow just wow 13 and in 8th grade. What were you thinking you have your whole life ahead of you. You can't just think for that moment you have to think what will happen with the actions you took for the rest of your life. Imagine if you are pregnate you have just ruined your life. You shouldn't trust guys with stuff like that all they really want is to get some they know they can't get pregnate so they dont worry. You should definatly get tested as soon as possible. Not only for pregnancy but STD's. Speak to an adult about it.

Q: can i get an STD by sucking a dick? thx

Yes you can get herpes

Q: i am in a new school. i have no friends. how do i make frends? i sit in the cafeteria with people who totally ignore me!!! please help

Ask them what classes they have. Maybe they have your same teachers or they have you in the class. You need a good ice breaker, ask them what they like or if they undertands how to do a lesson. Im sure they wont ignore you for long they'll get used to you soon.

Q: theres this kid that i think is so cutee, and he usually ends up infront of me on the lunch line. anyway, i asked my friend tommy to find out his name and he ended up going up to him and saying " this girls in love with you and keeps asking me for youre name to find out youre name so what is it" and hes like oh im chris. and i dont know now i feel so awkward because he probably thinks im a stalker or something. do you have any ideas on what i can do to make this situation better?

Just talk to him now and share your interests, im sure he forgot about the name thing by now knowing how guys are.

Q: i was surfing through the internet and i stumbled upon this....http://immortalityring.com/home.php

is it for real? or just a scam?

Rings now huh? You would be better of looking for the fountain of youth.

Q: well a few minutes ago my mom went to go get a mri and she came back with the results and something was weird on her neck and i jokingly said it was throat cancer and she said and what if i found out it as and i said i would be on top of the world because i meant it as oh wow im smart you know like wow what a guess. but she took it thge wrong way and then i relized what i had said wrong and now she wont talk to me or do anytihng for me n she said you don't want me as a mother and don't ever say that again i said i was sorry and what i meant but she is acting like she hates me what can i do for her to stop hateing me

Buy her something really nice that she likes and tell her you were just joking around that you would never want that to happen to her. Im sure she'll forgive you.

Q: Ok, me and my best friend are going on a cruise and we want to hang out with people a.k.a. guys...but i have a boyfriend...what should we do?

I dont think you should hang out with guys. Have fun with your best friend unless it isnt a good reationship that you have with your boyfriend. In the end it's your decision.

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