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My bf doesnt want sex!


Question Posted Sunday December 16 2007, 2:16 pm

I enjoy sex. I crave it from my bf. But when we get ready, he seems so tense. We've been going out for a long time now and were definetely ready. What can i do to make him loosen up. How can i seduce him? What do guys enjoy most in sex?

Please help me

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annon answered Saturday December 22 2007, 4:41 pm:
Peanuts seems like a total wierdo, there are limits to what people will do, if your ready then it doesnt me he is, with my last gf (and she was very patiant) she let me do stuff to her so i would want to do more (please keep in mind i am only 16 and havent had much... practice if you will) but i stick by what i said about peanuts.. dont know what was going through his mind when he typed that

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albigirl091 answered Wednesday December 19 2007, 12:59 pm:
maybe he just dont want 2 have sex with YOU. i mean, idk.. ahave you thought about him maybe being gay or bi?

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peanuts answered Tuesday December 18 2007, 10:46 am:
sorry i guess he just isnt man enough and you should just get rid of him because sex is the best thing in the world and until he realizes that well then hes no good to you

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thelaura answered Monday December 17 2007, 6:37 pm:
You crave it - he might not.
Or you both crave it, but he's not 100% ready.. because if he was, he wouldn't tense up. It doesn't matter how long you've been going out for either, so that's a silly excuse for assuming he's ready.
As for what guys enjoy, everyone's different.. so why don't you ask him personally. At least that way, it might make him ease up a little. Talk to him about it. Make him feel more comfortable. Don't just force it.

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heavenspyco answered Monday December 17 2007, 6:27 pm:
Dont push it. He might not be ready. Just because you think you are doesnt mean he is. Remember consider other people and their limits.

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