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We're going on a cruise......


Question Posted Wednesday December 12 2007, 5:33 pm

Ok, me and my best friend are going on a cruise and we want to hang out with people a.k.a. guys...but i have a boyfriend...what should we do?

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orphans answered Thursday December 13 2007, 1:06 pm:
well, your bf might be a bit jealous when you let him know your going on a cruise with guys, but you need to reasure him nothing will happen, and then keep to your promises. If they are truely just friends, then that's cool, there (in my opinion) is nothing bad about going somewhere with guy friends. But the worst thing you could do is lie to him about it, because TRUST ME, they will find out, and that just makes you look like you're hiding something. GoOd LuCk!!!

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Tammers66 answered Thursday December 13 2007, 12:35 am:
well i think you can totally hang out with guys as friends....if your not planning on doing anythng more then its totally fine because im sure your boyfriends hangs out with girls as friends...so i dont see any problem with it....:-)

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Telly24555 answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 11:33 pm:
Depending on what you plan to do with the guys O.o
Though , I must say if you are thinking about being with other guys , You don't like your boyfriend enough to date .

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heavenspyco answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 8:17 pm:
I dont think you should hang out with guys. Have fun with your best friend unless it isnt a good reationship that you have with your boyfriend. In the end it's your decision.

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lambo94317 answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 8:00 pm:
really this is one of the sluttiest questions i have read in a long time.

i have a boyfriend but i want to step out on him and have a week away with my bff and random annonymous dudes.

sounds like you should really either bring your boyfriend along with you, dont go on this cruise, or break up with him before you go so you do not break any bonds of monogamy and trust, if there is any there to begin with.

you may opt to be promiscuous but your boyfriend is not. any diseases you bring back with you from this cruise you have the potential to bring back to him, and he should not have to pay for your indiscretions.

you may honestly be planning to merely "hangout" with other guys, and nothing more, but then you need to ask yourself why you have this complusion to be around other guys other then your boyfriend. it could be that you not mature enough emotionally or physically to be in a relationship and you would be wise to end things on good terms then allow this cycle of immaturity and stupidity end up hurting an innocent man.

thats all.

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thelaura answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 7:56 pm:
Hang out as in friends? That's perfectly acceptable and I'm sure he wouldn't mind if you reassured him you're only making friends.. but you can't blame him for being jealous..
but if you mean hang out meaning to hook up, at least have the courtesy to break up with your boyfriend first. You wouldn't like it if it happened to you, right?

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